Does it ever get easier.

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  • 09-23-2018 12:46 PM
    bollo665
    Does it ever get easier.
    Hey guys I'm 19 years old and have been dealing with hairloss since maybe 15. I've been shaving for a year and it hasn't gotten easier. I obsess over myself and think I have some sort of body dysmorphia. I can't stop looking in the mirror and worrying that my head is too messed up. Hair loss is consuming my life and I'm fighting back as hard as I can but I'm losing. Any advice for to make things easier?
    pictures below.
    http://imgur.com/a/FRHF0dO
  • 09-23-2018 05:21 PM
    Jazz1
    Hey anymore pictures from close zoom and top? Also what have you tried for Hairloss?
  • 09-23-2018 09:02 PM
    DAVE52
    Yes it does and You look fine
    Don't worry about it , live your life.
    Im not a beard person my self but maybe tidy up the beard
  • 09-23-2018 09:03 PM
    Ahab
    Never gets easier. No sooner do you start to adjust, then you lose more and you get mad all over again. And I've had this problem for 50 years.

    And don't let them tell you it's some kind of dysmorphia, they who tell you that, including shrinks, are either willfully blind or just trying to trick you into accepting a terrible condition because no one wants to admit how bad it is when there is no good solution for it.

    You wait: if by some miracle one day they can regrow the hair on our heads again, then suddenly all the "experts" will start to say what a scourge it has been.
  • 09-24-2018 03:13 AM
    bollo665
    Thank you my friend it's very hard but I don't want to give up my life over hair.
  • 09-24-2018 03:14 AM
    bollo665
    I can understand but I can not just roll over and die I need to keep fighting no matter how hard.
  • 09-24-2018 03:48 AM
    BaldBearded
    Rubbish, of course, it gets easier. You've already done the hard part, you decided! You look pretty cool, with a nice shaped head. Now get on with your life!
  • 09-24-2018 04:02 AM
    bollo665
    thanks my dude I laid in bed in tears last night it usually happens whenever I get high I get super insecure so I'm gonna stop smoking and just continue lifting and reading and studying I can't accept that my life is doomed thank you my friend you've helped alot.
  • 09-24-2018 10:28 PM
    BaldBearded
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by bollo665 View Post
    thanks my dude I laid in bed in tears last night it usually happens whenever I get high I get super insecure so I'm gonna stop smoking and just continue lifting and reading and studying I can't accept that my life is doomed thank you my friend you've helped alot.

    You are most welcome. There are tons of miserable, super-negative guys on this forum. They will drag you down.

    https://www.slybaldguys.com/

    You can go here for some really positive support if you need it.

    Best,

    Steve

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