Does it ever get easier.

[bollo665]

Hey guys I'm 19 years old and have been dealing with hairloss since maybe 15. I've been shaving for a year and it hasn't gotten easier. I obsess over myself and think I have some sort of body dysmorphia. I can't stop looking in the mirror and worrying that my head is too messed up. Hair loss is consuming my life and I'm fighting back as hard as I can but I'm losing. Any advice for to make things easier?
pictures below.

http://imgur.com/a/FRHF0dO

[DAVE52]

Yes it does and You look fine
Don't worry about it , live your life.
Im not a beard person my self but maybe tidy up the beard

[Ahab]

Never gets easier. No sooner do you start to adjust, then you lose more and you get mad all over again. And I've had this problem for 50 years.

And don't let them tell you it's some kind of dysmorphia, they who tell you that, including shrinks, are either willfully blind or just trying to trick you into accepting a terrible condition because no one wants to admit how bad it is when there is no good solution for it.

You wait: if by some miracle one day they can regrow the hair on our heads again, then suddenly all the "experts" will start to say what a scourge it has been.

[bollo665]

Thank you my friend it's very hard but I don't want to give up my life over hair.

[bollo665]

I can understand but I can not just roll over and die I need to keep fighting no matter how hard.

[BaldBearded]

Rubbish, of course, it gets easier. You've already done the hard part, you decided! You look pretty cool, with a nice shaped head. Now get on with your life!

[bollo665]

thanks my dude I laid in bed in tears last night it usually happens whenever I get high I get super insecure so I'm gonna stop smoking and just continue lifting and reading and studying I can't accept that my life is doomed thank you my friend you've helped alot.

[BaldBearded]

thanks my dude I laid in bed in tears last night it usually happens whenever I get high I get super insecure so I'm gonna stop smoking and just continue lifting and reading and studying I can't accept that my life is doomed thank you my friend you've helped alot.

You are most welcome. There are tons of miserable, super-negative guys on this forum. They will drag you down.

https://www.slybaldguys.com/

You can go here for some really positive support if you need it.

Best,

Steve