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  • gmonasco
    Inactive
    • Apr 2010
    • 865

    #16
    In terms of appearance, the point I was making is that very few people find baldness attractive, but a lot of people can look beyond such a flaw. For example, women are less attracted to looks than men and will therefore date a man who is bald not because they're attracted to a bare scalp but despite it.
    Your statement falsely presumes that:

    a) Women in general perceive hair loss in men as a "flaw."

    b) Not finding a feature attractive is the same thing as finding a feature unattractive (rather than simply regarding the feature as neutral, neither positive nor negative).

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    • Fixed by 35
      Senior Member
      • Mar 2010
      • 618

      #17
      a) Women in general perceive hair loss in men as a "flaw."
      I think they do. That's why women will often say they could love a man despite their hair loss, not because of it. I strongly recommend you put what women say on this subject under scrutiny, because this tends to be the trend that I've picked up.

      My theory is that for most women, hair loss is a flaw but not a 'deal breaker.' However, it is also very damaging to all important first impressions (perhaps this is why women deserve to be messed around by 'perfect' looking bastards) which means it's much harder for any deals to be done!

      I think the major concern for a balding man though should not be women but their careers, especially if they work for an alpha male with lots of hair. Do bear in mind WE hate baldness, so they probably do too. And as a result, we make a bad first impression on them.

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      • jooder
        Senior Member
        • May 2010
        • 170

        #18
        Originally posted by Fixed by 35
        Do bear in mind WE hate baldness, so they probably do too. And as a result, we make a bad first impression on them.
        It is the men who let their baldness affect them who come last. If a bald man went on a date with the 'im bald, i know she wont be attracted to me' attitude.......then she wont be! Your emotions are always revealed by your body language.

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        • Weedwacker
          Senior Member
          • Sep 2010
          • 109

          #19
          I think the major concern for a balding man though should not be women but their careers, especially if they work for an alpha male with lots of hair.

          Alpha male?

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          • Weedwacker
            Senior Member
            • Sep 2010
            • 109

            #20
            The Dildo Cure

            I can't believe how pathetic everyone is to complain about hairloss. I bought a 7 inch dildo and glued it to my forehead. Now when I go out, people don't even notice my baldness;they just notice the dildo! This is so easy to deal with. There are plenty of viable solutions for hairloss.

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            • mattj
              Doctor Representative
              • Oct 2009
              • 1421

              #21
              Originally posted by Weedwacker
              I can't believe how pathetic everyone is to complain about hairloss. I bought a 7 inch dildo and glued it to my forehead. Now when I go out, people don't even notice my baldness;they just notice the dildo! This is so easy to deal with. There are plenty of viable solutions for hairloss.
              The second you get called "that bald guy with the dildo" is the time to get that thing removed.
              I am a patient and representative of Dr Rahal

              My FUE With Dr Rahal - Awesome Hairline Result

              I can be contacted for advice: matt@rahalhairline.com

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              • Fixed by 35
                Senior Member
                • Mar 2010
                • 618

                #22
                I just hope the solution is around the corner. It's stolen my 20s now and I really want to enjoy my 30s. It'll be nice to be me again.

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                • jooder
                  Senior Member
                  • May 2010
                  • 170

                  #23
                  Originally posted by Fixed by 35
                  I just hope the solution is around the corner. It's stolen my 20s now and I really want to enjoy my 30s. It'll be nice to be me again.
                  Your hair or lack of it doesnt define you as a person. Maybe as you get older you will realise that. You are you regardless of whether you have hair, no hair or a dildo on your head!

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