In terms of appearance, the point I was making is that very few people find baldness attractive, but a lot of people can look beyond such a flaw. For example, women are less attracted to looks than men and will therefore date a man who is bald not because they're attracted to a bare scalp but despite it.
a) Women in general perceive hair loss in men as a "flaw."
b) Not finding a feature attractive is the same thing as finding a feature unattractive (rather than simply regarding the feature as neutral, neither positive nor negative).
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