Even though I'm Norwood 7, how do I approach women at mall or grocery store?

[FlightTL]

I get really nervous around women. With hair loss it is 10x more nervous, because they'll stare at the extreme baldness.

How do I approach? How to not scare them off? How do I ask them to a date? What do I say?


I am a failure with women...

[walrus]

I get really nervous around women. With hair loss it is 10x more nervous, because they'll stare at the extreme baldness.

How do I approach? How to not scare them off? How do I ask them to a date? What do I say?


I am a failure with women...

Or try something like online dating.

[Kudu]

To me and all my friends, it's hard to meet ladies at the mall anyway. Generally they're either doing there own thing with their friends, shopping with their boyfriends, or just shopping and want to be left alone. There's better places to meet women. Go to concerts, bars, the beach, or anywhere where the social situation is more relaxed.

[Hicks]

Go to a PUA forum and ask.

Try going to meetups from meetup.c

[baldozer]

Who approaches women at malls and grocery stores? That would definitely make women creep out, no matter whether you are bald or not. One suggestion though would be to try to lose weight (if you are overweight) and try to improve yourself in terms of money and status.

[Morbo]

Stop acting like you're 16 years old, get a job, grow some balls.

[fred970]

Yeah with a job, he'll be able to say "Hey I have a job" to those girls at the mall. Then he will close for sure.

[thechamp]

Don't follow any pua advice especially all the pick up videos all scripted ,I meet puas years ago who used to hang with mystery all money making scammers, also goodlooking looser is a scammer too he has a lot of bullshit ATM , goodlooking looser also sells hair loss products for hair loss with steroids.

[FlightTL]

Who approaches women at malls and grocery stores? That would definitely make women creep out, no matter whether you are bald or not. One suggestion though would be to try to lose weight (if you are overweight) and try to improve yourself in terms of money and status.

makes sense...

[Joan]

Actually, the grocery store can be a great place to meet women. I shop the same day & time every week, and I've become friendly with some regulars and workers. Although I'm happily married, men still occasionally hit on me, and I'd actually date some of them if I were single. My advice would be to frequent a few places (coffee shop, for example) on a regular basis where other women might be doing the same. All the suggestions above are good too.

[Notcoolanymore]

I like the online dating suggestion. That way you can just put everything out there and let the woman decide if she is interested. Then you don't have to worry about what she will think about you being a nw7 because she would already know.

[Morbo]

Yeah with a job, he'll be able to say "Hey I have a job" to those girls at the mall. Then he will close for sure.

The guy is like 29-30 years old and virtually everyday he's making threads or post like this, writing stupid shit like this, like he's still in junior high. If his real life persona is anything like his online persona, he literally has no chance, regardless whether or not there's hair on his head. Girls want a guy who's fun, ambitious and doesn't spend 12 hours a day on feeling sorry for himself. As Baldozer said, they want a guy who's independent, can (financially) take care of them and yeah maybe status. I guarantee you, if he manages to get 5 minutes of them and they find out he's unemployed, half of them will will lose interest. You know that as well as I do.

[FlightTL]

I like the online dating suggestion. That way you can just put everything out there and let the woman decide if she is interested. Then you don't have to worry about what she will think about you being a nw7 because she would already know.

True.

[fred970]

In my experience, women will sleep with utter losers who have nothing going for them. Women don't necessarily reward good behaviour (having a good job, being nice etc.) when it comes to mating. I know a lot of women who go out with men who are complete failure and spend their time playing videogames. Thinking women only sleep with men who have a good situation is just wishful thinking, or even completely the opposite of reality in most cases. But to realise that, you actually have to approach women and befriend some. The more you truly know women, the more you will find their behaviour and though patterns disgusting.

[FlightTL]

The guy is like 29-30 years old and virtually everyday he's making threads or post like this, writing stupid shit like this, like he's still in junior high. If his real life persona is anything like his online persona, he literally has no chance, regardless whether or not there's hair on his head. Girls want a guy who's fun, ambitious and doesn't spend 12 hours a day on feeling sorry for himself. As Baldozer said, they want a guy who's independent, can (financially) take care of them and yeah maybe status. I guarantee you, if he manages to get 5 minutes of them and they find out he's unemployed, half of them will will lose interest. You know that as well as I do.

I respect your opinion.

I wish I had a full time job. Right now, just a part-time office helper.