Hi all,
For the past 2 or 3 months, I've been experiencing more hair loss than usual. The thing that really scares me is that most of the hairs are peach fuzz, not at all uncommon for MPB. My normal hair length on top is about 6-8 cm, and these thin hairs are 1cm max. They're very thin and they sometimes even look like dust. Furthermore, the top of my scalp is starting to feel thinner than the sides. My temples have receded very slightly, but that's not yet a big deal. My hair loss isn't visible yet, but it is definitely noticable when I feel. Besides, the amount of hairs and the kind of hairs that fall out say enough.
This all points out to MPB. The thing is, I'm 16 years old. While not impossible, it seems incredibly unreal to me. I recently listened to a podcast of Spencer Kobren who gave advice to another 16 year old boy who had MPB (can't find the link right now). That was kind of reassuring, but only for a little bit. My point is, I really want to know if this is MPB and not something else. Again, it seems highly unlikely that this is something else than MPB and maybe I'm just delusional. But who knows.
Since two years ago, I have 4 very stressful periods each year. In this periods I have exams, which often result in an average of ~2-3 hours a sleep a night for ~1,5 week, which is pretty stressful. Is there perhaps a very slim chance that my hair condition is TE? Even though of all the peach fuzz and the thinning, which seems to be happening almost exclusively on the top of my head and not on the sides?
I should note that my dad was already balding in his early twenties and my brother (21) is getting a very thin crown. These things probably don't speak in my favour... I have also recently contacted a hairclinic (I thought hairclinics weren't for HT only but also for regular examination when taking propecia/applying minoxidil/etc), but they said I was too young to get a treatment at their clinic: I had to be 18 at least. They did give me some advise to take: "natural multi vitamines", "Natural vitamine hairplus (probably some kind of hairshampoo from the supermarket)", "Vitaal Shampoo" and "Haarkuur-conditioner" (it's dutch for hairconditioner or something like that). If this wouldn't give me any results within 5-6 months, there wouldn't be anything they could do for me anymore.
Yeah. So that's that. Most dermatologists know **** all about hair loss and the only hairclinic in my area doesn't want to treat me because of my age. I have talked to my parents about my hair loss, but they seemed to have their doubts. "You're only 16, I don't think you're experiencing hair loss already." or "Have you counted all the hairs that have been falling out? It's normal to lose around a 100 hairs a day". Well, I haven't counted my hairs but based on what is laying on my keyboard in front of me right now, 250 hairs is a pretty safe assumption.
Another thing is that I am not sure yet if I really want medication to 'fix' my hair loss. It would mean that I would be entering a world of a lot of insecurity about my hair. I'd be constantly checking if I'm shedding a lot of hairs, if my hairline is receding, if my crown is thinning and so on. And I'm then I haven't even begun about possible side effects, the inconvenience and the cost. If I would be able to accept my hair loss, I would be free from MPB. Forever. But you all know it: that's not something that's going to come overnight.
Sorry for the long story but it feels really good to vent and to put my thoughts in perspective. What should I do next? Any advice or tips?
Thanks in advance.
For the past 2 or 3 months, I've been experiencing more hair loss than usual. The thing that really scares me is that most of the hairs are peach fuzz, not at all uncommon for MPB. My normal hair length on top is about 6-8 cm, and these thin hairs are 1cm max. They're very thin and they sometimes even look like dust. Furthermore, the top of my scalp is starting to feel thinner than the sides. My temples have receded very slightly, but that's not yet a big deal. My hair loss isn't visible yet, but it is definitely noticable when I feel. Besides, the amount of hairs and the kind of hairs that fall out say enough.
This all points out to MPB. The thing is, I'm 16 years old. While not impossible, it seems incredibly unreal to me. I recently listened to a podcast of Spencer Kobren who gave advice to another 16 year old boy who had MPB (can't find the link right now). That was kind of reassuring, but only for a little bit. My point is, I really want to know if this is MPB and not something else. Again, it seems highly unlikely that this is something else than MPB and maybe I'm just delusional. But who knows.
Since two years ago, I have 4 very stressful periods each year. In this periods I have exams, which often result in an average of ~2-3 hours a sleep a night for ~1,5 week, which is pretty stressful. Is there perhaps a very slim chance that my hair condition is TE? Even though of all the peach fuzz and the thinning, which seems to be happening almost exclusively on the top of my head and not on the sides?
I should note that my dad was already balding in his early twenties and my brother (21) is getting a very thin crown. These things probably don't speak in my favour... I have also recently contacted a hairclinic (I thought hairclinics weren't for HT only but also for regular examination when taking propecia/applying minoxidil/etc), but they said I was too young to get a treatment at their clinic: I had to be 18 at least. They did give me some advise to take: "natural multi vitamines", "Natural vitamine hairplus (probably some kind of hairshampoo from the supermarket)", "Vitaal Shampoo" and "Haarkuur-conditioner" (it's dutch for hairconditioner or something like that). If this wouldn't give me any results within 5-6 months, there wouldn't be anything they could do for me anymore.
Yeah. So that's that. Most dermatologists know **** all about hair loss and the only hairclinic in my area doesn't want to treat me because of my age. I have talked to my parents about my hair loss, but they seemed to have their doubts. "You're only 16, I don't think you're experiencing hair loss already." or "Have you counted all the hairs that have been falling out? It's normal to lose around a 100 hairs a day". Well, I haven't counted my hairs but based on what is laying on my keyboard in front of me right now, 250 hairs is a pretty safe assumption.
Another thing is that I am not sure yet if I really want medication to 'fix' my hair loss. It would mean that I would be entering a world of a lot of insecurity about my hair. I'd be constantly checking if I'm shedding a lot of hairs, if my hairline is receding, if my crown is thinning and so on. And I'm then I haven't even begun about possible side effects, the inconvenience and the cost. If I would be able to accept my hair loss, I would be free from MPB. Forever. But you all know it: that's not something that's going to come overnight.
Sorry for the long story but it feels really good to vent and to put my thoughts in perspective. What should I do next? Any advice or tips?
Thanks in advance.
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