Hair loss best thing that ever happened to me.

[Notcoolanymore]

Why else would you want your hair?

If you thought you looked good without hair and thought you wouldn't have a problem getting those things, right?

Are you genuinely saying that you only care about your hair because it makes you think you look better, regardless of how other people see you?

step 1, hair ---> step 2, getting those things??


If I thought I didn't need my hair to get those things, I wouldn't give a shit about my hair...

That is exactly what I am saying. When I started losing my hair, I was in a long term relationship so my first thought wasn't "oh my god, I will never get laid again".

Suppose you had everything: great job, hot wife, etc. Would you really not give a crap if you looked like shit? I think you would. I definitely would. I have a decent amount of success in my life and an attractive wife, but I am still on this site. Why, because I want to do whatever I can to always try to look my best. I am not going to preach to you guys and say that looks don't matter, because I don't believe that. With that being said being bald doesn't guarantee you will not be able to succeed in life, unless you decide to let that happen.

[redy]

Why else would you want your hair?

If you thought you looked good without hair and thought you wouldn't have a problem getting those things, right?

Are you genuinely saying that you only care about your hair because it makes you think you look better, regardless of how other people see you?

step 1, hair ---> step 2, getting those things??


If I thought I didn't need my hair to get those things, I wouldn't give a shit about my hair...

[Notcoolanymore]

I respect the iron men that can ignore watching their looks fade away one day at a time because they are stronger then I am. The more important you hair was to your looks I think plays a part in how hard it affects someone. I want my hair and I could give a crap less if I have money, girls or whatever else.

This is the case for me too. For me it is all about looking in the mirror and liking what I see. Everything else is secondary. If somebody can shave their head and look in the mirror and be fine with it, then great, continue to do it. It just isn't for me at this point.

[burtandernie]

I respect the iron men that can ignore watching their looks fade away one day at a time because they are stronger then I am. The more important you hair was to your looks I think plays a part in how hard it affects someone. I want my hair and I could give a crap less if I have money, girls or whatever else.

[akai]

When I was in my late twenties and looking thin on top, I did commonly get the cold treatment from women my age. In my own experience, women past 30, seem more concerned about their own looks and less determined to land the trophy face man. 35 can be a humbling age for many women where the grey hairs, wrinkles and assorted sags begin to set in. Around 35, the bald guy with money, self confidence and a solid physique begins looking pretty good to them.

Chuck

LMAO, reminds me of this Louis CK bit:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ohbv6haI1aQ

Men with options date younger. If you're 35 with money, confidence, and a great physique you're a fool to be dating 35+ year old women.

[Notcoolanymore]

Seriously, who cares and wants to be with women over 35, who have had 40 boyfriends before! And women over 35 are reproductively senile anyway. Men generally want to stay away from them.

Difference between a top notch woman and a hood rat right there. Top notch 35 year old hasn't been around the block 50x, and still is in better shape than most 25 year olds. The dusty, nasty, used up 35 year olds are the ones baldozer is speaking of. I avoid those women like the plague, so should all of you.

[35YrsAfter]

Seriously, who cares and wants to be with women over 35, who have had 40 boyfriends before! And women over 35 are reproductively senile anyway. Men generally want to stay away from them.

When I was 28, I had a girlfriend who told me she had over 100 previous boyfriends. She seemed proud of that but I certainly wasn't impressed.

When you get to be my age 35 is young! When I was 21, 30 seemed old. Cougars and Sugar Daddies are a minority. I remember meeting a guy years ago who was 21, married to a lady in her forties. Not something I would not want to do.

To answer your question; Who cares and wants to be with women over 35? A man past 35.

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[redy]

this thread went from uplifting to degrading in the blink of an eye, so just like most threads

[baldozer]

When I was in my late twenties and looking thin on top, I did commonly get the cold treatment from women my age. In my own experience, women past 30, seem more concerned about their own looks and less determined to land the trophy face man. 35 can be a humbling age for many women where the grey hairs, wrinkles and assorted sags begin to set in. Around 35, the bald guy with money, self confidence and a solid physique begins looking pretty good to them.

Chuck

Seriously, who cares and wants to be with women over 35, who have had 40 boyfriends before! And women over 35 are reproductively senile anyway. Men generally want to stay away from them.

[35YrsAfter]

Of course, when a man would get a lot of female attention, he would obviously become arrogant. Its because its very rare for a man to be attractive to women, so those who are, can consider themselves to be very lucky. However, as much as women hate such men after being dumped by them, they would always be attracted to those guys first. That is why you would often read women saying how looks are so unimportant, and then they would go on to tell you how they dated a very handsome guy and he turned out to be an asshole and such. Its the same story for most women. Only after being dumped by such alpha males, those women would start looking for a so called nice guy with money. That is why many men nowadays consider marriage to be a lose lose situation, as they know that a woman can't ever be genuinely attracted to a beta male. And don't believe a woman when she says that looks are unimportant. Its very very important for them.

When I was in my late twenties and looking thin on top, I did commonly get the cold treatment from women my age. In my own experience, women past 30, seem more concerned about their own looks and less determined to land the trophy face man. 35 can be a humbling age for many women where the grey hairs, wrinkles and assorted sags begin to set in. Around 35, the bald guy with money, self confidence and a solid physique begins looking pretty good to them.

Chuck

[baldozer]

I think men need to be reminded of this. Women seem to like a timid, out of shape wimpy guy, the least. There really are only a small percentage of men that are genuinely good looking. Many women I have met complain, the good looking men can often be egocentric, insensitive, and unfaithful.


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Of course, when a man would get a lot of female attention, he would obviously become arrogant. Its because its very rare for a man to be attractive to women, so those who are, can consider themselves to be very lucky. However, as much as women hate such men after being dumped by them, they would always be attracted to those guys first. That is why you would often read women saying how looks are so unimportant, and then they would go on to tell you how they dated a very handsome guy and he turned out to be an asshole and such. Its the same story for most women. Only after being dumped by such alpha males, those women would start looking for a so called nice guy with money. That is why many men nowadays consider marriage to be a lose lose situation, as they know that a woman can't ever be genuinely attracted to a beta male. And don't believe a woman when she says that looks are unimportant. Its very very important for them.

[35YrsAfter]

The problem is that women find very few men attractive. I read a scientific study which found out that men find most of the women attractive, while women only found few men attractive, like less than 20% or so. So, women even find most of men with hair unattractive.

I think men need to be reminded of this. Women seem to like a timid, out of shape wimpy guy, the least. There really are only a small percentage of men that are genuinely good looking. Many women I have met complain, the good looking men can often be egocentric, insensitive, and unfaithful.


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[baldozer]

Both can do fine, but a guy with a good head of hair and an attractive face will never have a problem getting laid as long as he doesn't get fat.

The problem is that women find very few men attractive. I read a scientific study which found out that men find most of the women attractive, while women only found few men attractive, like less than 20% or so. So, women even find most of men with hair unattractive.

[redy]

Both can do fine, but a guy with a good head of hair and an attractive face will never have a problem getting laid as long as he doesn't get fat.

I'm highly introverted and always have been. I would almost never approach girls anywhere unless they made it painfully obvious that they wanted me to.. I'm pretty sure I would be considered attractive but wouldn't consider myself to do all that well with girls/women/females - unless I know them. There is no black and white to this stuff. It's crazy easy to just think "well shit if I had hair I'd be knee deep in women" instead of actually going out and doing what you can with what you have.

[35YrsAfter]

Both can do fine, but a guy with a good head of hair and an attractive face will never have a problem getting laid as long as he doesn't get fat.

Pretty much universal... Women hate the beer gut on a man like most men are turned off by rhino haunches on a woman.

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