Saw a Norwood 6 at the club, making out with two 10s...

[FlightTL]

Well, he had the Norwood 6 pattern. But I think he had a lot of thin hairs, so it wasn't slick bald. He definately when he wasnt under lighting, you could see a lot of thin hairs on top, but overall Norwood 6 pattern. His hair was cut short, I'm guessing a number 2.

So, he had two beautiful ladies in both arms. I was I think Spanish and the other had a tan but was Caucasian. Both girls were HOT, and I mean cover girl hot, and they could not take their hands off this guy. I mean they were kissing him and touching him all over. They loved this guy.

So, I tried to take as many mental notes as possible. First off this guy was handsome. I am not at all, so that hurts. Secondly, he was tall, I mean at least 6 ft. I am not, I'm 5'8. So that hurts.

But okay, I tried to look for other things that I could find. He dressed sharp, he had a white shirt on with dark jeans. Okay that I can control. And I'm guessing he was fit cuz his shirt fit well.

.........................................
So, well I'm not handsome at all or tall, so I cant change that, but what about:

1. Should I get a transplant to get thin hairs up top in a norwood 6 pattern, to copy him?

2. Dress really well, and dont give up on the gym?



I AM SO HAPPY FOR THAT GUY....

[Notcoolanymore]

Those two women he was with were "professional women", if you know what I mean.

[drybone]

There are other ways to get sexy women. Be hung like a horse. Be a millionaire. Be in olympic athlete shape.

Its not an excuse to be horse shoe bald. The whole point to having hair isnt to snag women. Its to make you look and feel better when YOU look in the mirror.

[Notcoolanymore]

There are other ways to get sexy women. Be hung like a horse. Be a millionaire. Be in olympic athlete shape.

Its not an excuse to be horse shoe bald. The whole point to having hair isnt to snag women. Its to make you look and feel better when YOU look in the mirror.

yup

[baldozer]

People, especially most of the posters on this forum, assume that anyone who is bald is ugly. Not true. Take the example of Zidane. That guy can be a NW7 and still look awesome. The more good looking face you have, the less hair you need to look good. Secondly, men can always experiment with facial hair to look better even if they are bald.

[redy]

People, especially most of the posters on this forum, assume that anyone who is bald is ugly. Not true. Take the example of Zidane. That guy can be a NW7 and still look awesome. The more good looking face you have, the less hair you need to look good. Secondly, men can always experiment with facial hair to look better even if they are bald.

I think the face thing gets tricky when you take forehead size into consideration

that's what I'm mostly worried about. I'm completely OK with buzzing my hair off and doing what I want to do, but my forehead is massive and it severely throws off the balance of my face. I constantly am getting complimented on how my hair looks better at a medium long length (2-3 inches on the front hanging down a bit) which really makes me sad because I can barely pull it off with my thinning hairline right now and it's a huge hassle to style and I'm afraid of wind.

[Dav7]

There are other ways to get sexy women. Be hung like a horse. Be a millionaire. Be in olympic athlete shape.

Its not an excuse to be horse shoe bald. The whole point to having hair isnt to snag women. Its to make you look and feel better when YOU look in the mirror.

Touche. I honestly don't care less when (a lot) of women say "hair doesn't matter on guys", or "bald guys are hot" because even if every last woman on earth turned around tomorrow and said bald guys are better (not likely) I'd still want to keep my hair, or as much of it as possible.

[intheatlas]

Hey FlightTL,

I bet there were also plenty of guys with full heads of hair with no girls at that club right?

Come on guys, just do the best you can, get in shape, grow some balls, some confidence and that's it.

[Mike K]

Those two women he was with were "professional women", if you know what I mean.

By the story you're describing, this scenario may actually be likely. Honestly though if banging hookers and bringing a couple of them to a club will give you some confidence I don't see the problem with it. Just wear a condom and get tested. Hell its perfectly legal in a lot of Nevada.

5'8" isn't bad dude. Wikipedia says the average 20-29 year old woman in the US is 5'4.5". Just hit on short girls. Also there is some crazy surgery where they break your leg bones and stretch them out making you taller. Some guy in New York did it and went from 5'6" to 6". I mean I know that's really drastic measures but I'm just making you aware of this if you absolutely must be taller than 5'8".

In answer to your specific questions:

1. I think you should go to a hair transplant surgeon and see what your options are. An FUE & SMP combo may make you even better looking than that guy you saw. It might look and feel like you have a buzz cut with full coverage.

2. Yes. Why wouldn't you dress well and workout? What possible reason would you not?

[Notcoolanymore]

People, especially most of the posters on this forum, assume that anyone who is bald is ugly. Not true. Take the example of Zidane. That guy can be a NW7 and still look awesome. The more good looking face you have, the less hair you need to look good. Secondly, men can always experiment with facial hair to look better even if they are bald.

Very good post. Hair loss doesn't automatically make you unattractive. Now I would say that many(if not most) are unable to pull of the look unfortunately. Hair loss alone is not enough to keep you from getting a good looking girlfriend.

[burtandernie]

Yeah I honestly like my hair because it helps define how I see myself and feel about myself. It has little to do with anyone else. Its also that MPB even slight hair loss causes you to look older whether that is good or not. Really for me girls are a very tiny factor if even at all.
Like he says you can get hot girls in lots of ways it doesnt mean much really. They come and go but your hair is always with you.

[Notcoolanymore]

Its not an excuse to be horse shoe bald. The whole point to having hair isnt to snag women. Its to make you look and feel better when YOU look in the mirror.

This post is a very important one. Self image makes a huge difference when it comes to success with women, business, life, etc. Baldozer is confident in the way he looks without hair. Baldozer could look like crap(I am not saying this is the case), but in his eyes when he looks in the mirror he likes what he sees. I am sure when he met his wife he wasn't walking around with his head down saying: "I am ugly and bald and girls don't like me". FlightTL is really his own worst enemy. Lack of confidence is really killing him right now. I am sure his hair loss isn't the only reason he is not getting any action from women at this point.

[akai]

People, especially most of the posters on this forum, assume that anyone who is bald is ugly. Not true. Take the example of Zidane. That guy can be a NW7 and still look awesome. The more good looking face you have, the less hair you need to look good. Secondly, men can always experiment with facial hair to look better even if they are bald.

When you're an average twenty something year old kid trying to pull college aged and up women it's going to affect your dating life in some capacity. It is what it is. Do the best you can do with the hand you're dealt. If treatment works, great. If not, focus on other things you can improve.

[FlightTL]

This post is a very important one. Self image makes a huge difference when it comes to success with women, business, life, etc. Baldozer is confident in the way he looks without hair. Baldozer could look like crap(I am not saying this is the case), but in his eyes when he looks in the mirror he likes what he sees. I am sure when he met his wife he wasn't walking around with his head down saying: "I am ugly and bald and girls don't like me". FlightTL is really his own worst enemy. Lack of confidence is really killing him right now. I am sure his hair loss isn't the only reason he is not getting any action from women at this point.

You are right. I have extremely low self esteem.

I have been called ugly to my face plenty of times. I have been laughed at so much. I have been said 'oh look at the hair line, wait you dont have any' and 'damn your forehead is so large', or 'damn your nose is so big, and your bald'...

IT HURTS...I don't know what I did to deserve this fate. But the emotional pain is a lot. And being rejected by women left and right is hard...really hard.

So, since I am not good looking at all, I don't know how to fix that. The only thing I can maybe do is give myself a somewhat of a frame maybe a Norwood 3ish....And wear nicer clothes...

But still, it hurts...

[rev3]

You are right. I have extremely low self esteem.

I have been called ugly to my face plenty of times. I have been laughed at so much. I have been said 'oh look at the hair line, wait you dont have any' and 'damn your forehead is so large', or 'damn your nose is so big, and your bald'...

IT HURTS...I don't know what I did to deserve this fate. But the emotional pain is a lot. And being rejected by women left and right is hard...really hard.

So, since I am not good looking at all, I don't know how to fix that. The only thing I can maybe do is give myself a somewhat of a frame maybe a Norwood 3ish....And wear nicer clothes...

But still, it hurts...

then fix your face too
cosmetic surgery doesn't have to stop at HT

make a plan, save up then do whatever you need to do to feel better about the way you look. Rhinoplasty, jaw implants, and fillers can go a looooong way.

don't give up
GIVE IN... to other types of cosmetic surgery

good luck