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  • FlightTL
    Senior Member
    • Jun 2011
    • 841

    Dont have the strength to move on...

    Hair loss is so emotionally painful.....

    I 've been suffering for 12 years... I started balding at 15, and am now a full Norwood 7.....I am not good looking at all, am unemployed, and I just feel there is literally no hope left.




    Joe from SI, I feel your pain, buddy....I feel your pain
  • crafter
    Senior Member
    • Sep 2013
    • 239

    #2
    Originally posted by FlightTL
    Hair loss is so emotionally painful.....

    I 've been suffering for 12 years... I started balding at 15, and am now a full Norwood 7.....I am not good looking at all, am unemployed, and I just feel there is literally no hope left.




    Joe from SI, I feel your pain, buddy....I feel your pain
    all you can do is make the most of what you have and do your best, career wise etc. You're still only young and there could be some new treatment whilst you're still young.

    Other people cope with being bald, get good jobs, married and so on, so there's no reason why you shouldn't too. Bilk up and join a rugby club, be a man. Rarrr

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    • Notcoolanymore
      Senior Member
      • Jun 2013
      • 2246

      #3
      There he is! I was wondering when we were going to get another: I surrender, I give up, I don't have the strength, depressed with hair loss, etc, etc, pathetic thread that he never returns to.

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      • crafter
        Senior Member
        • Sep 2013
        • 239

        #4
        Originally posted by Notcoolanymore
        There he is! I was wondering when we were going to get another: I surrender, I give up, I don't have the strength, depressed with hair loss, etc, etc, pathetic thread that he never returns to.
        perhaps he just wanted to vent some steam

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        • Notcoolanymore
          Senior Member
          • Jun 2013
          • 2246

          #5
          Originally posted by crafter
          perhaps he just wanted to vent some steam
          I am totally cool with that. This hair loss crap can be a son of a bitch. The MO of this guy is to come on here about once a week and post one of his patented "I give up" blah blah blah threads and never return. If somebody was really looking for help or to blow off some steam, they would at least stick around and interact with the people that commented on his thread. Many people usually make comments in support of this guy and still no replies.

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          • greatjob!
            Senior Member
            • Aug 2011
            • 909

            #6
            Sometimes, it's all within a span of 2 hours...other times its spread out... Is this okay????? Sometimes, it sooooo hard to control myself.

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            • FlightTL
              Senior Member
              • Jun 2011
              • 841

              #7
              Originally posted by crafter
              perhaps he just wanted to vent some steam
              Thanks for your support.

              If my hair loss was a minor Norwood 2-3, I could get away with it. My mine is a full blown 70-year old grandpa norwood. No-one wants to emotionally suffer this way...Too late for finasteride....What can a hair transplant do for me....I've been told nothing...

              On top of that, I do not look good at all, as in not handsome at all....

              It's very hard when society places such high importance on good looks....

              Also, I do not have the head shape to clip it off and move on....I just dont....


              That is why I understand the pain of Joe from SI.... I really do.

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              • Notcoolanymore
                Senior Member
                • Jun 2013
                • 2246

                #8
                Dude, I have been thinking about this. If you are not a major league troll, then I apologize. I am not a nw7 so I cannot put myself in your shoes. I have been losing my hair since my early 20's and went through my fair share of anger and depression. But you have to pick yourself up. Improve what you can. You say your head shape sucks. I guarantee your hair will look better with a close neat buzz, instead of the thick on the sides and back nw7 style. I will repeat what is said many times around here, get yourself in shape. You don't even need a gym membership to get started: push ups, sit ups, and pull ups. You don't have to turn yourself in to a body builder to look better. So your face isn't great, the rest of you can be.

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                • crafter
                  Senior Member
                  • Sep 2013
                  • 239

                  #9
                  Originally posted by FlightTL
                  Thanks for your support.

                  If my hair loss was a minor Norwood 2-3, I could get away with it. My mine is a full blown 70-year old grandpa norwood. No-one wants to emotionally suffer this way...Too late for finasteride....What can a hair transplant do for me....I've been told nothing...

                  On top of that, I do not look good at all, as in not handsome at all....

                  It's very hard when society places such high importance on good looks....

                  Also, I do not have the head shape to clip it off and move on....I just dont....


                  That is why I understand the pain of Joe from SI.... I really do.
                  self pity and loathing is more unattractive than baldness,

                  just keep yr hair short and stop looking in mirror, use fin and min, get on with life and hope something comes out soonish. Maybe get a ht too - can make some difference

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                  • FlightTL
                    Senior Member
                    • Jun 2011
                    • 841

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Notcoolanymore
                    Dude, I have been thinking about this. If you are not a major league troll, then I apologize. I am not a nw7 so I cannot put myself in your shoes. I have been losing my hair since my early 20's and went through my fair share of anger and depression. But you have to pick yourself up. Improve what you can. You say your head shape sucks. I guarantee your hair will look better with a close neat buzz, instead of the thick on the sides and back nw7 style. I will repeat what is said many times around here, get yourself in shape. You don't even need a gym membership to get started: push ups, sit ups, and pull ups. You don't have to turn yourself in to a body builder to look better. So your face isn't great, the rest of you can be.
                    Thanks.

                    I wish that you will never suffer the way I have.

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