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  • FlightTL
    Senior Member
    • Jun 2011
    • 841

    They laughed at me because of my hairloss.

    The other night, I went out to a restaurant, and this guy(whom I dont know) took one look at my balding Norwood 6 scalp, and started laughing at me in such a derogatory manner.

    Then a while back at a wedding reception, this one guy who saw me back in college days(we never knew each other, but saw each other walking on campus), took one look at my balding Norwood 6, and in such a mean and negative vibration filled way, arrogantly smiled and just walked past me while laughing in a mean and negative vibe way, and just harmed me like crazy.





    Today i was feeling so sad at my hairloss, that I just went to a restaurant and killed it. I ordered a 3 big burgers, and 4 huge slices of pizza. I washed it all down with 2 large diet sodas and dessert.


    I feel so depressed at my hairloss.....

    Those mean people harmed me with their negative vibes and just made fun of me and laughed at me.


  • Aeroes
    Senior Member
    • Feb 2013
    • 159

    #2
    Originally posted by FlightTL
    The other night, I went out to a restaurant, and this guy(whom I dont know) took one look at my balding Norwood 6 scalp, and started laughing at me in such a derogatory manner.

    Then a while back at a wedding reception, this one guy who saw me back in college days(we never knew each other, but saw each other walking on campus), took one look at my balding Norwood 6, and in such a mean and negative vibration filled way, arrogantly smiled and just walked past me while laughing in a mean and negative vibe way, and just harmed me like crazy.





    Today i was feeling so sad at my hairloss, that I just went to a restaurant and killed it. I ordered a 3 big burgers, and 4 huge slices of pizza. I washed it all down with 2 large diet sodas and dessert.


    I feel so depressed at my hairloss.....

    Those mean people harmed me with their negative vibes and just made fun of me and laughed at me.


    More importantly..How do you hold yourself? are you overweight? do you take pride in your appearance?

    Sure you can have a bald head which stands out, but are you making the effort to dress nicely, eat healthy and having a nice physique. Sure it's not a thick head of hair, though it can help.

    Cheers,

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    • Kayman
      Senior Member
      • Dec 2012
      • 260

      #3
      Originally posted by Aeroes
      More importantly..How do you hold yourself? are you overweight? do you take pride in your appearance?

      Sure you can have a bald head which stands out, but are you making the effort to dress nicely, eat healthy and having a nice physique. Sure it's not a thick head of hair, though it can help.

      Cheers,
      This guy speaks the truth. Work with what you have. It's better than being depressed and eating junk food. You'll feel better for it, might even get one or two compliments.

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      • mpb47
        Senior Member
        • Apr 2012
        • 676

        #4
        Originally posted by FlightTL
        The other night, I went out to a restaurant, and this guy(whom I dont know) took one look at my balding Norwood 6 scalp, and started laughing at me in such a derogatory manner.

        Then a while back at a wedding reception, this one guy who saw me back in college days(we never knew each other, but saw each other walking on campus), took one look at my balding Norwood 6, and in such a mean and negative vibration filled way, arrogantly smiled and just walked past me while laughing in a mean and negative vibe way, and just harmed me like crazy.





        Today i was feeling so sad at my hairloss, that I just went to a restaurant and killed it. I ordered a 3 big burgers, and 4 huge slices of pizza. I washed it all down with 2 large diet sodas and dessert.


        I feel so depressed at my hairloss.....

        Those mean people harmed me with their negative vibes and just made fun of me and laughed at me.


        Not that I condone violence in any way, but that is all some understand. Was never a good fighter but learned I had to be to survive. Was strong and could headlock the best of them. Ironically the guy I headlocked i 10th grade is now a full blown walking horse shoe. We are friends now and he even apologized for being a jerk.

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        • Dav7
          Senior Member
          • Feb 2013
          • 308

          #5
          Originally posted by FlightTL
          The other night, I went out to a restaurant, and this guy(whom I dont know) took one look at my balding Norwood 6 scalp, and started laughing at me in such a derogatory manner.

          Then a while back at a wedding reception, this one guy who saw me back in college days(we never knew each other, but saw each other walking on campus), took one look at my balding Norwood 6, and in such a mean and negative vibration filled way, arrogantly smiled and just walked past me while laughing in a mean and negative vibe way, and just harmed me like crazy.





          Today i was feeling so sad at my hairloss, that I just went to a restaurant and killed it. I ordered a 3 big burgers, and 4 huge slices of pizza. I washed it all down with 2 large diet sodas and dessert.


          I feel so depressed at my hairloss.....

          Those mean people harmed me with their negative vibes and just made fun of me and laughed at me.


          No offense, but those individuals sound like teenagers. Unfortunately, while I think we MPB sufferers are judged (and it's not always to do with attraction, e.g. job interviews, perception of personality etc.) rather harshly by other individuals, most mature adults tend to keep it to themselves, same way as they would keep their thoughts to themselves if they seen a disabled person in a wheelchair. I'm not saying it makes life any easier, because it doesn't - MPB is truly a social and cultural bummer regardless of what way we look at it, or try to delude ourselves that it doesn't matter.

          Out of curiosity, were they drunk? People, men in particular, can be pricks after a few drinks in fairness.

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          • Exodus
            Senior Member
            • Nov 2012
            • 316

            #6
            I've had it too. 'Friends' just make casual jokes over my thinning hair. Most don't usually care or make some comments and it passes over. People can be arses though and it doesn't just stop at being bald.

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            • clandestine
              Senior Member
              • Aug 2011
              • 2002

              #7
              Says more about them than it does about you.

              That said, Ive had these comments too. Comes with the territory, it seems.

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              • PatientlyWaiting
                Senior Member
                • Jan 2011
                • 1637

                #8
                We've all been there bro. I went through that at an early age, not exactly N6, more like N3 but at a very young age where an N3 looks really weird on a teen.

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                • Assemblage23
                  Senior Member
                  • Aug 2009
                  • 197

                  #9



                  yeah some people have no idea what it feels like to be teased on your hairloss they probably dont suspect this shit turned your life upside down it's pretty much like a girl going through menopause at 23 no one would make fun of her in public.

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                  • clandestine
                    Senior Member
                    • Aug 2011
                    • 2002

                    #10
                    ^Exactly the picture I thought of when I read the thread title lol.

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                    • TheLaughingCow
                      Member
                      • Nov 2012
                      • 74

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Aeroes
                      More importantly..How do you hold yourself? are you overweight? do you take pride in your appearance?

                      Sure you can have a bald head which stands out, but are you making the effort to dress nicely, eat healthy and having a nice physique. Sure it's not a thick head of hair, though it can help.

                      Cheers,
                      This is incorrect, in my experience. I had a 50 yr old man that I didn't know start laughing at me because of my baldness. He was short, fat, and much balder than I. I, by contrast, have been told that I have a very imposing physique, and I had my shirt off at the time (I was at a pool). I wasn't alone either, I was with a group of friends.

                      In short, having a rockin' bod won't help if your hair just looks bad.

                      People can be jerks.

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                      • Kayman
                        Senior Member
                        • Dec 2012
                        • 260

                        #12
                        Originally posted by TheLaughingCow
                        This is incorrect, in my experience. I had a 50 yr old man that I didn't know start laughing at me because of my baldness. He was short, fat, and much balder than I. I, by contrast, have been told that I have a very imposing physique, and I had my shirt off at the time (I was at a pool). I wasn't alone either, I was with a group of friends.

                        In short, having a rockin' bod won't help if your hair just looks bad.

                        People can be jerks.
                        If he was short fat and 50 you should of laughed right back at him. True if your hair looks bad it detracts from your hard earned bod but if that's the case it's time for the no guard buzz to straighten that look out.

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                        • Aeroes
                          Senior Member
                          • Feb 2013
                          • 159

                          #13
                          Originally posted by TheLaughingCow
                          This is incorrect, in my experience. I had a 50 yr old man that I didn't know start laughing at me because of my baldness. He was short, fat, and much balder than I. I, by contrast, have been told that I have a very imposing physique, and I had my shirt off at the time (I was at a pool). I wasn't alone either, I was with a group of friends.

                          In short, having a rockin' bod won't help if your hair just looks bad.

                          People can be jerks.
                          Well then your just unlucky then. That's your experience...

                          What i'm implying is, you can cry all you want about being bald, but if your fat and bald then your not making the most of what you have. Eating cupcakes and slices of pizza is not going to make anything better except make you a lard ass with no hair and no sexual features at all.

                          Just because your bald does not mean people don't respect you, if your someone who puts effort into there life, has hobbies, great person to be around, not a fat slob, your going to gain a lot of respect..hair or no hair.

                          If someones laughing at you, it's probably not just because of your hair it's probably of something else to... are you sure your fly wasn't undone?

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                          • Aeroes
                            Senior Member
                            • Feb 2013
                            • 159

                            #14
                            If you look at our society, it's all about masking. Look at the billions of dollars which is spent on cosemetics each year. If you want to "Fit In" or feel better about your appearance do something about it. If your skin is looking crap, start a skin regime, use toner and moisteriser on your skin, use lip balm. If you shave your head and you don't stand out, buy some nice clothing, if your overweight, exercise. If your boring, start a hobbie. If you can't get a girlfriend, order one on the internet(jokes), step out of your comfort zone..do something you wouldn't normally do. Not saying i'm mr perfect, I hate the fact i'm balding. But I read posts almost everyday "They laughed at me :-(" **** them, you only live once. Don't let people who laugh at you be the reason you don't succeed in life, cause i can assure you, if you had a full head of hair there will always be a reason for people to speak down to you or pick something not right about you, or even joke about you. Sure having a head of hair helps, but trust me...There's ways to improve your situation.

                            Sorry for the rant :-p

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                            • Davey Jones
                              Senior Member
                              • Apr 2012
                              • 356

                              #15
                              Originally posted by mpb47
                              Was never a good fighter but learned I had to be to survive.
                              Excuse me? What time period are you living in when you have to be a good fighter to survive?

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