It makes people look older, which doesn't sound good, but when you consider that almost everybody in the world looks much worse than their own wishful self-image it's a great leveller. I've found that people are more open and comfortable around me when my own flaws are as obvious as theirs.
In many careers it's an advantage to look mature as long as you've got the ability to match it. People instinctively take you more seriously.
Similarly in personal interactions people more readily grant you respect as long as you've got the character to match it and are comfortable in your own skin.
So it's not all bad, but it does really suck losing years of looking young and cool while goofing around in your 20s. But oh well they would've gone by in a flash anyway.
In many careers it's an advantage to look mature as long as you've got the ability to match it. People instinctively take you more seriously.
Similarly in personal interactions people more readily grant you respect as long as you've got the character to match it and are comfortable in your own skin.
So it's not all bad, but it does really suck losing years of looking young and cool while goofing around in your 20s. But oh well they would've gone by in a flash anyway.
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