Love Life + Hair Loss (A rant for you to relate to)

[AgainstThis]

PatientlyWaiting makes a good and valid case.

If you still want to fight it, you have to set your expectations in a realistic place. Heck, new things come down the pipeline all the time.

But if you put your life on hold till you get your hair back, it's a lose/lose situation.

And here's a good scenario for you. Let's say you beg, steal or borrow 15.000$ for a top notch, Hasson & Wong, Johnny Depp HT, ok? You stay on finasteride countering the side effects with Viagra, Levitra, Cialis and anything else you can get your hands on. Suppose you get all those pills from trips to Mexico so they don't devastate you financially.

Now suppose you put that 20.000$ towards a shiny sports car, buying shots and possibly a sharp suit.

Go out with a full head of hair and just enough money for your beer and let me know how you do with chicks older than 19. Go as a ****ing cueball with a sportscar and let me know of the porn star count.

It's a sad, bitter world we're all living in

[balding23]

Yo man, I'm sorry you're going through with all this, especially at the ripe age of 23. I can relate to you; I'm almost 22, I'm a medical student, and I've been losing my hair since I was 19. As much as I hate the thought that I'm going to be bald within the coming year, I think we have to take this opportunity and realize that there are other aspects that chicks are into besides hair. Sure there are superficial chicks out there, but I can assure you, if you shave your head, get some muscle, and develop a great personality along with some confidence, you'll be getting the cream of the crop.

One of my best friends has a severe receding hairline, and he has a completely different outlook on life than I do in terms of hair loss. He knows he's going to be bald, but he could give a shit less. This dude instead shaved his head, kept on working the **** out (keep in mind this dude is built like a tank), and kept on having the same funny/confident personality he's always had. This is the same dude that's had around 15 different girlfriends since high school, is trying to bang a latina chick to finish his "around the world" quest (he's ****ed every ethnicity except for hispanic), and is an all around perennial bad ass.

My point is, even though hair loss ****ing sucks, there's so much more to somebody than just hair. I can assure you that if you have a "tough as nails" attitude with life, and are confident with who you are, you will be absolutely fine. Please, give it a chance and see what it can do for you!

[Tenex]

All I can say is you don't need to be a doormat to get women.

Making apple tinis and what not is loser talk (no offense). Women like winners.

The characteristics of a winner is a smart, confident guy who doesn't leave his balls at the disposal of someone's approval.

I myself have done a HT but in my realm I want to look good and presentable for my work and for my private life. It all is a part of my game but I don't sit down wondering whether some woman who probably is not as half intellectual and couldn't achieve a 10th of what I can achieve thinks of my looks. She should feel privileged that I am talking to her and if she doesn't then it isn't my problem.

[Jcm800]

So it's a nice sunny evening here - i go out for a beer, having had two compliments from different people about my hair earlier this week, i was pretty confident, and looking forward to a nice relaxed beer.

On the way to the pub, two men, early 20's are walking alongside me, one mutter's sarcastically "I like your hair" I know the **** was talking to me, i brushed it off and carried on walking.

So was the Wanker taking the Piss? Yep i think he was.

Those four shitty word's from his mouth cut so deep, and far out-weighed the two compliment's i had earlier.

It is indeed a shitty world we live in, i looked up to the sky and asked the Lord above to activate a baldness gene in both of them, ****'s.

[UK_]

Dude, women only care about:

A) Money
B) Money
C) Security bought through Money
D) Money
and most important of all
E) MONEY.

You're young now and harbor illusions that romance may actually be possible and that women can be anything more than security-seeking hags from hell. Check out a really hot guy who's always broke, is not in school and has no bright future. Sure, he ****ed his share of hippie/punk rock chicks till 25. What is he doing afterwards? Smoking pot and rotting away, that's what he's doing.

In your place, I'd just shave it all, work out and focus on making a shitload of dough.

At age 30, I was privileged enough to not be seriously affected by hairloss till 27-28. I used to wear my hair really long, be in bands, work out and be "THE COOL GUY". You know what it got me?

Jack shit, that's what it got me. One night stands leave you with bitter memories of what could have been, had you focused on money. And fat chicks who want to marry you don't count as conquests, really.

You could have an ass in the place of your face but if your pockets were full enough, women would find you "unique".

So my point is. It doesn't matter to ANY of them if you are bald, have a tattoo on your head or have hair like Antonio Banderas circa 1995. Riding the tail end of your student years, some of the girls you meet may still delude themselves with idle talk about "cute guys" but they're all after the ****ing nest egg. The sooner you realize this, the better for you.

Don't believe me?

Get an HT, work out, invest on a cool bachelor pad. You know who's gonna **** you? The same skanks that would have ****ed the bald, skinny, shitty living you. The very same ones. You know why? They are the ones who stand to benefit from you. We see fine tits and ass and we want to cum all over them. They see muscles and hair and think "Yeah, but how am I gonna raise two kids on muscle and hair?"

End of story.

An atleast you'll be ready for that all important expensive cure when it comes out

[AgainstThis]

Haha, spot on

[Sogeking]

I'm 23 soon to be 24. Realized I was losing hair this last Christmas.
Losing hair sucks. But I have had hair for almost 24 years and no luck with women at all. So with or without hair it can't get worse thats for sure .
Besides I am cutting my hair short, and when I noticeably lose it I'll shave it. And wait for the cure.
Now money on the other hand, where I live and after currently 5 and soon 6 years of studying for a Masters degree it means shit in terms of getting a really well payed job in my country.
So those of you who are well off, be happy, accept it or wait it out or decide to fight it. But don't let it rule you.

Why?

Well would you rather live the rest of your life feeling crappy or feeling good.
@Jcm800
One thing I do know is **** what others think. You should only care for opinions of those close to you and who you care about.

[UK_]

I'm 23 soon to be 24. Realized I was losing hair this last Christmas.
Losing hair sucks. But I have had hair for almost 24 years and no luck with women at all. So with or without hair it can't get worse thats for sure .
Besides I am cutting my hair short, and when I noticeably lose it I'll shave it. And wait for the cure.
Now money on the other hand, where I live and after currently 5 and soon 6 years of studying for a Masters degree it means shit in terms of getting a really well payed job in my country.
So those of you who are well off, be happy, accept it or wait it out or decide to fight it. But don't let it rule you.

Why?

Well would you rather live the rest of your life feeling crappy or feeling good.
@Jcm800
One thing I do know is **** what others think. You should only care for opinions of those close to you and who you care about.

Its not a masters that is worthless, its the student who spent 5 years studying without an ounce of experience in the corporate world.

[Jcm800]

Or become a top international young bald football player-do you see any of them single and wanking? **** no, even ugly fkr Wayne Rooney gets the flange.

[Sogeking]

Its not a masters that is worthless, its the student who spent 5 years studying without an ounce of experience in the corporate world.

True that.
But the society hinders those who do not finish college. If you don't finish college for the most part the only other way to get rich and get chicks is by being an successful actor or singer or athlete.

But still having a degree might help in getting more money which is favorable for the chicks and future treatments...