new guy feel so unhappy

[Jack21]

Interesting. You are a pretty harsh judge. I am going to put up one more and if you don't give her at least a 9, I will call you the harshest critic I have ever met. I will explain why afterward.

For the sake of argument i would give them both a 7.....good bodies and pretty faces. Its kinda harder to tell with girl no 2 though. Its also hard to tell from a snapshot. For instance somebody may look a '6' in a pic....but if you met them and they had a twinkle in the eye and were a happy, smiley person..... that could easily change into an '8'.

[jooder]

Yeah...shes a nine on looks.....ten if she had a great personality too as it would make her the complete package.

[Jack21]

Vanidades

OK. I had to see. She was actually a model. She was in Vanidades which is one of the most popular (if not the most popular) Spanish language fashion magazine in the US and most of South America. She was very nice but a total airhead. You can probably find her if you look through the Vanidades archives but not even I am going to waste my time doing that. I just wanted to see. You definitely are the harshest critic I've ever known. Not that I am condemning you or anything. You are just very picky obviously. I have no qualms posting her picture here since her picture was all over the world anyway.

Yeah...shes a nine on looks.....ten if she had a great personality too as it would make her the complete package.

[jooder]

Like i said....you have had the privilege(or not) of knowing these women....so their personality may have made them a nine or whatever. It will be interesting to hear others opinions.

[Jack21]

This has turned into quite the game. Its really funny that I see Elissa as much more attractive than she probably is. Actually my sister told me after the breakup that she looked like a frog. I thought that she was just trying to make me feel better. It is amazing how your heart dictates what your eyes see as beauty.

Like i said....you have had the privilege(or not) of knowing these women....so their personality may have made them a nine or whatever. It will be interesting to hear others opinions.

[jooder]

Thats very true. Thats why a snapshot of somebody is hard to judge. Sometimes you may meet somebody and think there just average really......yet some people just have something about them, maybe the way they walk or laugh etc etc. So just by having a conversation with the originally 'average' person.....they can easily become very attractive to you.

[Jack21]

I have certainly had girls grow on me ie girls who I didn't find attractive at all at first but started to find attractive as I got to know them better and better. Personality does definitely go a long way but if you're a baldie like me even if you have a great personality the trouble is getting your foot in the door at all. I am not saying that it is impossible because I believe that it comes with self confidence, but I do think that its tough.

Thats very true. Thats why a snapshot of somebody is hard to judge. Sometimes you may meet somebody and think there just average really......yet some people just have something about them, maybe the way they walk or laugh etc etc. So just by having a conversation with the originally 'average' person.....they can easily become very attractive to you.

[dgman21]

5 years ago.

I know the feeling about getting really attractive women. This is me 5 years ago....I want to look like that always..

[Jack21]

the old city

Oh shit! You're in the old city in Jerusalem. I can even see the barrel of somebody's rifle next to you.

Yeah, she is very, very beautiful. You lost all that hair in 2 years? It doesn't look like you even have any recession at all. Did you get injured? They told me that my injury and all the surgeries sped up my hair loss.

I know the feeling about getting really attractive women. This is me 5 years ago....I want to look like that always..

[dgman21]

Actually I don't know why that sign says 2008,it was 2005. Luckily I didn't get injured but there were suicide bombers all over. In 5 years a lot of hairloss has occurred,I want a cure dammit :-(

[Jack21]

I don't think that my hair was that thick when I was 16 years old. I guess I never knew b/c I kept it so short for so many years. The only way to get back that kind of thickness would be to get a hair piece/ wig. How old are you in that picture? Five years ago my hair looked like this (but with thickening fibers in it). I have ZERO pictures of myself from that period without stuff in my hair. I never left the house w/o it.

Actually I don't know why that sign says 2008,it was 2005. Luckily I didn't get injured but there were suicide bombers all over. In 5 years a lot of hairloss has occurred,I want a cure dammit :-(

[dgman21]

I was 26. Man your hair looks very thick,do the fibers really work that well? I'm afraid to get the fibers because its fake and I'll be kidding myself by looking how bad it really is in the morning after a shower or when it rains or swimming.

[Jack21]

I don't want to sound like I'm advertising for the stuff, but it is like a miracle. It really is amazing. That said there are a lot of drawbacks. You can still shower everyday, you just have to resprinkle the stuff on. It comes off very easily with shampoo but it actually barely comes off in plain water - like the rain. But it is fake. You can't go swimming. You do have to have an umbrella or a cap with you in case you're caught in the rain even though it takes a real deluge to make it leak. You can run, lift weights, sweat. My ex wife didn't mind. She just didn't run her fingers through my hair. It does limit your lifestyle but not horribly. I still went swimming at the beach. I just didn't put my head under the water. I didn't get my hair wet in the shower except when I washed it out - every 3 or 4 days. But you'll seriously be amazed at how with a bit of hairspray they really stay stuck. When I went to the surgeon for the consultation about HT he actually looked at me and said "Where exactly are you losing your hair?" I mean as soon as he started digging around it was obvious but to see it on anyone you have to be less than an inch away. The thinner your hair gets the more of a pain it is. By the time last September rolled around it was too much of a pain too deal with and I didn't have enough hair left to support it. My mother has thin hair and uses it as does my aunt. Try it. It costs nothing. If you don't like it, throw it away. It really might make a difference for you. It did for me for quite some time.

I was 26. Man your hair looks very thick,do the fibers really work that well? I'm afraid to get the fibers because its fake and I'll be kidding myself by looking how bad it really is in the morning after a shower or when it rains or swimming.

[Fixed by 35]

I'm thinking of giving Toppik a try for when I leave the house.

[Jack21]

Fxd,

I seriously hope that it works out for you. I hope the next time I hear you there's not quite so much sadness in your "voice". Good luck, bro. If you need any tips just ask me.

I'm thinking of giving Toppik a try for when I leave the house.