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  • baldozer
    Senior Member
    • Oct 2012
    • 752

    #31
    Originally posted by Age30 NW3
    Again...your problem isn't hair. It's that you have a deep misunderstanding of people.

    Other people won't have to go through that crap? Life is a crap fest. EVERYONE has their own special flavor of crap to deal with. What makes you so special? Not having hair? Please.

    You're right...it's not like being short. Because being short is an actual physical limitation. It means being handicapped at sports, and being unable to reach things. It means being virtually unable to lead other men, and I won't even discuss the girls.

    Do you know why people marginalize you for being bald? Because they hate their lives. Do you think for a second that a happy, confident, well-adjusted person gives a sh*t about your hair?

    You need to focus on understanding what makes people act the way they do. Otherwise you will continue to be unhappy. Even if your surgery ends up a total success, you'll find another thing to complain about. The attitude of "I will fight and I will win" has nothing to do with your follicles.
    Who says short people can't lead? Alexander the Great, Napoleon Bonaparte and Joseph Stalin for example were all short. And about girls, the guys in the clubs themselves give all the power to girls there by putting them on the pedestal. The greed for vagina overinflates the price of such women. Therefore, if those women brutally reject such men, its the fault of these men.

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    • Age30 NW3
      Member
      • May 2014
      • 76

      #32
      I never said short men *couldn't* lead. But it is definitely more difficult. In terms of sports and leadership, short stature is merely a handicap...not a hard line exclusion. That said, in a room full of tall men and short men, all else equal, it's less likely they will look first to a short man for leadership. Granted, if the short man consistently has killer ideas, he will be looked to. But the tall guy always gets the first look. Same with choosing sports teams on the schoolyard.

      And who said anything about being in a club? I would never, ever suggest going to a club to meet women, even if you're tall and good-looking with great hair. The club is a terrible place for any type of social interaction beyond cheap sexual exchange.

      The point with women and height is that a large percentage of women strictly rule out men below a certain height. Definitely not all women...certainly none of the girls I've slept with But many...possibly most, won't even consider dating a short man. And I don't blame them...If I was in their position, I would do the same. But of all physical traits that women look for, height is the most non-negotiable.

      I take it you're a short man? I'm 5'7", myself.

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      • baldozer
        Senior Member
        • Oct 2012
        • 752

        #33
        Originally posted by Age30 NW3
        I never said short men *couldn't* lead. But it is definitely more difficult. In terms of sports and leadership, short stature is merely a handicap...not a hard line exclusion. That said, in a room full of tall men and short men, all else equal, it's less likely they will look first to a short man for leadership. Granted, if the short man consistently has killer ideas, he will be looked to. But the tall guy always gets the first look. Same with choosing sports teams on the schoolyard.

        And who said anything about being in a club? I would never, ever suggest going to a club to meet women, even if you're tall and good-looking with great hair. The club is a terrible place for any type of social interaction beyond cheap sexual exchange.

        The point with women and height is that a large percentage of women strictly rule out men below a certain height. Definitely not all women...certainly none of the girls I've slept with But many...possibly most, won't even consider dating a short man. And I don't blame them...If I was in their position, I would do the same. But of all physical traits that women look for, height is the most non-negotiable.

        I take it you're a short man? I'm 5'7", myself.
        No, I'm not short, but average, maybe a tad above average.

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        • Age30 NW3
          Member
          • May 2014
          • 76

          #34
          Yeah I was just kidding, I'm 6'2". Also I'm not balding at all, I'm famous movie actor Channing Tatum! Just wanted to see how bald people lived. Soooo glad I'm genetically perfect!

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          • fred970
            Senior Member
            • Nov 2009
            • 922

            #35
            Well, Channing, I got bad news for ya!

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            • Age30 NW3
              Member
              • May 2014
              • 76

              #36
              Haha! Dude no girl would look at that photo and say "eww he's bald!!" They'd see an alpha male. Now imagine if he was chubby and out of shape...his stock price would plummet.

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              • Notcoolanymore
                Senior Member
                • Jun 2013
                • 2246

                #37
                Damn, I didn't know his hair was that bad. I just saw 21 jump street and it looked pretty full.

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                • fred970
                  Senior Member
                  • Nov 2009
                  • 922

                  #38
                  Concealers do miracles.

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                  • Notcoolanymore
                    Senior Member
                    • Jun 2013
                    • 2246

                    #39
                    Yes they do.

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                    • Age30 NW3
                      Member
                      • May 2014
                      • 76

                      #40
                      That hairline looks bad to you? I think it looks money...I'd love if my line was like that.

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                      • LeonardoD
                        Member
                        • Jun 2013
                        • 48

                        #41
                        Holy **** Channing looks damn good with buzzed hair man. But he has high cheekbones and a very marked jaw, plus he has a perfect height! Absolute model material.

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                        • Notcoolanymore
                          Senior Member
                          • Jun 2013
                          • 2246

                          #42
                          Baldozer is pretty hot himself. At least he claims to be.

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                          • timetosurrender
                            Junior Member
                            • Jun 2014
                            • 5

                            #43
                            This is a great thread/discussion. Men will have been balding for the whole of human existence. It's difficult to believe somtimes it's become such a major issue.

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                            • LeonardoD
                              Member
                              • Jun 2013
                              • 48

                              #44
                              It's a major problem now because the entire world has turned into such a superficial place. Most of the human populations has no real problems to conquer. The generations before us lived in pain and agony where it was all about surviving war, plagues etc. We've that no more. All we have is a battle of distribution.

                              I will go as far as say that balding in this era is the worst era to be balding in. Before it didn't matter much. And in a few generation baldness will be cured, limb lengthening will be advanced to such a point where you can choose how you want to look. And new problems arise...

                              But we... We're ****ed.

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                              • 35YrsAfter
                                Doctor Representative
                                • Aug 2012
                                • 1418

                                #45
                                Originally posted by LeonardoD
                                I will go as far as say that balding in this era is the worst era to be balding in.

                                But we... We're ****ed.
                                In my view, the fifties, sixties, seventies, eighties, and possibly the nineties were some of the worst of times for a young man to have visible hair loss. In the seventies for instance, there were no effective treatments except hair transplants and seventies hair transplants sucked big time. We're talking 4mm open donor scars all over the back of men's heads and very unnatural appearing results in the recipient areas.

                                Also in the seventies and eighties in particular very few men shaved their heads. A young man in the seventies with a shaved head was viewed as very odd, like someone who underwent experimental shock therapy or lost their hair due to disease or radiation treatments.

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