New to hair loss and terrified of Finasteride. My story.

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  • Gordknight
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2013
    • 28

    New to hair loss and terrified of Finasteride. My story.

    Wow, I never thought I'd be here. I have been a lurker since I first started noticing that my hair was starting to thin out. It has completely kicked me the curb mentally. This is simply a problem I never thought I'd have to deal with. Let me explain my story.

    I am turning 31 in February. I am a married man. My main profession is I am a working actor that is part of the Screen Actors Guild and the Actors Equity Union. Acting/Performing have been my primary source of income for the past 9 years. Losing my hair will (I feel) completely destroy my Career. I am a very good looking man (not trying to brag) and I owe most of my looks to my hair. I have always had super thick, long dark hair. My father started to lose his hair when was in his early twenties as did my older brother. Both were Norwood 6 by age 32/33.

    Having the exact same hairline and thickness through all my twenties I figured I was in the clear and did not inherit his baldness. My grandfather on my Mother's side is mostly bald, but is 80 years old and didnt start losing his hair until his early fifties. All three of his sons ranging from ages of 47-58 all still have full heads of hair. I don't know if any of them are on treatment.

    However, about 10 months ago I started to notice my hairline receding and that same day when I looked up at a monitor in a gas station that was an overhead cam, I could see clearly that my crown was thinning. I was devastated. What do I do? What can I do?

    I started doing as much research as I could and what I found disgusted me. Here we have an affliction that has been destroying the lives of men (some women) for centuries and not a SINGLE product exists that works that was originally designed for hair loss. Finasteride and Minoxodil were both discovered by accident and one isnt that effective by itself and the other carries the possibility of permanent side effects.

    When I was first reading about finasteride and saw results from the drug I was thrilled. But after reading all the horror stories about it I am terrified to try this drug. I went to a local hair loss surgeon who is going to do a HT on my older brother next month and he said I am definitely losing my hair but at a slower rate and different pattern than my brother or my dad. He recommended I get on finasteride immediately as to the untrained eye I still look like I have a full head of thick hair.

    I am so scared to take this drug. If I do I think Ill do .25mg a day for 6 mos to a year to minimize the risk of sides. All I want to do is keep my hair till something better comes along. From what I see CB is looking very promising and its only a matter of time before they can do HT's and grow back the donor hair as well. Then HT's will only be a question of money and donor area wont matter. I just dont think I can afford to wait that long. The MPB cure has been just 2-5 years away for over 25 years. I just dont trust waiting.

    Any advice or suggestions? Thanks for taking the time to read and I am glad that I am not alone in this and love what Spencer is doing for all of us. I need to save my hair/career and start LIVING MY ****ING LIVE again for a change.
  • Dan26
    Senior Member
    • Jul 2012
    • 1270

    #2
    I'd consider starting fin on a low dose man. Even 0.2mg/day showed solid results in the clinical trials. Not as good as 1mg/day, but still significant.

    Get some baseline blood + hormone tests beforehand.

    Could even do what I did and microdose at first to have some peace of mind (0.05mg/day: 1mg pill crushed and dissolved in alcohol)

    IF you envision your hairloss really bothering you and see yourself hoping on fin if your hair gets worse, you may as well just get on it now. If you think you can deal with the loss and the side effects really bother you, don't do it.

    Minox is also an option. Perhaps even RU as a topical AA.

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    • baldybald
      Senior Member
      • Jul 2012
      • 243

      #3
      do not believe the horror stories about finasteride, they are all fake, trust me!! there is no permanent side effect and all temporary. so please please please do not do the same mistake i did please please because you will regret it later on. go to a good doctor to prescribe propecia for you

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      • Dan26
        Senior Member
        • Jul 2012
        • 1270

        #4
        Originally posted by baldybald
        do not believe the horror stories about finasteride, they are all fake, trust me!! there is no permanent side effect and all temporary. so please please please do not do the same mistake i did please please because you will regret it later on. go to a good doctor to prescribe propecia for you
        This guy is dead wrong...There is a chance for serious side effects. The chance it very small, but it exists.

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        • Notcoolanymore
          Senior Member
          • Jun 2013
          • 2246

          #5
          Fin is the best thing we have. Like all meds it has risks. If you cant deal with going bald then give it a try. Start off on a small dose, if no sides, slowly work your way up.

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          • ChrisM
            Senior Member
            • Jun 2012
            • 299

            #6
            Dutasteride is the best thing in my opinion in terms of an ingestible anti androgen DHT blocker however that was after a year and three months of Finasteride showing little in the way of results. But Dut shares the chemical profile as Fin just stronger and it blocks both type 5AR1 and 5AR2 enzyme in DHT that binds to the receptor in the hair follicle leading to shrinkage, recession, and fallout. Fin only blocks the 5AR1 type according to clinical trials supporting that. But if you have fear of taking Finasteride then don't even look at Dutasteride which is nearly three times stronger than Finasteride as it stays longer in the body per usage.

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            • Gordknight
              Junior Member
              • Oct 2013
              • 28

              #7
              Thanks everyone. I have done a lot of research on the subject. I really just cannot afford losing my hair. As I am sure you all realize, I spend the majority of my day stressing and thinking about my hair. I compare my hair with every other man I see. Its the first thing I look at now and I hate that. Always feeling insecure about it, even though I know to others my hair looks good.

              The statement is true that the unhappy people scream the loudest and I am sure that the majority of people get good results and no sides from fin and so arent that vocal on the forums.

              I think Ill just bite the bullet and start out on .25mg of fin and work my way up if I have no sides and am not getting the results I want. If I get good results an no sides with .25 then I dont see a point in ever increasing the dosage.

              On a side note. Anyone else thinking that CB is going to replace Fin as its more powerful and has no sides?

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              • Notcoolanymore
                Senior Member
                • Jun 2013
                • 2246

                #8
                ChrisM, I think you are right about Dut being the best thing we have. I haven't tried it yet, but will if I don't get decent results from fin. It is commonly prescribed for hair loss though, or will only certain doctors prescribe it? My doctor was hesitant to prescribe fin. I had to actually persuade him to do it.

                Gord, You are making a good decision, especially as an actor. You need to hold onto your looks and being a high norwood is not going to cut it. Unless you plan on being a double for a danny devito type actor.

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                • Gordknight
                  Junior Member
                  • Oct 2013
                  • 28

                  #9
                  Notcool: Haha, I know that with my body build type and my head shape Id look horrible if I lost my hair. I have to at least give things a shot right? I have my appointment to get my fin on Wednesday. If I can just keep my current hair until something better comes along and still be able to have sex with my wife then Ill be good to go.

                  To be honest the Gyno and Brain Fog are even scarier sides than having trouble getting a boner. At least with the latter you can take some Viagra or something on a tough night, but the man boobs and inability to recall my lines would **** me right hard and fast.

                  Though I think so many of these sides are so over dramatic and the successes of fin fat exceed the times of failure.

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                  • Gordknight
                    Junior Member
                    • Oct 2013
                    • 28

                    #10
                    You know one of the things I hate the most is when people say that "its all in your head" and you arent losing your hair. While I dont think my hair loss is aggresive, I definitely see a difference then when I was 22 or 23. Here are some pictures of what I think is the loss. Let me know what you all think.







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                    • Notcoolanymore
                      Senior Member
                      • Jun 2013
                      • 2246

                      #11
                      Yeah you have some thinning, recession, and some crown loss. With that being said, your hair is still in pretty good shape. You are at the point where if you respond well to treatments you could get a good amount of it back. Hopefully fin works for you.

                      I didn't see it mentioned earlier in this thread, but what do you feel about trying minoxidil? It can make a good 1-2 punch with finasteride. Unlike what it may indicate on the box, it does work on the hairline. Not trying to push you into anything, but just throwing some options out there.

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                      • arc31
                        Junior Member
                        • Mar 2013
                        • 10

                        #12
                        I started Fin 5 days ago and have yet to have any side effects. I got the generic 5mg proscar online and cut them in 1/4ths so have been taking 1.25mg daily. I too was terrified by the horror stories and have been debating whether or not to go on it since I got my first hair transplant 5 years ago. I now feel like I wasted five years by letting those stories get the best of me. I think the large majority of men that use Fin do not experience debilitating sides its just those damn horror stories that really travel the internet. Its only been 5 days and I know the sides may be delayed for some people but as of now I feel great. I actually feel like I have been having a higher sex drive since starting. Not to be the TMI guy but the first night I woke up with 3 ragers and have been experiencing solid erections, possibly stronger than before. Even been having a increase in semen although maybe a little more watery then usual. I don't know how this is possible since I read the complete opposite in many posts but I would like to think it has to do with this medication. I think positive thinking has a lot to do with it as well. The mind is a powerful tool and if you think of the negative sides they may manifest. I know its only been 5 days and I don't even know if this will work for my hair but as of now I am happy about finally trying it out. Fin is proven to be one of the best things you can do to be proactive against hairloss. I think you should give it a shot. Just stay away from reading those horror stories and THINK POSITIVE... Sorry for the long reply I'm just a little excited and happy to share my story. Good Luck to you all!!

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                        • Gordknight
                          Junior Member
                          • Oct 2013
                          • 28

                          #13
                          Arc, Im glad to hear your story. How old are you? How aggressive is your hair loss?

                          I am literally staring at the box of propecia on my desk as I type this lol. We are having a staring contest.

                          Im confident that if I get sides that it will go away if I discontinue the drug, I just have this unrealistic notion that popping that first fraction of a pill will set me down a road of no return. Silly I know.

                          To be honest if I wasnt in the entertainment industry where my appearance was so important, Id just let nature take it's course. But on the other hand if I can have the same success as Spencer and maintain my current hair until a new "cure" comes out then I can lay this bitch to rest.

                          It just sucks that some people don't get sides for months to years after being on the drug and that makes me think that you'd just be always be waiting for the bomb to go off.

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                          • Gordknight
                            Junior Member
                            • Oct 2013
                            • 28

                            #14
                            Still havent taken the dive yet. Standing on the edge staring into the water lol. I picked up some Nizoral today because my scalp has been really itchy and flaky lately (normal for me when the seasons change). If I start Ill definitely start on the .25 mg a day dose and then stay the **** away from forums and Dr. Google for a while and just treat it like Im taking a vitamin.

                            To be honest the thing that scares me most of all the sides is the goddamn Gyno. I mean dealing with trouble getting it up and watery loads is one thing, and managable, but as an actor I can't have bitch tits nor can I afford to remove bitch tits.

                            The fact that out hair follicles are even sensitive to a hormone our own body creates is all the proof I need that there is no God.

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                            • Dan26
                              Senior Member
                              • Jul 2012
                              • 1270

                              #15
                              I really think everyones body is different. 0.25mg reduced my DHT by only 10%! Makes no sense...and all my other hormones were in healthy range. Some ppl will take it and notice nothign with there bodies other take a small amount and get owned lol

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