How does Dr. Wesley's Scarless Pilofocus work?

[yeahyeahyeah]

I don't want to hijack this thread, but a few points to round out what is being discussed.

Fellas, I completely understand and agree to some end about women being judgmental towards male hair loss. It can be maddening and discouraging at times, and the truth is, not fair...i.e. If I woman says "I don't like bald guys", we couldn't turn around and say, "I don't like flat chested women"! There is a double standard.

However, I am a hair colourist, been in the business for 17 years. I have several female clients and co-workers with some degree of hair loss, diffused thinning, receding hair lines, even male pattern baldness on female heads. It might not be as common or to the degree of our loss, but it does affect their confidence, styling options, self image, etc. just like us. It is not just a male problem! They turn to me for answers, I point them in the same direction that we are going.

I work with some HOTT women who date guys with receding hairlines, thinning, etc., they are in their 20's and 30's, and could not care less! However, don't know if this makes you feel better or worse, but they might be judging the size of his wallet, bank account, home, or other attributes, detriments, that have nothing to do with hair! I guess, we really need to be rich above most things!!!

I personally have been dating a cute girl, who has diffuse thinning in a MPB pattern, she wears her hair long and straight, and does not care! She has never mentioned it, carries herself with confidence, and goes about her day. I don't judge her on her hair, it is not something she can change. I judge her on other things, like when she might cancel a date or something.

I am not trying to minimize our disease, struggles, or frustration, just wanted to give you some insight from the other side of the fence. It affects men and women, and it is also completely off the radar for SOME women.

We will be judged for life, but not just for hair, for everything topical, money, height, body, accents, beliefs, sense of humour, etc. If hair was the only battle we were fighting, then we would be lucky!

We are all in this together.

Ramble is over!

To be honest, it isnt about women for me. I feel like I am losing my identity losing hair, in the same way your female clients do.

I did not ask for this shit.

[TheSwingingGate]

I don't want to hijack this thread, but a few points to round out what is being discussed.

Fellas, I completely understand and agree to some end about women being judgmental towards male hair loss. It can be maddening and discouraging at times, and the truth is, not fair...i.e. If I woman says "I don't like bald guys", we couldn't turn around and say, "I don't like flat chested women"! There is a double standard.

However, I am a hair colourist, been in the business for 17 years. I have several female clients and co-workers with some degree of hair loss, diffused thinning, receding hair lines, even male pattern baldness on female heads. It might not be as common or to the degree of our loss, but it does affect their confidence, styling options, self image, etc. just like us. It is not just a male problem! They turn to me for answers, I point them in the same direction that we are going.

I work with some HOTT women who date guys with receding hairlines, thinning, etc., they are in their 20's and 30's, and could not care less! However, don't know if this makes you feel better or worse, but they might be judging the size of his wallet, bank account, home, or other attributes, detriments, that have nothing to do with hair! I guess, we really need to be rich above most things!!!

I personally have been dating a cute girl, who has diffuse thinning in a MPB pattern, she wears her hair long and straight, and does not care! She has never mentioned it, carries herself with confidence, and goes about her day. I don't judge her on her hair, it is not something she can change. I judge her on other things, like when she might cancel a date or something.

I am not trying to minimize our disease, struggles, or frustration, just wanted to give you some insight from the other side of the fence. It affects men and women, and it is also completely off the radar for SOME women.

We will be judged for life, but not just for hair, for everything topical, money, height, body, accents, beliefs, sense of humour, etc. If hair was the only battle we were fighting, then we would be lucky!

We are all in this together.

Ramble is over!

[hellouser]

I don't know if I get picked on more than the average bald man or if it's...

Something to do with my personality....I don't react to the shit I get so they think it's ok.

Or

I just happen to be around the wrong people at the wrong time.

Or

My hairloss stands out more that people feel they have to say something.

Or

People think I am good looking for a bald guy that it won't offend me by saying rude things.

I doubt it is the latter.

It is probably a simple fact that all bald guys get regular abuse.

The simplest answer is usually the right one.

[sausage]

I don't know if I get picked on more than the average bald man or if it's...

Something to do with my personality....I don't react to the shit I get so they think it's ok.

Or

I just happen to be around the wrong people at the wrong time.

Or

My hairloss stands out more that people feel they have to say something.

Or

People think I am good looking for a bald guy that it won't offend me by saying rude things.

I doubt it is the latter.

It is probably a simple fact that all bald guys get regular abuse.

[yeahyeahyeah]

Yup. 10 years is incompetence at its best. And to think their slacking wouldnt come with consequences... and when it did, they didn't think to have a backup plan for investors and funding.

I reckon a lot of these start ups are scam.

It wont surprise me if Ken Washenik deliberately delayed things so that he could pocket money out of the venture.

[hellouser]

To add, I am so pissed off at Aderans.

They had 10 ****ing years.

So much investment and still ****ed up.

Yup. 10 years is incompetence at its best. And to think their slacking wouldnt come with consequences... and when it did, they didn't think to have a backup plan for investors and funding.

[yeahyeahyeah]

Do it. You're saying it to a man, you won't get written up. Employment laws benefit women (except financially, theyre screwed there as they dont get equal pay)

Socially women have the upper hand in like every way.

Dating.
Employment laws.

Blame feminism guys.

[hellouser]

Yes women can be as bad as men in commenting on hairloss, especially one that has been drinking........if you said something negative about them they would fecking hate it....but it is alright for them to say sh*t to you.

Same with blokes at work, they mention something to do with my hair now and then. I just play along or block it out, although inside I am thinking "you di*ks". 2 of them are obese and eat shit loads of junk food, if I said something about them being fat fecking bastards I don't think they would take it well. I may try it out oneday to see what reaction I get.

I am not one for taking the piss out of people to their face, yeah I'd say something behind their back.....everyone does. But saying something to someone's face about their looks is out of order. I feel awkward making people feel bad........why do so many people enjoy it.

Do it. You're saying it to a man, you won't get written up. Employment laws benefit women (except financially, theyre screwed there as they dont get equal pay)

[yeahyeahyeah]

tell me about it.

I am a NW2 atm, but I reckon I will probably settle down with the next girl I find as I know I have an expiry date. If I had a full head of hair, like these women - I would be playing the field and taking my time.
**** you hairloss. **** you.

To add, I am so pissed off at Aderans.

They had 10 ****ing years.

So much investment and still ****ed up.

[yeahyeahyeah]

I have one of my coworkers telling me on occassion I have little hair, in regards to my hairline, but I know im thinning as well. She says it likes its nothing.

If I say *anything* about her being fat or her greying hair, I'll be fvcking CASTRATED and FIRED for my comment. But women, yeah... its TOTALLY fine for them to trash you for it. Fat bitches could easily hit the treadmill or get a dye for their hair or makeup to cover the ugly. There is NOTHING we can do about our genetics, yet they feel as if they are allowed to SHIT ON MEN without repercussions. Double standards bullshit. I hate everything about this shit. My parents know im balding, and while my dad is 53 and has a full head of hair, the ignorant dumbass says 'its no big deal'... yeah, im only single and 29 and looking worse each year... its NO BIG DEAL.

tell me about it.

I am a NW2 atm, but I reckon I will probably settle down with the next girl I find as I know I have an expiry date. If I had a full head of hair, like these women - I would be playing the field and taking my time.
**** you hairloss. **** you.

[sausage]

Yes women can be as bad as men in commenting on hairloss, especially one that has been drinking........if you said something negative about them they would fecking hate it....but it is alright for them to say sh*t to you.

Same with blokes at work, they mention something to do with my hair now and then. I just play along or block it out, although inside I am thinking "you di*ks". 2 of them are obese and eat shit loads of junk food, if I said something about them being fat fecking bastards I don't think they would take it well. I may try it out oneday to see what reaction I get.

I am not one for taking the piss out of people to their face, yeah I'd say something behind their back.....everyone does. But saying something to someone's face about their looks is out of order. I feel awkward making people feel bad........why do so many people enjoy it.

[hellouser]

Yeah such bullshit.

And the worse thing is women will discriminate against guys that are losing their hair. How the **** would they like it, if it happened to them, with guys than telling them "no hun, you are not hot enough for me - you are bald."

****ing hair transplant doctors, and scientist. All full of shit for not working hard enough to bring a better alternative to propecia out.

I have one of my coworkers telling me on occassion I have little hair, in regards to my hairline, but I know im thinning as well. She says it likes its nothing.

If I say *anything* about her being fat or her greying hair, I'll be fvcking CASTRATED and FIRED for my comment. But women, yeah... its TOTALLY fine for them to trash you for it. Fat bitches could easily hit the treadmill or get a dye for their hair or makeup to cover the ugly. There is NOTHING we can do about our genetics, yet they feel as if they are allowed to SHIT ON MEN without repercussions. Double standards bullshit. I hate everything about this shit. My parents know im balding, and while my dad is 53 and has a full head of hair, the ignorant dumbass says 'its no big deal'... yeah, im only single and 29 and looking worse each year... its NO BIG DEAL.

[yeahyeahyeah]

My reply to that, in the greatest respect.

F*CK THAT!!!!!

I couldn't think of anything more humiliating than wearing a wig.

I'd rather run around the street repeatedly shouting "look at me I am a ****ing bald twat"

I understand.

Elton John wears one, looks quite good.

Just use it to get a wife, then ditch it. If girls can deceive us wearing make up, why shouldnt you.

[sausage]

I am empathetic mate.

Have you thought about wearing a wig, you have nothing to lose.

My reply to that, in the greatest respect.

F*CK THAT!!!!!

I couldn't think of anything more humiliating than wearing a wig.

I'd rather run around the street repeatedly shouting "look at me I am a ****ing bald twat"

[yeahyeahyeah]

Thats not even bringing up the countless magazines that cater to women's obsession on aesthetics, both for themselves and the review of men.

Take away a woman's hair and she'll be RIGHT PISSED.

Perhaps they should have the privilege of being BALD/BALDING since women's needs are *ALWAYS* addressed seriously and with empathy which turns to RESULTS. Nobody, EVER give a rats FVCK about men.

God DAMN IT this disease is pissing me off! I'm not depressed because of it, I'm god damn FURIOUS.

Yeah such bullshit.

And the worse thing is women will discriminate against guys that are losing their hair. How the **** would they like it, if it happened to them, with guys than telling them "no hun, you are not hot enough for me - you are bald."

****ing hair transplant doctors, and scientist. All full of shit for not working hard enough to bring a better alternative to propecia out.