Met a girl, what to do about mpb???? Help!

[dex89]

Highlander there is really no need...

Well folks I suppose I should update you all seeing as this thread has grown quite a bit. The original girl mentioned in this thread is kind of a complicated girl, to say the least...I came on too strong and she got scared off...however she has started talking to me again and I can't quite work out what she is thinking. So it never got the point of us developing anything, but we will see if, I can sense that she is still interested in me.

But there is good news I met up with another girl 2 weeks ago who I had previously met on holiday. When we met up she was shocked at how short my hair was, the last time she saw me (over a year and half ago) I still had a decent mop of hair. While we were drinking I mentioned to her very early in the night about my hair loss and asked her if it bothered her. She said that it's a perfectly normal thing to happen and that she really didn't care. She is a few years older than me and is very mature and down to earth, she also just spent this weekend at my place and much fun was had

So folks there is still hope out there!!! Girls that really don't give a damn about your hair loss. Go and find em!!! Like now!

HAHA, you made your ancestors proud

[Breaking Bald]

My friend, you deserve a handshake. Brilliant dude!

Thanks man!! I do feel pretty good about it. You get my message reply btw?

[Exodus]

My friend, you deserve a handshake. Brilliant dude!

[Breaking Bald]

Highlander there is really no need...

Well folks I suppose I should update you all seeing as this thread has grown quite a bit. The original girl mentioned in this thread is kind of a complicated girl, to say the least...I came on too strong and she got scared off...however she has started talking to me again and I can't quite work out what she is thinking. So it never got the point of us developing anything, but we will see if, I can sense that she is still interested in me.

But there is good news I met up with another girl 2 weeks ago who I had previously met on holiday. When we met up she was shocked at how short my hair was, the last time she saw me (over a year and half ago) I still had a decent mop of hair. While we were drinking I mentioned to her very early in the night about my hair loss and asked her if it bothered her. She said that it's a perfectly normal thing to happen and that she really didn't care. She is a few years older than me and is very mature and down to earth, she also just spent this weekend at my place and much fun was had

So folks there is still hope out there!!! Girls that really don't give a damn about your hair loss. Go and find em!!! Like now!

[BigThinker]

Kill yourself, ******.

Says the guy who publicly contemplates suicide on a hairloss forum. Yeahhhh, I'll go ahead and pass on that, bud.

[Exodus]

No, you're just dumb as ****. Kill yourself, ******.

And I thought chemistry here was developing.

[BigThinker]

I'm 30 and the lady I went on the date with is 40. Maybe I only have a chance with cougars these days.

Nothing wrong with that. Personally, I wouldn't marry a women that much older than me; I'd prefer to have our biological clocks a bit more in sync. But for the sake of dating and enjoying female companionship, I'd say live it up. By the time you're 40, I have to assume your female peers will be a little bit less concerned with your hair status.

I could just be young and naive though.

[kanyon]

I'm 30 and the lady I went on the date with is 40. Maybe I only have a chance with cougars these days.

[Exodus]

To the above, well if you made out with her then she must know what your hair looks like? Dude Im sure you'll be fine.

Now I on the other hand am getting looks from people in their 40s. Sigh.

[kanyon]

I'm nervous about a date I have tomorrow night.

I've been balding for 10 years but Rogaine got me through 8 years so I maintained my confidence. Rogaine stopped working 2 years ago and my hair looks stupid now and I have no confidence. Been struggling to meet girls over the last 2 years.

Anyway I made out with a cute lady last Saturday night and am going out with her tomorrow. First proper date since my hair has looked this bad. Not feeling good about it

[Tempe12]

So breaking bald how have things been going with her?
I'm in the exact same situation; about to go on my fourth date with a new girl.
I'm not going to say shit and just keep confident.
If im dumped for it, I wouldn't want to be with a shallow bitch anyways.... I don't call out her flaws..

[Breaking Bald]

Very kind and knowledgeable words Inspects, thank you!

We are in regular contact most days. She is pretty busy, but hopefully I will get to see her soon and build on our relationship to something more.

[inspects]

Bleh...I Really like her, she likes me too. I'm worried what happens when she finds out that I am balding. What to do!! What do I do???

1) Wear concealer all the time? But then she will find out eventually right?
2) Run away!! And be forever lonely...
3) Wait till she sees it herself?
4) Straight up tell her and ask her if she is bothered by it?

Maaan, I've been single (for years) and depressed for so long, I don't want this to go wrong She's so cute and down to earth as well. I wore concealer on my crown the second time I met her, I doubt she knows I am balding. But if anyone were to put there hands through my hair, it would be very obvious.

****ing mpb man 'destroyer of normal life'. I hate this shit! Why can't I just have a normal life!!

Breaking...how you making out with this girl?

Have you considered just being yourself and have as much of a positive attitude as humanly possible without letting the hair loss possibly ruin a good thing.

As we know, if she is for real and intelligent, is not a superficial person, you should be fine. You seem to have what it takes to make it happen, and I surely hope it does.

I don't think a little concealer would hurt your relationship in any form, if she notice, simply tell the truth, the loss bothers you to a certain degree and your trying to look your best for her and to enhance your own self esteem and confidence.

In time you could have a transplant, a product will hopefully be on the market in the next couple years to help us all with more options available to stop our loss or regain density to a much more significant degree than available now.

Certainly hope the best for you in this situation, please try to avoid the self pity, be as positive as you can, be happy, laugh, don't mention what bothers you at this moment, the question may not even be brought up by a women who is not your average girl, these type of women are out there believe me, not all or a large percentage base hair loss as a disease, but rather a common trait man have, most men, not just you.

Be well my friend, I truly hope this works out for you, in my mind not ever meeting you, or having a one on one conversation I believe you have the power-mentality to overcome things you may not even think you do...you seem to be very sincere, women like sincere men.

Good luck Breaking.

-Dale-

[BigThinker]

"Super model hot" is just in and of itself a bizarre thing for a dude to say. When I hear that, I picture this:

[baldozer]

You're so very delusional, GTFO of this thread! You are going bald and you are defective, extremely defective by your standards.

Not only his gene is defective, but he is also delusional! Wants to be super model hot, yeah right!