Agreed.
proof that women don't care......
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if you have to have a thread like this then that's a pretty strong argument that they care. virtually no one would be here if women didn't almost universally prefer fullheads to baldies, let's be real. look at male models and leading men in hollywood and count the bald dudes. find the celebrities and athletes that women gush over and see if they're balding or not. don't be in denial lads.
that said, nothing, and i mean absolutely nothing can compensate for a lack of confidence and attraction game. it's by far the single most important element. bald guys with charm and humor and confidence will have zero problems getting attractive women. handsome fullheads with anxiety and creepiness vibes will struggle mightily.
but hair matters for sure and here's a good example: i shaved my head a month before i started graduate school and got zero attention from the ladies for months. that entire semester i just grew my hair out. i came back after winter break with somewhat longish hair, and i'll never forget sitting at the library near this table full of hot girls gossiping in front of a computer, and one of them looking back at me and saying "oh wow.. he got *really* hot." i glanced at their computer screen and what do i see? a picture of me with a shaved head that they'd looked up on the online grad school directory.Comment
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I have a feeling it's a lot bigger deal when you're younger and in the dating scene. As we get older, both men and women start to experience things physically and go through changes that maybe aren't ideal. Men lose their hair, women's boobs get saggier, we all get wrinkles, our skin isn't as tight, etc. It's called aging and it's a natural part of life. Yes, a guy having a nice head of hair would be nice - but it's not/shouldn't be a deal breaker. Because one day that same guy is going to marry a woman and she's going to have a baby and she's gonna gain some weight and her body isn't going to be the same in her 40s as it was in her 20s. At a certain point, when you're in a relationship and love someone, these things really don't matter as much. If it were as much of a deal breaker as a lot of people tend to think it is, nearly every single balding guy on the planet would be single - and that's not even close to being a reality.
I am a patient advocate for Dr. Parsa Mohebi in Los Angeles, CA. My views/opinions are my own and don't necessarily reflect the opinions of Dr. Mohebi and his staff.
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I have a feeling it's a lot bigger deal when you're younger and in the dating scene. As we get older, both men and women start to experience things physically and go through changes that maybe aren't ideal. Men lose their hair, women's boobs get saggier, we all get wrinkles, our skin isn't as tight, etc. It's called aging and it's a natural part of life. Yes, a guy having a nice head of hair would be nice - but it's not/shouldn't be a deal breaker. Because one day that same guy is going to marry a woman and she's going to have a baby and she's gonna gain some weight and her body isn't going to be the same in her 40s as it was in her 20s. At a certain point, when you're in a relationship and love someone, these things really don't matter as much. If it were as much of a deal breaker as a lot of people tend to think it is, nearly every single balding guy on the planet would be single - and that's not even close to being a reality.
I am a patient advocate for Dr. Parsa Mohebi in Los Angeles, CA. My views/opinions are my own and don't necessarily reflect the opinions of Dr. Mohebi and his staff.
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if you have to have a thread like this then that's a pretty strong argument that they care. virtually no one would be here if women didn't almost universally prefer fullheads to baldies, let's be real. look at male models and leading men in hollywood and count the bald dudes. find the celebrities and athletes that women gush over and see if they're balding or not. don't be in denial lads.
that said, nothing, and i mean absolutely nothing can compensate for a lack of confidence and attraction game. it's by far the single most important element. bald guys with charm and humor and confidence will have zero problems getting attractive women. handsome fullheads with anxiety and creepiness vibes will struggle mightily.
but hair matters for sure and here's a good example: i shaved my head a month before i started graduate school and got zero attention from the ladies for months. that entire semester i just grew my hair out. i came back after winter break with somewhat longish hair, and i'll never forget sitting at the library near this table full of hot girls gossiping in front of a computer, and one of them looking back at me and saying "oh wow.. he got *really* hot." i glanced at their computer screen and what do i see? a picture of me with a shaved head that they'd looked up on the online grad school directory.Comment
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Women like men who are attractive. Most men are much more attractive with hair. Some look ok without it and some look just as good without it. If I suited being bald I would have shaved my head long ago. I'd love it. All this shit would be over. No more seeing it disappear. Just saying **** it this is who I am. I look terrible bald. Your hair disappearing is like removing an object from a painting. It completely changes the composition. I had big head big features big hair. Everything kinda worked together. And I was good looking. Take my hair away. I'm probably average looking. But it's not even about being good looking for me. It's just having a harshness to my appearance.
But what someone said about those looks from women is soooo true. And saying you read too much into doesn't hold up. If I looked at a girl. She looked back. When I started losing my hair at 18, THE VERY FIRST thing that I noticed, before the depression, before I even felt any different about myself, was that those looks didn't get returned.Comment
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I6hBfBRrBlU
the reason why bald guys think they'll lose out with women is because most of them lose all their confidence along with their hair...... its not the hair.. it never was the hair..
no man in the history of man kind became more attractive by going bald, ever.
some lucky guys with nice head shape can remain somewhat attractive.
but for the 95% of us who weren't blessed with the perfect scull shape its a free fall in the attractiveness scale.Comment
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