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  • greatjob!
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    Originally posted by DannyBoyy7
    But it is not as easy as that cause his hair looks "fine" dont mean nothing...im the worrying type i always worry specially over silly stuff what dont matter i cant help it (like when i worried about my hairloss even though it was still "perfect" to others at the time)...once the worry settles in thats it it is hard to get out all you lot saying pretty much on the words of..."stop being silly your hair is fine dont waste the time you have with hair" makes no difference we KNOW we shouldnt worry but can't help it...kinda like someone with OCD (like myself but different types) and cant stop washing their hands they know the reason they are doing it is stupid but cant stop.

    Im sure yeahyeahyeah (unless this is just a big troll attempt) knows he has enough hair for now but he worries are what to come (horseshoe or if the hairloss will get worse or not etc) your worries can make things seem alot worse then they actually are...instead of being a tosser to him try an understand where he is coming from and realise not everyone thinks the same (i dont mean just you i mean others aswell)
    There's a big difference between worrying and claiming your life is ruined and you live in fear from a problem that doesn't exist, that's called being crazy.

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  • DannyBoyy7
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    Originally posted by Morbo
    *sigh* Comprehensive reading fail?
    Look man, first: NOBODY said "he should stop caring about his hair because he is 28", that was not implied and the age thing was not even used in that context.

    Second: I am 28 years old myself and a far more advanced 'bald brother'. I KNOW what it's like to be balding in your late 20's. (which he atm obviously is not)

    Third: If "younger women are very easy to impress when you have disposable income, your own place/car, style, social skills, etc" 'Yeahyeahyeah' should stop ****ing around about his life being ruined because his hair density being only 90% or being a NW 1,5 and actually do something about the parts in his life which are lacking. That was the context in which the age-argument actually was used.




    But it is not as easy as that cause his hair looks "fine" dont mean nothing...im the worrying type i always worry specially over silly stuff what dont matter i cant help it (like when i worried about my hairloss even though it was still "perfect" to others at the time)...once the worry settles in thats it it is hard to get out all you lot saying pretty much on the words of..."stop being silly your hair is fine dont waste the time you have with hair" makes no difference we KNOW we shouldnt worry but can't help it...kinda like someone with OCD (like myself but different types) and cant stop washing their hands they know the reason they are doing it is stupid but cant stop.

    Im sure yeahyeahyeah (unless this is just a big troll attempt) knows he has enough hair for now but he worries are what to come (horseshoe or if the hairloss will get worse or not etc) your worries can make things seem alot worse then they actually are...instead of being a tosser to him try an understand where he is coming from and realise not everyone thinks the same (i dont mean just you i mean others aswell)

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  • Morbo
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    Originally posted by 25 going on 65
    I see a lot of comments about yeahyeahyeah's age as if he should stop caring about his appearance because he is 28??
    Let me break this down....late 20s is not what some of you apparently think. These are the best years for being single IF you can maintain your appearance. When you have disposable income, your own place/car, style, social skills, etc, younger women are very easy to impress

    However it ALL hinges on your appearance. This makes the difference between being seen as a valuable bachelor vs a sad case who tries too hard and needs to give up
    MPB is a huge kick in the balls because you can do everything else right to stay looking young/healthy (sleep, diet, sunscreen, exercise, manage stress etc.) yet if you lost the MPB dice roll & have this gene, all of it goes to waste unless you catch it early enough w/ meds

    & as he says it stretches to professional life as well. The world is superficial and it does not stop once you are 25+. I have made a thread already about how disadvantaged you can be in your career if you look bad, many people tried to disagree about it, but it is a fact.

    Appearance = the #1 factor in your day to day life as a man, age by itself is nothing
    *sigh* Comprehensive reading fail?
    Look man, first: NOBODY said "he should stop caring about his hair because he is 28", that was not implied and the age thing was not even used in that context.

    Second: I am 28 years old myself and a far more advanced 'bald brother'. I KNOW what it's like to be balding in your late 20's. (which he atm obviously is not)

    Third: If "younger women are very easy to impress when you have disposable income, your own place/car, style, social skills, etc" 'Yeahyeahyeah' should stop ****ing around about his life being ruined because his hair density being only 90% or being a NW 1,5 and actually do something about the parts in his life which are lacking. That was the context in which the age-argument actually was used.

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  • mnhair
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    Originally posted by yeahyeahyeah
    10 bathroom checks today.
    It gets exhausting after a while.

    Was suited up , a girl called me dashing. But I only know it was because of my hair. Balding feels like a dirty little secret.
    I can see that you want to be where you were before re: hairline etc. The one thing I'll note is that this is causing you stress. The more stress you have on this the more it'll accelerate your hair loss. So just chill and live your life. Yes, people are shallow and especially women re: dating. That's the world.

    As to marriage, if a chick can't accept you for who you are, she's no good and will likely divorce your ass, and do an eat pray love tour when she gets bored. BTW, people aren't even getting married as much anymore. Perfectly normal to be single into older age than it was during the 80s.

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  • 25 going on 65
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    I see a lot of comments about yeahyeahyeah's age as if he should stop caring about his appearance because he is 28??
    Let me break this down....late 20s is not what some of you apparently think. These are the best years for being single IF you can maintain your appearance. When you have disposable income, your own place/car, style, social skills, etc, younger women are very easy to impress

    However it ALL hinges on your appearance. This makes the difference between being seen as a valuable bachelor vs a sad case who tries too hard and needs to give up
    MPB is a huge kick in the balls because you can do everything else right to stay looking young/healthy (sleep, diet, sunscreen, exercise, manage stress etc.) yet if you lost the MPB dice roll & have this gene, all of it goes to waste unless you catch it early enough w/ meds

    & as he says it stretches to professional life as well. The world is superficial and it does not stop once you are 25+. I have made a thread already about how disadvantaged you can be in your career if you look bad, many people tried to disagree about it, but it is a fact.

    Appearance = the #1 factor in your day to day life as a man, age by itself is nothing

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  • yeahyeahyeah
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    Originally posted by StuckInARut
    10 bathroom checks today.
    It gets exhausting after a while.

    Was suited up , a girl called me dashing. But I only know it was because of my hair. Balding feels like a dirty little secret.

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  • mpb47
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    Originally posted by yeahyeahyeah
    7 years till 35. Year 2020

    If they don't have newer treatments by then. It will be like:

    What.the.****.
    Well that is just a guess as I had that super slow mpb too,plus dr's say that is a common age for it to happen. You may go 20 + years before you need anything, if ever. But if you do, just don't put it off and let it expand. I am sure there will be something better by then, but even if not, minox+propecia is better than doing nothing.

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  • StuckInARut
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  • yeahyeahyeah
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    Originally posted by UK_
    NW2 is NW2... are you saying NW2 shouldnt even be on this website?

    and plus yyy's hair is grown out very long - it may look significantly different if he buzzed down and then took picture under a flash.
    Tbh that pic is of my hair when it's cut short.


    I am a NW 2 tho

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  • greatjob!
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    Originally posted by UK_
    NW2 is NW2... are you saying NW2 shouldnt even be on this website?

    and plus yyy's hair is grown out very long - it may look significantly different if he buzzed down and then took picture under a flash.
    If you read the posts on here no one is saying he shouldn't be on this site, especially me.

    What I'm saying is he needs to stop saying his life is ruined and he lives in fear, boo hoo whoa is me emo bullshit. He has a great head of hair, but every one of his posts is so over dramatic and doesn't synch up with reality. Do you really think any sane person would come on here with his hair and claim their life is over? He sounds like a mental patient.

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  • Morbo
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    Originally posted by UK_
    NW2 is NW2... are you saying NW2 shouldnt even be on this website?
    That's not what I said and I have a hard time understanding what gave you that impression. My post means exactly what it says it means.

    Originally posted by UK_

    and plus yyy's hair is grown out very long - it may look significantly different if he buzzed down and then took picture under a flash
    I seriously doubt it.
    The point of buzzing down your hair is to hide thinning hair by 'leveling' them with the thick, longer ones and orderly fashion hairs which have no support left. His hair is still normal to long on his picture and there simply is no thinning visible.

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  • UK_
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    NW2 is NW2... are you saying NW2 shouldnt even be on this website?

    and plus yyy's hair is grown out very long - it may look significantly different if he buzzed down and then took picture under a flash.

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  • Morbo
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    Originally posted by yeahyeahyeah
    Hairloss is a headache I don't need.

    Losing hair is like losing your identity. Do you think women would like it if they lost theirs?
    I'm not quite sure what women's hairloss has to do with my posts or the discussion in general but:

    You currently at 28:



    Me currently at 28:




    Please don't lecture me on 'loss of identity', it annoys me.

    You have absolutely nothing even remotely close to 'beginning baldness'.
    If I were an online bully I would take my pleasure from seeing you miserable, but I advise you; please see a shrink. Your posts are insane.

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  • greatjob!
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    Originally posted by yeahyeahyeah
    Do you think women would like it if they lost theirs
    Women do lose their hair. In fact in the U.S. nearly the same number of women suffer from hairloss as men.

    Originally posted by DannyBoyy7
    Dude dear bloody lord just block him or something if he pisses you off that much.
    I was trying to slap some sense into him, but it appears he would rather live in a fantasy land where his perfect head of hair is ruining his life. The guy is completely mental, but since he is impervious to common sense and reality I will quit responding to his crazy rants.

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  • yeahyeahyeah
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    Originally posted by Morbo
    Yeah, I kinda gotta concur what the others said. I mean, you're pushing 30, you're not a kid anymore. People are free to choose whatever lifestyle they want, but it's a fact that around your/our age the majority of people - both men/women, bald and hairy - choose to settle down. So I thought your fear of "not wanting to become the bald settled down type" was rather striking.

    I think you're more alarmed about entering a new life-phase and possibly entering a 'quarterlife-crisis' than your hair.
    A lot of people get married later too.

    I broke up with my gf who I wanted to marry. Shit happens. And as long as I am single , I am on the market. Also with the way the economy is I am still forging my career, I need to have everything going for me. Hairloss is a headache I don't need.

    Losing hair is like losing your identity. Do you think women would like it if they lost theirs?

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