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  • DepressedByHairLoss
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    Originally posted by clandestine
    I'm tired.

    Tired of losing my hair. Tired of medication induced side-effects. Tired of not having the appropriate means to combat hair loss due to hypersensitivity to aa's.

    I'm tired of being the only person my age who is losing their hair. I'm tired of judgement. Tired of checking forums, tired of timelines.

    Sometimes the weight of things is hard to handle. Hope is all we often have.

    Thanks for the support you've offered, btt members. All of you.
    You're totally right. "Tired of not having the appropriate means to combat hair loss". Amen to that. I want to regrow my hair more than anything and not only are we not given any effective options to do so, but the options that are constantly being sold to us (HT's, Rogaine) are so damn inferior and/or minimally effective.

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  • drybone
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    Originally posted by clandestine
    I'm tired.

    Tired of losing my hair. Tired of medication induced side-effects. Tired of not having the appropriate means to combat hair loss due to hypersensitivity to aa's.

    I'm tired of being the only person my age who is losing their hair. I'm tired of judgement. Tired of checking forums, tired of timelines.

    Sometimes the weight of things is hard to handle. Hope is all we often have.

    Thanks for the support you've offered, btt members. All of you.
    You are stronger than you think.

    Takes a lot of courage to stick up a thread and tell us how you really feel. Its no small feat.

    You are doing great. I know what I try to do. Take the best of what I can and block out all the doubt, worry and self pity. I know, its easier said than done and sometimes I fail.

    But the fact you reached out to us means you care deeply and are dedicated to it.

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  • Goose4
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    hey clandestine, do u mind me asking how old you are?

    I know how you feel, along with many other ppl here, tired of waking up everyday and the first thing that comes to mind is my hair. its the last thing i look at before i go to bed. I cant help but stopping and staring at every guy i see with a nice full head of hair and hairline. I envy all those guys who dont have to worry about this, who dont know how it feels to be dealing with such a terrifying thing. Im not sure if theres many other young guys my age on this forum, but to let you know, i am only 21 years old. I noticed my hair thinning i guess almost 2 years ago, my hairline receeded a bit, but i neever worried about it. I recently decided to buzz my hair short thinking it wouldnt be a bad idea. little did i know, my thinning was worse than i thought. Now i hide it with nanogen concealers.... Its the biggest secret, my family has no idea, my girlfriend of 4 years has no idea, none of my friends know. Ive worn a hat ever since i can remember because i was always self conscious about my somewhat of a high forehead when i was growing up. Its not fair for to have to deal with this at such a young age, its the biggest burden and it effects everything i do. Ive shed many tears over the last 6 months because it has gotten to be very very noticeable without concealer. I am also tired of being the ony guy suffering from this at my age. like sh*t i am only 21 years old. I dont mean any offense to anyone here if you read this, but im in no way a "godly" man, but i even started praying just hoping for something good to come my way. I come on this forum to see possible advancements in medicine or treatments, but i have not tried anything, no propecia, fin, dut, ru,. i dont even really know what all that stuff is. All i know is that this forum has been great for me, I come on here and read about other ppl suffering and how they feel, and i feel like we are all one big family trying to get thru this together. All we can do is support each other, becasue there is nothing we can do about hair loss, its gonna happen unfortunately.

    I dont understand why growing hair cant be as easy as spreading a little grass seed on the lawn and seeing thicker greener grass in 3 days.

    Like i said before, we just got to support each other. Lend a hand in any way, share experiences with treatments and just keep battling. Sooner or later a cure will be found guys, we have to try and stay positive no matter how hard it will be.

    cheers guys,
    wishing all the best to all other fellow hair loss sufferers

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  • BigThinker
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    You'll make it, bro.

    I'm tired too. Was tired of going bald, working 30-40 hours a week, full-time student status, Master's project, winter blues.

    Thankfully, I'm on the other side of most of that, but there's still some residual exhaustion.

    We've got to learn to be engaged and passionate about life. Studies have shown that being depressed, anxious, hopeless, and angry are addictive. It's hard to get out of it, but we must strive to overcome.

    Some day we'll look back and wish we had been more zestful in our daily ambitions. Let's try and minimize foreseeable regret and make every day worth something.

    Be healthy and happy.

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  • Dan26
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    Hang in there brother. Be grateful for what you have, and focus on improving your life in other areas everyday.

    Life as a young balding soldier is hard sometimes, the future is daunting. Every day that passes leaves us with less hope. But we can't let it stop us from being happy and living productive and interesting lives. Who the hell knows what the future holds? A cure could be on the market in the next 5 years, or you could get hit by a bus tomorrow. No point in waiting to overcome hair loss before starting to live your life to the fullest. Just keep it in the back burner, do what you can to combat it, and enjoy life in the meantime.

    Stay strong.

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  • clandestine
    started a topic I'm tired.

    I'm tired.

    I'm tired.

    Tired of losing my hair. Tired of medication induced side-effects. Tired of not having the appropriate means to combat hair loss due to hypersensitivity to aa's.

    I'm tired of being the only person my age who is losing their hair. I'm tired of judgement. Tired of checking forums, tired of timelines.

    Sometimes the weight of things is hard to handle. Hope is all we often have.

    Thanks for the support you've offered, btt members. All of you.
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