This makes me a really bad candidate for HT, right?

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  • Gubter_87
    Senior Member
    • Aug 2010
    • 102

    This makes me a really bad candidate for HT, right?

    I am 23 years old, and first started noticing my hair loss around 17 - 18. Naturally, loosing my hair at such a young age has had a huge impact on my confidence.

    I have looked in to hair transplants, but it seems that it is not a good idea for someone my age. But I have noticed there are a lot of doctor representatives and other knowledgable prople on this board, so just thought I'd tell my story and see what u guys think.

    I have been on propecia minoxidil for the better part of the last two years, but hair is not thickening. It has probably halted my hair loss, which is positive, but I'm not happy with how my hair looks today - and as I see it a HT is probably the only option if one wants some hair back.

    I am probably heading for a norwood 5a, and already have thinning in this whole pattern. Hair line is receeded to a norwood 3-3a.

    So what would be realistic results and is it a really bad idea to consider a HT?
  • Winston
    Moderator
    • Mar 2009
    • 929

    #2
    The best thing to do is to post some images of your hair. Make sure that they are clear under good lighting. Post some of your hairline, top, and sides. Age is a big factor but if you are on medication and can benefit from a hair transplant it is possible that you can be a candidate. It all depends on the individual case.

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    • Dr. Glenn Charles
      IAHRS Recommended Hair Transplant Surgeon
      • Nov 2008
      • 2419

      #3
      I would be glad to review your photos and discuss your options in hair restoration. Age is only one of the factors that should be used in determining how good of hair transplant candidate you are.
      Dr. Glenn Charles
      Member, International Alliance of Hair Restoration Surgeons
      View my IAHRS Profile

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      • CIT_Girl
        Senior Member
        • Mar 2010
        • 302

        #4
        It's certainly not unheard of for physicians to perform hair restoration surgery on patients as young as you, but it is something that needs to be considered on a case-by-case basis. However, knowing that you will likely progress to a later stage on the Norwood scale, you certainly don't want to go an aggressive route, and it's most likely not a good idea to even get started on the vertex/crown area at this point. Yet, if you've had success in stabilizing your hair loss on meds for the past couple years, and if you have realistic expectations (including the possibility that additional work may be necessary in the future), I think there are physicians that would certainly consider doing a little hairline/frontal work for you.

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        • Dr. Lindsey
          IAHRS Recommended Hair Transplant Surgeon
          • Dec 2008
          • 6190

          #5
          We work with young guys, but it is critical that you plan for the future. In particular, don't insist on a hairline that all your 23 year old friends have, as that will look GOOFY when you are 45 like me. And, if indeed you think you are going to NW5, you might be lucky and only need a little up front; or you may have both bad genes and bad luck and wind up like NW7.... Don't waste that donor hair. And, if you decide to proceed, go home and sleep on it before you commit.

          Dr. Lindsey McLean VA
          William Lindsey, MD
          Member, International Alliance of Hair Restoration Surgeons
          View my IAHRS Profile

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          • Jack21
            Senior Member
            • Sep 2010
            • 167

            #6
            Just don't do it! Please do not do it!

            I have erased my post. I do not wish to slander all physicians providing this elective procedure. Some are very ethical in their practices. Others, however, are not. My results have been disasterous.
            Last edited by Jack21; 09-14-2010, 08:11 PM. Reason: interests of fairness

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            • morelocks
              Member
              • Jul 2009
              • 90

              #7
              Jack 21 your a good blog for posting your story when it seems like you have given up on ht.

              Gunter if you started losing at 18 I can't believe there are some docs who I once considered to be ok who are actually saying on this post they would possible operate on you.

              I'm in a industry where I see loads of young people get a ht and then they just disappear after 2-3 years. I myself started losing at the age of 22 and did something about it in 2007 at the age of 27.I have to date had 4 fuse in total to keep up with the loss and now I'm on meeds which I should have started ages ago.

              My hair looks damn good unless it's really windy or rainy, but the friends, family relationships and the last morning day and night of the last three years iv lost dnt make this worth it. Even though it looks good now I worry daily for the day the meeds stop working.

              Iv got hair but I'm lonely because I have such a big secret from everyone whom I love. The bottom line is your too damn young.

              If u r stupid enough to proceed after all these forum horror stories then you should only get it done if after ur research u feel there will be new procedures in the next 4-5 years to give u complete restoration cos ur donna alone will not do it and one day u will look like a freak

              I hate being on these forums but I'm here for people like u so if u have any questions I'm around. Use all the other forums as well to make up ur own mind

              P.s I had all fues and even though they say it's no scarring that's ball$hit, I can never shave my head again

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              • dgman21
                Senior Member
                • Sep 2010
                • 203

                #8
                Morelocks/Jack,
                I am really considering a HT. I have bad diffuse thinning. The doctor reccomended 600 grafts. After your blogs wow i'm really scared.....I don't know what to do cause I am really miserable as is

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                • Jack21
                  Senior Member
                  • Sep 2010
                  • 167

                  #9
                  Originally posted by dgman21
                  Morelocks/Jack,
                  I am really considering a HT. I have bad diffuse thinning. The doctor reccomended 600 grafts. After your blogs wow i'm really scared.....I don't know what to do cause I am really miserable as is
                  The bottom line is this: a shaved or very closely buzzed head usually doesn't look that good (it can), but a scalp that is scarred and pock marked is horrendous. I was told by a coworker that she would no longer be able to work with me b/c she was so put off by my appearance. I almost lost it. You don't want that, man. Just crop it short. I would do anything to be able to do that again. Seriously I would give a finger to be able to just shave my head and not see the moonscape.

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                  • Gubter_87
                    Senior Member
                    • Aug 2010
                    • 102

                    #10
                    Thanks for all the replys. Like usual there are definetaley mixed opinions. I really respect the opinions from u guys who have had ur lived wrecked by a ht, but do u think with a better surgeon and planning it might have been successfull? One thing i dont understand is that i have seen good hts on some ppl who have been nw5-6. If I realise thats what im heading for and plan from that, then why would it be a mistake? I realise wasting all my donor on a thick nw1 ht is stupid, but what about a nw2ish? I am not comfortable with a shaved head and feel like im being robbed of my youth. Its on my mind all the time and really holds me back in life. I often have the feeling that I would be perfectly happy with my life if only I didnt have this hair problem. Im sure u guys know the feeling. Its beem on my mind more or less everyday since I was 18. I feel I shouldnt have to deal with this now in life. Its not right. I wouldnt care as much if it happened when i was 30 but not now! Sorry for the rant, just had to vent a bit :-P

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                    • dgman21
                      Senior Member
                      • Sep 2010
                      • 203

                      #11
                      Gubter ,
                      I feel the same exact way man!!! My life would be graet if i didn't have this hair issue!!! I don't want to live like a recluse. I'm assuming you're 23.? The only thing i want to say is about your last statement about you not caring as much if you were 30. I am almost 32 and I sAY i wouldn't care as much if i were 40...I think i'll always be bothered unless im 60

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                      • Jack21
                        Senior Member
                        • Sep 2010
                        • 167

                        #12
                        careful!!!!

                        I had mine done by a surgeon who advertises/ posts on this very site. I will not give you his name, but he is considered one of the best in the business. Don't think that b/c the doctor is good your life will not possibly be ruined - like mine.


                        QUOTE=Gubter_87;15870]Thanks for all the replys. Like usual there are definetaley mixed opinions. I really respect the opinions from u guys who have had ur lived wrecked by a ht, but do u think with a better surgeon and planning it might have been successfull? One thing i dont understand is that i have seen good hts on some ppl who have been nw5-6. If I realise thats what im heading for and plan from that, then why would it be a mistake? I realise wasting all my donor on a thick nw1 ht is stupid, but what about a nw2ish? I am not comfortable with a shaved head and feel like im being robbed of my youth. Its on my mind all the time and really holds me back in life. I often have the feeling that I would be perfectly happy with my life if only I didnt have this hair problem. Im sure u guys know the feeling. Its beem on my mind more or less everyday since I was 18. I feel I shouldnt have to deal with this now in life. Its not right. I wouldnt care as much if it happened when i was 30 but not now! Sorry for the rant, just had to vent a bit :-P [/QUOTE]

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                        • Gubter_87
                          Senior Member
                          • Aug 2010
                          • 102

                          #13
                          Jack21; Sorry to hear that. Hopefully you will find a way to deal with it, or be able to have some rescue job or something.

                          dgman21; Yeah I'm 23. I guess hair loss is always a bitch, but naturally the younger you are the more unnatural it is. I've had to deal with this since I was 18. About the same time I was getting comfortable with myself and the way I look it struck me, and I feel like I'm loosing out. I can't sit down with a girl and feel perfectly confident, or sit down with mates without feeling like the odd one out and I am ALWAYS - in every situation - self concious about my hair loss.

                          Also I notice a big difference in how people react to me with and without hair. Back when I had enough hair to cover it up I always used to get picked up in bars by good looking girls. Now - I can hardly remember the last time it happend. And it's like a two edged sword because while hair loss isn't doing anything for my looks, at the same time it's ruining my self confidence and the way I see myself. Which makes it even more difficult to function socially.

                          Oh well... I'd still like to hear peoples opinions about a HT - if one plans for loosing more hair is it still a bad idea? Should I forget about it? wait? Get a Hair unit? Or just say **** it - and keep struggling through life hoping that I'll one day be able to get over it?

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                          • Don'tDoIt
                            Member
                            • Jul 2010
                            • 77

                            #14
                            Gubter, please listen to the above commenters. DON"T DO IT. Yes, that is my username.

                            I also had a hair transplant from a well-known surgeon. Now I have a permanent strip scar across the back of my head. In front, I have a hairline that does not look natural.

                            Please realize that however bad you may feel about your thinning hair, you can feel ten times worse with a hair transplant. Even reputable surgeons can give you a bad result. You can be made to be insecure about your head for the rest of your life. Don't Do It.

                            Good luck with your decision.

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                            • Jack21
                              Senior Member
                              • Sep 2010
                              • 167

                              #15
                              please read my tale

                              Gubter,

                              Please, please read my story!

                              I am a 33 year old male who began to thin in my mid 20's. I really didn't notice at the time (I was in the military and kept my hair very short). When my mother saw me for the first time in 4 years she was shocked at how thin my hair had become and immediately pulled out a bottle of toppik which she uses for her very thin hair.


                              there are more pictures of the bald head on page 3 or 4

                              Please I am begging you. I wish to heaven someone had warned me. Please, please read my story.

                              Originally posted by Gubter_87
                              Jack21; Sorry to hear that. Hopefully you will find a way to deal with it, or be able to have some rescue job or something.

                              dgman21; Yeah I'm 23. I guess hair loss is always a bitch, but naturally the younger you are the more unnatural it is. I've had to deal with this since I was 18. About the same time I was getting comfortable with myself and the way I look it struck me, and I feel like I'm loosing out. I can't sit down with a girl and feel perfectly confident, or sit down with mates without feeling like the odd one out and I am ALWAYS - in every situation - self concious about my hair loss.

                              Also I notice a big difference in how people react to me with and without hair. Back when I had enough hair to cover it up I always used to get picked up in bars by good looking girls. Now - I can hardly remember the last time it happend. And it's like a two edged sword because while hair loss isn't doing anything for my looks, at the same time it's ruining my self confidence and the way I see myself. Which makes it even more difficult to function socially.

                              Oh well... I'd still like to hear peoples opinions about a HT - if one plans for loosing more hair is it still a bad idea? Should I forget about it? wait? Get a Hair unit? Or just say **** it - and keep struggling through life hoping that I'll one day be able to get over it?

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