I think we could swap spit (stories) all night as you seem to be full of them.
In the repair side of hair, there are over 30 years of bad, and when i say bad, I mean really bad work. I can recall listening to Martin Unger back in 1998 tell about how he offers chocolate or vanilla. Chocolate is a scalp reduction and vanilla is mini grafts or plugs. The patient asks what he recommends and he says a scalp reduction. Patients listen to what he recommends even though long term it offers the worts possible outcome. Patients always want what we recommend. When patients tell me to do what i think it is best, my first response is that they would never sit in the chair and tell the hair stylist to surprise them. People know what they want so start with what your goals are. What are your primary goals and let's proceed from there. Just last week I had a 26 year old tell me it was a 4 cm to 5 cm hairline. I sent him home. i was not going to build it. We gave him his money back and we failed to recognize his goals in advance. Had i built the 7 or 8 cm hairline he needed, he'd have been unhappy. Sometimes it is better to make them unhappy with what you can't do because long term it's a disaster waiting to happen.
Carlos is a dear sweet man. He would never intentionally do any wrong to anyone. Still he did primarily because he was not a forward thinker or a progressive thinker, or an evaluator. if one continues to do bad work and see it as good. eventually you harm enough people to carry that stigma the remainder of your life. How anyone could put plugs on a scalp or do scalp reductions for 30 years and not see the error of their ways, I have no idea. I became interested in hair restoration only because men wanted hair so bad that they would be willing to look like circus freaks to have it. How anyone could continue to offer such appalling work for years without ever thinking twice about it baffles me. I think it all goes back to the same old acceptance thinking that precludes advancement in the hair restoration industry as a whole. Think about it. For 30 years no one thought plugs and reductions were bad yet then suddenly things changed. Why? New docs simply said these results are unacceptable. Still, why did it take 30 years. I have no clue. I knew right away.
Yes, I have heard all these stories and much worse. I still hear how patients are told their strip scars will be pencil thin. That's fine unless you are the average which is not pencil thin or even if you are pencil thin but you marry two different hair growth angles and two different qualities of hair.
In the repair side of hair, there are over 30 years of bad, and when i say bad, I mean really bad work. I can recall listening to Martin Unger back in 1998 tell about how he offers chocolate or vanilla. Chocolate is a scalp reduction and vanilla is mini grafts or plugs. The patient asks what he recommends and he says a scalp reduction. Patients listen to what he recommends even though long term it offers the worts possible outcome. Patients always want what we recommend. When patients tell me to do what i think it is best, my first response is that they would never sit in the chair and tell the hair stylist to surprise them. People know what they want so start with what your goals are. What are your primary goals and let's proceed from there. Just last week I had a 26 year old tell me it was a 4 cm to 5 cm hairline. I sent him home. i was not going to build it. We gave him his money back and we failed to recognize his goals in advance. Had i built the 7 or 8 cm hairline he needed, he'd have been unhappy. Sometimes it is better to make them unhappy with what you can't do because long term it's a disaster waiting to happen.
Carlos is a dear sweet man. He would never intentionally do any wrong to anyone. Still he did primarily because he was not a forward thinker or a progressive thinker, or an evaluator. if one continues to do bad work and see it as good. eventually you harm enough people to carry that stigma the remainder of your life. How anyone could put plugs on a scalp or do scalp reductions for 30 years and not see the error of their ways, I have no idea. I became interested in hair restoration only because men wanted hair so bad that they would be willing to look like circus freaks to have it. How anyone could continue to offer such appalling work for years without ever thinking twice about it baffles me. I think it all goes back to the same old acceptance thinking that precludes advancement in the hair restoration industry as a whole. Think about it. For 30 years no one thought plugs and reductions were bad yet then suddenly things changed. Why? New docs simply said these results are unacceptable. Still, why did it take 30 years. I have no clue. I knew right away.
Yes, I have heard all these stories and much worse. I still hear how patients are told their strip scars will be pencil thin. That's fine unless you are the average which is not pencil thin or even if you are pencil thin but you marry two different hair growth angles and two different qualities of hair.
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