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  • yeahyeahyeah
    Senior Member
    • Nov 2011
    • 1818

    #91
    Originally posted by cichlidfort
    And I bet your confidence was through the roof after you hooking up with her right? If you're a lawyer then I don't know why you are stressing so bad about the hair. I understand hair loss SUCKS but you have a legit career and women find intelligence/good career way more attractive than Brad Pitt hair. Trust me! One day, we will all be laughing about our depression and anxiety when there is a cure but for now, we gotta be content with what we have. Some kids are born into this world with no parents or a deformity. We have to be blessed for what we have been given. It's all about perspective.
    When you are single, you worry about it.

    When you are not single, you dont care. I certainly didn't.

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    • cichlidfort
      Senior Member
      • Jan 2013
      • 262

      #92
      Originally posted by yeahyeahyeah
      When you are single, you worry about it.

      When you are not single, you dont care. I certainly didn't.
      I definitely get what you're saying. Having a gf/wife is comforting. However, when I was dating a dime I still had anxiety due to my hair and it's progressive loss. I guess everyone is different.

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      • yeahyeahyeah
        Senior Member
        • Nov 2011
        • 1818

        #93
        Originally posted by cichlidfort
        I definitely get what you're saying. Having a gf/wife is comforting. However, when I was dating a dime I still had anxiety due to my hair and it's progressive loss. I guess everyone is different.
        of course nobody wants to lose it, but if you had a stable rship, you would probably be more accepting of it as you have someone who loves you.

        I certainly was. Actually more to the point - my overall mental health was a lot better.

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        • cichlidfort
          Senior Member
          • Jan 2013
          • 262

          #94
          Originally posted by yeahyeahyeah
          of course nobody wants to lose it, but if you had a stable rship, you would probably be more accepting of it as you have someone who loves you.

          I certainly was. Actually more to the point - my overall mental health was a lot better.
          I completely agree. Fortunately for me, I have the tall and handsome package going for me. The way I see it which helps me cope, I would rather be tall and good looking as I am than short, not good looking with a thick head of hair.

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          • Conpecia
            Senior Member
            • Sep 2011
            • 911

            #95
            Originally posted by UK_
            Impossible.

            Nigam + Mwamba FTW.
            uk i thought you were better than this honestly...

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            • Conpecia
              Senior Member
              • Sep 2011
              • 911

              #96
              Originally posted by cichlidfort
              I completely agree. Fortunately for me, I have the tall and handsome package going for me. The way I see it which helps me cope, I would rather be tall and good looking as I am than short, not good looking with a thick head of hair.
              me too i have the same thing going thank god. but sometimes i think it adds to my stress because all the women (and a lot of the men awkwardly...) always comment on my looks and going bald will def knock me down a couple points to merely 'above average' but not 'very handsome' which apparently i am...

              that being said i'll take being tall and bald with a good face over short and nw0 with a bad face any day.

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              • Conpecia
                Senior Member
                • Sep 2011
                • 911

                #97
                Originally posted by cichlidfort
                I definitely get what you're saying. Having a gf/wife is comforting. However, when I was dating a dime I still had anxiety due to my hair and it's progressive loss. I guess everyone is different.
                again, me too. i dated one of the best-looking women you will ever see and i obsessed over my hair-loss just the same as i do now. i think it was because i knew she could go get any guy she wanted and was a fashion photographer so she was particular about features on guys. she always said she didn't care about the hair loss but now she's dating a nw0 who will never go bald, go figure...

                but yeah i have a lot going for me beyond looks, i'm very musical, good sense of humor, good career, friendly, etc. maybe that's why i obsess over hair so much because it's one of my few irreversible flaws (though i do have many reversible flaws)...

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                • Dan26
                  Senior Member
                  • Jul 2012
                  • 1270

                  #98
                  most of us are delusional and think that if hairloss was over with all our problems would be solved :P

                  i admit thats how I THINK i'd feeel...hope i get to find out if thats the case one day !

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                  • yeahyeahyeah
                    Senior Member
                    • Nov 2011
                    • 1818

                    #99
                    Originally posted by Dan26
                    most of us are delusional and think that if hairloss was over with all our problems would be solved :P

                    i admit thats how I THINK i'd feeel...hope i get to find out if thats the case one day !
                    I was a lot more happier before this shit

                    Like right now I got so depressed that I turned into a gambler, just won 700 dollars

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                    • Dan26
                      Senior Member
                      • Jul 2012
                      • 1270

                      Originally posted by yeahyeahyeah
                      I was a lot more happier before this shit

                      Like right now I got so depressed that I turned into a gambler, just won 700 dollars
                      lmao, nice man, throw it in the HT fund

                      life was stress free before this shit...im tellin u the ultimate man would be one that goes through hairloss but stops/reverses/ gets it back one day..they would have so much wisdom/perspective and be lightyears ahead of all other non MPB'ers

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                      • UK_
                        Senior Member
                        • Feb 2011
                        • 2744

                        Originally posted by Conpecia
                        uk i thought you were better than this honestly...
                        Why? If Dr Mwamba is confirming the findings through the French patient why do you still doubt Dr Nigam?... Obviously you're either not following the thread or havent informed yourself enough of his current results to date.

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                        • Conpecia
                          Senior Member
                          • Sep 2011
                          • 911

                          Originally posted by UK_
                          Why? If Dr Mwamba is confirming the findings through the French patient why do you still doubt Dr Nigam?... Obviously you're either not following the thread or havent informed yourself enough of his current results to date.
                          link to results please

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                          • Conpecia
                            Senior Member
                            • Sep 2011
                            • 911

                            man what a shitty month it's been. just so much bad shit has happened in the past month. i went out with that girl one more time and must have really blown it because the next time i hit her up she said she was busy and then she hasn't contacted me in 3 weeks. sucks because she was number 1 on my list, thought she was really cool. work has gotten super stressful. i ****ed my back up pretty bad. my car died in the middle of ****ing nowhere in the middle of the night and i got stranded for hours. on top of all this shit my hair is still going, the hairline hasn't slowed whatsoever and the mpb itch has come back with a vengeance.

                            i've been pretty depressed lately, just no energy, no confidence, unable to exercise or make strides in my career or hobbies or romantic life. ****ing wish i could catch a break. hopefully november will be better...

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                            • Conpecia
                              Senior Member
                              • Sep 2011
                              • 911

                              UK you still wanna talk about nigam? exactly.

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