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  • ThinningB420
    Senior Member
    • Apr 2012
    • 169

    #46
    Originally posted by Layla
    Just because it's not the norm of what the opposite sex should find attractive, doesn't mean that nobody does. Or that it makes it a weird fetish like was suggested previously. The only way I can kind of, sort of, switch it around and compare it is how some men (not all, I know) like skinny women with a boyish figure, some like them really big, some like very small breasts. May not be the hour glass majority men like (or that we're biologically inclined to be searching for in a mate), but there are some that are really into it.
    I agree heavily with this point. We all have different tastes. I personally find muscular women attractive. Most guys laugh at me when I say this and call them unattractive. I'm not talking about bodybuilders but the women I find more attractive are the fitness competitors who are still very muscular like this:

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    • NotBelievingIt
      Senior Member
      • Oct 2011
      • 595

      #47
      I wish more females understood that lifting weights is what actually gives them the "toned" look they all seem to want. Losing weight without lifting weights just makes you thin. Thin is not toned. Doing 100 crunches isn't going to make you toned. Lifting weights makes you toned.

      and on the subject of objectifying hot toned women with muscle, I'll add:

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      • ThinningB420
        Senior Member
        • Apr 2012
        • 169

        #48
        Yes, I agree, skinny fat is not attractive. Sorry, I didn't mean to objectify these women. I just tried showing a picture of the physique I found attractive. Jamie Eason is beautiful btw.

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        • UK_
          Senior Member
          • Feb 2011
          • 2744

          #49
          Originally posted by Layla
          That was my point too, I just don't think I explain myself well enough. That something you may hate about yourself can be something that others find attractive. May not always be the case, but I for one certainly find balding attractive. Genuinely. I'm sure you'll all scoff at that, but I have zero reason to lie about it. I think it's an attractive masculine trait. Just because it's not the norm of what the opposite sex should find attractive, doesn't mean that nobody does. Or that it makes it a weird fetish like was suggested previously. The only way I can kind of, sort of, switch it around and compare it is how some men (not all, I know) like skinny women with a boyish figure, some like them really big, some like very small breasts. May not be the hour glass majority men like (or that we're biologically inclined to be searching for in a mate), but there are some that are really into it. I don't equate a receding hairline with being unattractive! It can be quite sexy, especially if he shaves the rest down close. As far as feeling badass, personally I think a BICed head can be really attention grabbing! It takes a confident man to do that regardless of hairline, that's for sure. Like I said before it's just me talking, but it can give an example how women's interests vary.


          Highlander, this was the only thing I could come up with in response:

          dumb, antoine dodson, bed intruder, Meme (Website Category), meme, Funny, Humour (TV Genre)


          Maybe he had a couple points, but he lost all validity with the hate he spews.
          That response - is that actually you? A ghetto trash whore?

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          • Layla
            Junior Member
            • Jul 2012
            • 21

            #50
            I think it's unfair to paint an entire age group with one brush. I've certainly never come home on a train throwing up everywhere. Not all young women act like trash. Not all expect hand outs because they're a minority.

            "According to the mainstream media men are ugly, fat, BALD, incompetent, stupid, unhygeinic, worthless, cowardly etc etc the list goes on." I'm not being facetious but I actually don't really see that? The most I see what you're talking about are like Rogaine or Viagra commercials. Am I totally off point?

            I agree that someone as trivial as Hijab gets everyone up in arms, but a lot of womens issues are made a bigger deal by people with agendas. Take that whole birth control nonsense in the US recently.

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            • ThinningB420
              Senior Member
              • Apr 2012
              • 169

              #51
              I think I was watching her last month at Wimbledon against Kerber. It was a sloppy but entertaining match.

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              • Benzzro
                Member
                • Jun 2012
                • 82

                #52
                All the people whining are insecure fools that don't deserve their hair anyway due to there shitty attitude, fact is, most of you whinging are complete virgins that don't understand that even with looks and hair you'll fail with girls if you have that shitty outlook on life, I mean they claim all these things between a man and women, yet most of you have probably never been with a women, maybe 1 or 2?

                My advice to the insecure is to not downgrade yourselves for a month, every time you do, you're just making things worse.

                Looks may attract a gal, but good ****ing luck trying to make her stay, with your crappy attitudes.
                Go get some self help books and read some pick up books and get into the game.
                Or go to the ****ing gym and start actually working for something in your goddamn worthless lives. Damn bitches making me feel disgraced to be part of the human race.

                I've been in the game for a year and a half now and I've seen some ugly ass men pick up 10s

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                • Layla
                  Junior Member
                  • Jul 2012
                  • 21

                  #53
                  Ya for years it's been pushed though that women should stick to the elipticals and treadmills. Weights were for the boys. A lot of women just aren't knowledgeable about weight training still, but that's changing thankfully! I do get looks from some men in the gym though when I'm deadlifting, barbell hip thrust or what have you. Some men aren't used to seeing it either.

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                  • Layla
                    Junior Member
                    • Jul 2012
                    • 21

                    #54
                    Not in the least, but I wasn't about to put effort in writing up an actual reply to such an ignorant post.

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                    • UK_
                      Senior Member
                      • Feb 2011
                      • 2744

                      #55
                      Women need testosterone supplements to lift weights at the same level teen boys and men can lift, and can never achieve the kind of performance of men.

                      The reason women are in the Olympics is the same reason we have a Paralympics.

                      Why do women take testosterone supplements? You dont see men taking Estrogen supplements rolf - stop taking our hormones and piss off.

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                      • UK_
                        Senior Member
                        • Feb 2011
                        • 2744

                        #56
                        Originally posted by Layla
                        Ya for years it's been pushed though that women should stick to the elipticals and treadmills. Weights were for the boys. A lot of women just aren't knowledgeable about weight training still, but that's changing thankfully! I do get looks from some men in the gym though when I'm deadlifting, barbell hip thrust or what have you. Some men aren't used to seeing it either.
                        Pushed through? PUSHED THROUGH? By who? LOL there's a secret media out there "pushing through" womens activities in the gym haha.

                        Listen to yourself - if a man walks into a female only gym he is arrested and thrown in jail put on the sex offenders register - on the other hand a woman is applauded for walking into a male-only gym - and we dont have MALE ONLY GYMS LOL - we have gyms where women just do not want to go.

                        We live in a feminist police state - a feminist nightmare society - life for women in the west is easy and pleasant - for men it is ****ing horrible, we endure a 95% workplace related deaths rate, we die 15 years earlier, we suffer more suicides, more depression, more stress more alcoholism **** man the list is endless - go ask a few men how many rights they had when their wives divorced them and took their entire pension & life savings + all the children - all the women as to do is cry domestic violence and she will have her "white knights" come an arrest and torture the husband. MEN HAVE NO RIGHTS.

                        The worst part about the feminist - is the "white knight" - you get them on here all the time.

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                        • Layla
                          Junior Member
                          • Jul 2012
                          • 21

                          #57
                          Stupid women take steroids. Stupid men take steroids. They'll all croak from heart attacks by 60. (Some men do take estrogen to transition.) But you know that women have testosterone too right? It isn't a only-male hormone, you just have much more of it. You also have estrogen, just we have way more of it. Men and women aren't as different as we may seem

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                          • UK_
                            Senior Member
                            • Feb 2011
                            • 2744

                            #58
                            Originally posted by Layla
                            Stupid women take steroids. Stupid men take steroids. They'll all croak from heart attacks by 60. (Some men do take estrogen to transition.) But you know that women have testosterone too right? It isn't a only-male hormone, you just have much more of it. You also have estrogen, just we have way more of it. Men and women aren't as different as we may seem
                            Reefer Madness. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0028346/

                            You're talking absolute rubbish - what do you know about steroids anyway? More people have died from taking general pain killers in the past 3 months than total deaths from steroids in the past 10 years.

                            If you have cholesterol problems already, and you take steroids, then you will have problems because the TEST will raise your cholesterol levels over 5 - 10 years of use, that doesnt make the drug unsafe to the majority of sensible users.

                            P.S. I know we have estrogen, it is converted from TEST through the biosynthesis of aromatase. And on the face of it no, looking at two sets of chromosomes... one looks like a Y... well that means we're pretty similar, until you actually decode the millions of intracellular genetic differences between men & women.

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                            • Layla
                              Junior Member
                              • Jul 2012
                              • 21

                              #59
                              We have women only gyms because some women feel uncomfortable by men staring at them when they work out, as was admitted in this post lol. I'd have nothing against male only gyms.

                              I should have made myself more clear. Women were pushed into the notion that if you lift weights, you'll get bulky like a guy. Almost impossible for us since the lack of testosterone. Women were encouraged by male and female fitness experts alike, that cardio was a girls best friend. If you lift weights, keep it light. Sounds stupid, but it's true. It's only more recently that weight training has taken off for women.

                              I'm not man-hating, relax.

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                              • Benzzro
                                Member
                                • Jun 2012
                                • 82

                                #60
                                Originally posted by Highlander
                                You make me disgraced to be apart of the human race. Being a virgin an insult?

                                Having sex with an immoral whore is not something to be proud of, sport. You're not a special little snow flake because some 5/10 let you stick it inside of her.

                                Your kind apparently only gets off by insulting "virgins" and pumping up your own ego by emphasising the amount of sex and girls you get. I hope you enjoy living your hollow life, because you're certainly never going to be truly fulfilled with an attitude like that.
                                When did I say any of that? Wtf LOL. I apparently get heaps of sex and girls, I'll take that as a compliment bro. Yes, I also hope you have a nice life, wanting to kill yourself over hair, what a good life that will be.

                                And yes, when people talk about man to women interaction and have had no interaction with a women ever other than their mum's vag, me calling you a virgin is definitely an insult

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