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  • stressdfella
    Member
    • Nov 2011
    • 31

    Cried because of hairloss for the firstime

    today , i noticed a bald patch on my crown area. After 2 years of telling myself , ' m not going bald', I finally realized dat i m , indeed. And dat realization just overwhelmed me. I cried for an hour, non-stop. Dont knw y i did dat. Dnt knw y m writing it down hea. I think m going nuts.
  • sausage
    Senior Member
    • Jan 2012
    • 1064

    #2
    Originally posted by stressdfella
    today , i noticed a bald patch on my crown area. After 2 years of telling myself , ' m not going bald', I finally realized dat i m , indeed. And dat realization just overwhelmed me. I cried for an hour, non-stop. Dont knw y i did dat. Dnt knw y m writing it down hea. I think m going nuts.
    You have had your moment to let it all out, I had this moment too but in a different way.

    You just have to keep going.

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    • Follicle Death Row
      Senior Member
      • May 2011
      • 1066

      #3
      Originally posted by stressdfella
      today , i noticed a bald patch on my crown area. After 2 years of telling myself , ' m not going bald', I finally realized dat i m , indeed. And dat realization just overwhelmed me. I cried for an hour, non-stop. Dont knw y i did dat. Dnt knw y m writing it down hea. I think m going nuts.
      Don't worry. That stage when you can no longer deny it is horrible. I think, though it's still not nice, that it gets a little bit easier after this. It did for me anyway.

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      • whyohwhy
        Member
        • Apr 2012
        • 35

        #4
        I am at the stage of noticing hair falling out, haven't seen anything either than thinning only I am noticing, but...i am learning to grieve now so it is easier when I am truly going bald.

        Going bald seems to be better than taking drugs that make your wang shrink, so I think the main problem with everyone is our inability to just man up and accept life.

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        • 3rdDecade
          Member
          • Apr 2012
          • 43

          #5
          I went through the same thing as you. I intially denied the problem, then it became more evident that i had to accept i was balding, I then cried about the situation and found hope with propecia which i took for 4 months. One day I completely stopped propecia, I had seen the "light", its not all about being vein but whats inside that matters most. I shaved all my hair off and thats where I am today, much happier than what I was .

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          • whyohwhy
            Member
            • Apr 2012
            • 35

            #6
            Originally posted by 3rdDecade
            I went through the same thing as you. I intially denied the problem, then it became more evident that i had to accept i was balding, I then cried about the situation and found hope with propecia which i took for 4 months. One day I completely stopped propecia, I had seen the "light", its not all about being vein but whats inside that matters most. I shaved all my hair off and thats where I am today, much happier than what I was .
            Thats awesome man, I hope I can have the courage when that day comes...how old were you when you could visibly tell?

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            • worried
              Member
              • Mar 2012
              • 54

              #7
              It hurts, It really hurts

              You know that you are going to transform from good looking hero face to shiny Egg shape Oval creepy face
              Almost opposite to Beauty & the Beast Story

              Anyway I started pulling my hair in anger and i got 100 to 150 hairs on my palm

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              • whyohwhy
                Member
                • Apr 2012
                • 35

                #8
                Originally posted by worried
                It hurts, It really hurts

                You know that you are going to transform from good looking hero face to shiny Egg shape Oval creepy face
                Almost opposite to Beauty & the Beast Story

                Anyway I started pulling my hair in anger and i got 100 to 150 hairs on my palm
                Hahaha as sad as baldness is, you made me laugh reading this, well done haha....baldness is a pain in the arse but god made us this way hah

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                • VictimOfDHT
                  Senior Member
                  • Apr 2011
                  • 748

                  #9
                  stressedfella, if you only cried for an hour then I tell you you're handling it just fine. Save yourself more crying and try Minoxidil and Finasteride. They might work for you. AND DON'T BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU HEAR ABOUT FIN.

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                  • Sogeking
                    Senior Member
                    • Feb 2011
                    • 497

                    #10
                    The first time I noticed it I was devestated. For the next 3 days I slept for 12-13 hours straight. It was a shock and I dealt with it by sleeping a lot and watching Friends to give myself a pick me up.
                    But after soem time you either accept it or continue to be depressed about it. Depression interferes with your life and no one wants to be depressed. So you accept it.

                    There is more to life than just hair. But if a day comes when we can get it back then I am all for it .

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                    • Tracy C
                      Senior Member
                      • Sep 2011
                      • 3125

                      #11
                      I wish I had a dollar for every time I've cried myself to sleep over my hair loss. I still do sometimes even though it is not as bad as it used to be anymore.

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                      • UK_
                        Senior Member
                        • Feb 2011
                        • 2744

                        #12
                        The only way hair loss can ever be appreciated as a real concern amongst the general public is when it affects proportionately more women than men, if a health concern affects men nobody will ever give a flying ****.

                        Just look at the difference in funding that goes to breast cancer compared to prostate cancer, even though the rate of occurrence is almost identical.

                        Society itself always places men last and women first, 85% of the homeless in the West are men, suicide rates are several times higher for men than for women.

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                        • VictimOfDHT
                          Senior Member
                          • Apr 2011
                          • 748

                          #13
                          Originally posted by UK_
                          The only way hair loss can ever be appreciated as a real concern amongst the general public is when it affects proportionately more women than men, if a health concern affects men nobody will ever give a flying ****.

                          Just look at the difference in funding that goes to breast cancer compared to prostate cancer, even though the rate of occurrence is almost identical.

                          Society itself always places men last and women first, 85% of the homeless in the West are men, suicide rates are several times higher for men than for women.
                          Thank you, UK. That's the simple fact that most seem to overlook. Men's issues and suffering aren't given any attention in the Western misandrist societies and in fact in all societies of the world. We men are seen as no more than work mules except that people care more about mules than they do about men and their issues. Check out Angry Harry's site.

                          If a man's losing his hair and he dares to say he's concerned or depressed about it he's vain, not a real man... blah blah blah and the endless crap parroted by most sheeple INCLUDING MEN (thanks to brainwashing and stupid cultures).

                          GOD DAMN !! I'M TYPING 'MISANDRIST' AND I GET A RED LINE UNDER THE WORD. Apparently it's not recognized as a word by google chrome. However, as soon as you type the letters "m i" you'll get one billion hits on "misogynist/misogyny" !!!!!!!!!!!! I guess that says it all. It's like the bastards don't want to recognize the rampant hatred towards men in our rotten societies, which is way more widespread than misogyny and in fact way more encouraged.

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