I don't know man, this whole prayer issue is really a debateable thing. I think some people's prayers actually do get answered especially people who live happy lives without such enormous burdens as hair loss or anything else. I do agree though that if God did answer the prayers of everyone, then we would live in a perfect and peaceful world, which we obviously don't.
My issue is that I believe that a certain medication that I was taking for a long time contributed to my hair loss, yet I was never aware at all this medication could cause hair loss. If I had known, I never would've taken that medication in the first place. I just wish I would've been given some sign, any kind of sign that certain medications could cause hair loss. Even if some one had casually said something off the cuff about certain medications causing hair loss, or I had read something on the internet to that effect, then I would have been "warned", and I would've gotten off that medication immediately. But man, I was just so naive about hair loss before it happened to me. Hell, I didn't even know what the term 'alopecia' even meant before I started losing my hair.
You're right that genetics is to blame most of the time for hair loss, and I don't blame you for blaming your dad for giving you bad genetics that caused your hair loss. Although I'm pissed off that hair loss is obviously in my genetics as well, I could never really blame my folks for any of this. I think I most likely got this bad hair loss gene(s) from my maternal side of the family, and my mother loves me so much that she would never wish this upon me at all. None of my bald family members would wish this upon me either, they got shafted with regards to shit genetics, just like I did. What really kills me is that my dad is 60 years old and still has very thick hair. He actually developed a receding hair line at age 20 (very early) but it never progressed beyond that and his hair always stayed very thick so no one ever commented on his receding hair line.
What really kills me is that in this world, there is no justice whatsoever. You see good people all the time getting screwed over with shitty things happening to them like hair loss and other diseases, yet bad people so often get the best luck and have the best things happen to them. I consider myself to be moral and good person, and I know that I never did anything to deserve this hair loss curse. Yet one of my rock n roll heroes (Vince Neil of Motley Crue) kills his friend and causes the brain damage of another person in a drunk driving accident and what's his reward? Millions of dollars, banging tons of hot chicks, and making a living having the time of his life. There is certainly no justice in this world and you don't get what you give, as so many people like to say. If there really was a God watching over us, then these injustices would most certainly never happen, or wouldn't happen so frequently.
Actually, I was talking to a guy today about God and religion, and he was telling me that instead of praying for certain things to happen (which I don't do anymore), pray to God to give you the strength to make it through those tough times. But that's total B.S. when it comes to hair loss because right now there is no treatment or medication for us to completely regrow our hair, or even regrow a decent amount of it. And that's what's so maddening about hair loss, that it is largely permanent and there is nothing really effective that we can do to change our situation. So many people have the opportunity to work hard to change the things that they don't like in their life. If a person is fat, they can bust their ass to lose weight. If a person isn't making enough money, they can always go back to school to get a better education so that they can make more money. Or they can search for a better job. If a person is small, they can always pump iron and get bigger. Yet as hair loss sufferers, we're really ****ed in our situation because their is no effective method to regrow our hair. And if there was a way to regrow hair, I have no doubt that guys like you, me, and many others would pursue it no matter how much it costs or how much pain we had to endure. If it was hypothetically proven that if a person ran 10 miles a day, that they would regrow a substantial portion of their hair, I would run that 10 miles and much more, despite the fact that I can't even run 1 mile nonstop today! I would find a way.
Life sure as shit doesn't make any sense at all and you certainly don't get what you give. It makes wonder why I should even try to do the right thing anymore, if all I get is total shit in return. I ask myself 'why should I even bother to pray when all I get is pain and suffering in return'? I dunno man, life is totally ****ed up, we both know that.
My issue is that I believe that a certain medication that I was taking for a long time contributed to my hair loss, yet I was never aware at all this medication could cause hair loss. If I had known, I never would've taken that medication in the first place. I just wish I would've been given some sign, any kind of sign that certain medications could cause hair loss. Even if some one had casually said something off the cuff about certain medications causing hair loss, or I had read something on the internet to that effect, then I would have been "warned", and I would've gotten off that medication immediately. But man, I was just so naive about hair loss before it happened to me. Hell, I didn't even know what the term 'alopecia' even meant before I started losing my hair.
You're right that genetics is to blame most of the time for hair loss, and I don't blame you for blaming your dad for giving you bad genetics that caused your hair loss. Although I'm pissed off that hair loss is obviously in my genetics as well, I could never really blame my folks for any of this. I think I most likely got this bad hair loss gene(s) from my maternal side of the family, and my mother loves me so much that she would never wish this upon me at all. None of my bald family members would wish this upon me either, they got shafted with regards to shit genetics, just like I did. What really kills me is that my dad is 60 years old and still has very thick hair. He actually developed a receding hair line at age 20 (very early) but it never progressed beyond that and his hair always stayed very thick so no one ever commented on his receding hair line.
What really kills me is that in this world, there is no justice whatsoever. You see good people all the time getting screwed over with shitty things happening to them like hair loss and other diseases, yet bad people so often get the best luck and have the best things happen to them. I consider myself to be moral and good person, and I know that I never did anything to deserve this hair loss curse. Yet one of my rock n roll heroes (Vince Neil of Motley Crue) kills his friend and causes the brain damage of another person in a drunk driving accident and what's his reward? Millions of dollars, banging tons of hot chicks, and making a living having the time of his life. There is certainly no justice in this world and you don't get what you give, as so many people like to say. If there really was a God watching over us, then these injustices would most certainly never happen, or wouldn't happen so frequently.
Actually, I was talking to a guy today about God and religion, and he was telling me that instead of praying for certain things to happen (which I don't do anymore), pray to God to give you the strength to make it through those tough times. But that's total B.S. when it comes to hair loss because right now there is no treatment or medication for us to completely regrow our hair, or even regrow a decent amount of it. And that's what's so maddening about hair loss, that it is largely permanent and there is nothing really effective that we can do to change our situation. So many people have the opportunity to work hard to change the things that they don't like in their life. If a person is fat, they can bust their ass to lose weight. If a person isn't making enough money, they can always go back to school to get a better education so that they can make more money. Or they can search for a better job. If a person is small, they can always pump iron and get bigger. Yet as hair loss sufferers, we're really ****ed in our situation because their is no effective method to regrow our hair. And if there was a way to regrow hair, I have no doubt that guys like you, me, and many others would pursue it no matter how much it costs or how much pain we had to endure. If it was hypothetically proven that if a person ran 10 miles a day, that they would regrow a substantial portion of their hair, I would run that 10 miles and much more, despite the fact that I can't even run 1 mile nonstop today! I would find a way.
Life sure as shit doesn't make any sense at all and you certainly don't get what you give. It makes wonder why I should even try to do the right thing anymore, if all I get is total shit in return. I ask myself 'why should I even bother to pray when all I get is pain and suffering in return'? I dunno man, life is totally ****ed up, we both know that.
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