Things are getting worse for me!!

[PayDay]

Thanks a lot guys. Especially you Spencer, you have a radio show, been on TV, founded Amer. Hair Loss Ass. and the IAHRS and still have the time to listen and respond to threads. I do feel you do this from deep inside you, not for monetary or marketing purposes. I really thank you for that.
I do feel this is my year. I just finished my BA in Int. Business and I am really happy. Hopefully I will find a nice job in this economic crisis.
In Christmas Eve, I combed my hair backwards, and it really didn't look bad at all. The proof was that non of my cousins or uncles joked at all about my hair. That means that they didn't notice more receding. I was happy and I actually looked nice. It gave me some much needed boost to start loosing weight.

On the girls issue. I only like this one girl. I met her Sep. 2007 and it didn't go anywhere. In 2001 when i was 215 lbs I used to get girls easy, now that I am fat it takes triple effort and time. Now at 28 years I only like this girl, but I screw it up, instead of being patience I got desperate and made moves a little to soon, and I scared her. She will be 20 years old in January. I know she is young, but if I sum up all the qualities inside and out, she is the one I've been waiting for (I think)
The thing is, she is really pretty (not hot, but classy pretty) and she knows it. She still doesn't have a boyfriend till today, but she has dated a couple of guys and both abercrombie type of body and rich (yes freakin rich, $1m+ homes, etc) one of them rumor has it was 32 years old!!!
Anyway my goal is to loose 80lbs by July '09 and hopefully I am not to late to make her my girlfriend.
For now I have put on hold my hair transplant plans and look forward for summer '09!! Thanks for your words!!

It’s good to hear that you feel better. I have been a fan of the Bald Truth and Spencer Kobren for some time. I’ve said it before, but if it were not for Spencer I would not be in the mindset that I am today. You can tell that he is a very good and kind person and I always admire his honesty about his life on the show. I know he does not remember this, but one night after his show Spencer spent 15 minutes on the phone with me helping through a very hard time. I will never forget that. His advice is always on the money so take it.

Paul