feeling more and more hopeless - baldness and dating

[OldEnoughToKnowBetter]

I have posted about this a few times. Although I have NEVER dated a woman, I exclusively date men, I can tell you that men are JUST as picky as women are, when it comes to appearance, if not MORE so. My hair or lack of hair NEVER affected my ability to do ANYTHING.

It's all about your attitude, how you carry yourself. Believe it or not, some women may find you sexy, if you carry your thinning hair or shaved head (if you decide to just shave it).

Posting old pics online is not a good indicator. It's the in-person, that matters.

I have always had a don't give a F**K attitude. I have dated some guys that I would consider WAY out of my league, in physical appearance. My late partner of 11 years was what most people would describe as an absolute knock out. He actually loved my shaved head and made sure I was shaved all the time.

Right now, I am sporting a hair system. Just got it. I look amazing, shaved back and sides, with a 14" massive shock of silver hair, to match my beard. I am having huge fun with it. But the reality, most folks prefer me without hair.

I agree with your statements. I'm 41 and have most of my hair still (I'm a diffuse thinner), but I have friends in late 20s to early 50s who are at various stages of balding. None of those guys has problems with women due to their hair. The oldest and baldest guy of us has a very outgoing personality and gets women quite often.