I spent quite a few months on this site, listening to stories of men in various points of their bald journey. I remember what it was like to be sixteen, away from home, and find huge clumps of my long, brown hair in the shower, no reference point, and no one to talk to.
Now, in my 40-teens (hahaha) I am totally cool with being bald.
But, what intrigues me, is listening to the stories of many of you, a huge part of the stress is feeling the lack of attractiveness to a future mate.
I am wondering if there are really differences between how gay men and str8 men view this.
I, being a gay man, has never (to the best of my knowledge) not gotten a date because of being thinning, balding, shaved, or until recently, with MPB. I have dated men who have had the full spectrum of slight recession to full on Norwood 7, classic MPB. I have also dated guys who have shaved... as well as a 25-year old who wore a very (sadly) noticeable hair piece.
No one ever said to me... "no, sorry, I don't date bald guys". I have, had more negative reactions to my beard, however, whether short or wizard length.
To be honest, I have spent, now more years being shaved completely bald, than I was visibly thinning. Although, in the past four years, I have gone up to 5 months without shaving the MPB ring I have left.
I would love to hear from anyone (gay. str8, bi), and get their opinion on this.
I live in a country where MANY MANY young men start going bald, even in high-school. It is not unusual to see young male soldiers, in uniform, with thinning hair. If any of you have ever been to Tel Aviv, you will have noticed that we have some of the MOST gorgeous women, ever (next, Brazil). I see lots of beautiful women with bald guys. The top Israeli model, in Israel Bar Rafaeli, her current husband is bald. Gald Gadot (Wonder Woman) her Israeli Husband... seriously thinning.
Any gay/bi men on here want to share their experiences, I would love to hear it.
Also, any of your str8 (but not narrow) men want to chime in, I would be interested in heard what you all had to say, as well.
Best!
Bald Bearded
Now, in my 40-teens (hahaha) I am totally cool with being bald.
But, what intrigues me, is listening to the stories of many of you, a huge part of the stress is feeling the lack of attractiveness to a future mate.
I am wondering if there are really differences between how gay men and str8 men view this.
I, being a gay man, has never (to the best of my knowledge) not gotten a date because of being thinning, balding, shaved, or until recently, with MPB. I have dated men who have had the full spectrum of slight recession to full on Norwood 7, classic MPB. I have also dated guys who have shaved... as well as a 25-year old who wore a very (sadly) noticeable hair piece.
No one ever said to me... "no, sorry, I don't date bald guys". I have, had more negative reactions to my beard, however, whether short or wizard length.
To be honest, I have spent, now more years being shaved completely bald, than I was visibly thinning. Although, in the past four years, I have gone up to 5 months without shaving the MPB ring I have left.
I would love to hear from anyone (gay. str8, bi), and get their opinion on this.
I live in a country where MANY MANY young men start going bald, even in high-school. It is not unusual to see young male soldiers, in uniform, with thinning hair. If any of you have ever been to Tel Aviv, you will have noticed that we have some of the MOST gorgeous women, ever (next, Brazil). I see lots of beautiful women with bald guys. The top Israeli model, in Israel Bar Rafaeli, her current husband is bald. Gald Gadot (Wonder Woman) her Israeli Husband... seriously thinning.
Any gay/bi men on here want to share their experiences, I would love to hear it.
Also, any of your str8 (but not narrow) men want to chime in, I would be interested in heard what you all had to say, as well.
Best!
Bald Bearded
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