Going To Nightclubs

[CharlieBrownLol]

What's up guys.

Interested to see some thoughts on going to night clubs when you're bald?

Quick backstory: Just turned 24, NW2/3, been balding since 21, took the plunge and shaved my head this time last year. Super uncomfortable with it still, most people say it looks fine but get the impression their just being polite as I think I look weird/10 years older from certain angles but whatever.

Used to love getting on it and going to clubs but since buzzing my hair I have felt no desire to go out and the few times I have been to a club I felt super self conscious and awkward the whole time even when drunk.

Is it socially acceptable to still go to clubs if you're a young bald guy?

[DAVE52]

yes.

NO one cares about your head as much as you do

[mrclean]

The only people looking at you are people like us

[CharlieBrownLol]

Really though? In a club with say two hundred 18-25 year olds all with hair you don't think the one bald guy would be noticed?

[mrclean]

Sometimes I look a shaved head and wish I could pull that off so I'm envious. When I was that age all I was looking at was women and could give a rats ass what some others dudes head looked like.

[Kyle Kneeland]

Everyone will be too busy worrying about if they look good and/or they'll be too drunk to really care about what you (or anyone else) looks like. Especially if you have a shaved head, which is a lot less conspicuous than someone with a large bald spot.

[Ahab]

yes.

NO one cares about your head as much as you do

Not true. I find the view of bald heads revolting--a blot on the landscape. I would not want any member of my family marrying and breeding with anyone in whose family premature baldness runs.

[Vic]

Not true. I find the view of bald heads revolting--a blot on the landscape. I would not want any member of my family marrying and breeding with anyone in whose family premature baldness runs.

Why are you even here? Lots of bald heads here so you might want to take your high and mighty repulsive soul to another site.

[mrclean]

Not true. I find the view of bald heads revolting--a blot on the landscape. I would not want any member of my family marrying and breeding with anyone in whose family premature baldness runs.

Then you are the one that needs help.

[mattj]

A few guarantees:

1. You won't be the only guy in the club experiencing and worrying about hairloss.

2. You won't be the only person in the club worrying about his appearance. Far from it.

3. There will be guys with hairloss there who don't care and are confident and enjoying themselves.

4. Other people aren't downgrading your appearance due to your hairloss nearly as much as you're downgrading yourself.

5. Assuming that part of your reason for going clubbing is to meet girls, (and correct me if I'm wrong there) then your lack of self esteem will be considerably more harmful to your success than your hairloss.

[GoingGoing]

Not true. I find the view of bald heads revolting--a blot on the landscape. I would not want any member of my family marrying and breeding with anyone in whose family premature baldness runs.

You're projecting your self-hatred onto others.