Buzzed my head, thoughts (PICS)?

[baldindianman]

First, I think the buzz cut suits you quite well. Give it a couple more months to get even more used to it and you may become quite fond of it. It's definitely easier to fix and a lot less stressful this way.

As for dating, I'm always amazed when I see men who are losing their hair and feeling insecure about their appearance, and in the very same breathe take a jab at women who are quite possibly feeling the exact same way as they are: insecure about their appearances. Yes, physical attraction is important when it comes to dating, but it's not everything, and it's something that can be developed. Even the most attractive people don't stay that way forever. You're complaining about the "hot women" who only date men with good hair, and at the same time you refuse to date women if they're "too homely". You're being just as close-minded and judgmental of these women as you say the "hot women" are being to you and men like you.

I really don't mean this as a personal attack on you, as I'm sure you're a great guy. Ntm, this mindset is extremely common, and in a lot of ways, I suppose it's human nature. But I don't think this is something that is going to best serve you moving forward in your life when it comes to romantic relationships.
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So what you're saying is I should just accept that I will have to settle for an ugly/obese girl just because of my lack of hair? If I just had thick hair I could get all the hot girls I want? How the hell am I supposed to date a girl I'm not attracted to? I'm not asking to be with a perfect 10 girl or anything. Just maybe a 6 or better (basically a "bangable" girl).

Also, it's more important for a man to be with a woman he finds physically attractive than vice versa because, you know, the man is the one who needs to be able to get his dick up in the bedroom.

[BaldBearded]

So what you're saying is I should just accept that I will have to settle for an ugly/obese girl just because of my lack of hair? If I just had thick hair I could get all the hot girls I want? How the hell am I supposed to date a girl I'm not attracted to? I'm not asking to be with a perfect 10 girl or anything. Just maybe a 6 or better (basically a "bangable" girl).

Also, it's more important for a man to be with a woman he finds physically attractive than vice versa because, you know, the man is the one who needs to be able to get his dick up in the bedroom.

Your hair is only one part of you. Your attitude is really negative, and that will shine through. If you are using a scale... then you already are going in the wrong direction.

I have a friend who always dreamt of being with a super-model. His first fiancée was, not very good looking, and he was only in it to make someone else happy. The woman he finally wound up marrying was... in my eyes, lovely. Good looking, kind, funny, and an all-around nice person. His marriage is a disaster, because she is still not the super-model, the dreamt of, and is spending lots of time frequenting mens clubs, so he can get his dose of HOT BABES. He is tall, skinny, bald, and not overly attractive. His personality is... crap, he is basically an asshole. And... miserable.

[baldindianman]

Your hair is only one part of you. Your attitude is really negative, and that will shine through. If you are using a scale... then you already are going in the wrong direction.

I have a friend who always dreamt of being with a super-model. His first fiancée was, not very good looking, and he was only in it to make someone else happy. The woman he finally wound up marrying was... in my eyes, lovely. Good looking, kind, funny, and an all-around nice person. His marriage is a disaster, because she is still not the super-model, the dreamt of, and is spending lots of time frequenting mens clubs, so he can get his dose of HOT BABES. He is tall, skinny, bald, and not overly attractive. His personality is... crap, he is basically an asshole. And... miserable.

What attitude is negative? All I said was I don't want to date someone I'm not attracted to.

Again, I'm not saying I only want to date supermodels. just someone decent looking. By the way, what's wrong with wanting to date someone attractive? Who doesn't want a good looking girlfriend?

And calling your friend an asshole? I don't think you're really his friend man.

[Dan26]

The baldness is cancelled out by the fact you're going to be a doctor.

eg. lets say you view yourself as a 6

Full Head of Hair + average income/job = Will end up with a girl in the 5-7 range
Bald + Doctor = 5-7 range wife also
Bald + average income/ job = 4-6 range
Full Head + Doctor = 6-7.5 range

Long story short, you look perfectly normal with a shaved head and the fact you are going to be a doctor and are not socially inept means the baldness plays only a small role in your dating prospects.

[baldindianman]

The baldness is cancelled out by the fact you're going to be a doctor.

eg. lets say you view yourself as a 6

Full Head of Hair + average income/job = Will end up with a girl in the 5-7 range
Bald + Doctor = 5-7 range wife also
Bald + average income/ job = 4-6 range
Full Head + Doctor = 6-7.5 range

Long story short, you look perfectly normal with a shaved head and the fact you are going to be a doctor and are not socially inept means the baldness plays only a small role in your dating prospects.

My family does tell me that being a doctor will help a lot, but do you think I am actually even a 6 though?

[BaldBearded]

What attitude is negative? All I said was I don't want to date someone I'm not attracted to.

Again, I'm not saying I only want to date supermodels. just someone decent looking. By the way, what's wrong with wanting to date someone attractive? Who doesn't want a good looking girlfriend?

And calling your friend an asshole? I don't think you're really his friend man.

1. Read what you wrote, it was unkind. No, of course you don't date someone to whom you are not attracted.

2. We are not longer friends, partially due to his behavior. He treats everyone in his life, like crap.

[baldindianman]

1. Read what you wrote, it was unkind. No, of course you don't date someone to whom you are not attracted.

2. We are not longer friends, partially due to his behavior. He treats everyone in his life, like crap.

I reread it. I was only trying to be brutally honest and give you an idea of what I was looking for in a relationship. Being unkind wasn't my intention.

And in that case I'm glad you severed ties with the toxic person in your life.

[BaldBearded]

I reread it. I was only trying to be brutally honest and give you an idea of what I was looking for in a relationship. Being unkind wasn't my intention.

And in that case I'm glad you severed ties with the toxic person in your life.

Thanks... I am NOT unsympathetic. I just was lucky, and that my baldness was NEVER an issue for me, EVER. It never stopped me from getting a boyfriend (a VERY good looking one, and if we MUST use numbers, he would be a 9.5), a job, dates, sex, etc.

As for my former friend... it is sad, I liked him, but... so very very unhappy.

I wish you all the best.

[JustShaveIt]

You actually look really good with your hair buzzed short. Don't let some of the bitter guys who frequent these forums bring you down, they are just jealous that you good with a shaved head and that they probably can't pull it off. You are very lucky!

Yup, I'd keep shaving it, it looks good. Try going even closer to the skin and like B_davis said, don't let bitter guys tell you otherwise.

[FlightTL]

I just buzzed my head a couple days ago (#1 clipper all around) and I just wanted some opinions because I'm worried that (attractive) girls won't like it. I am in medical school (future doctor) and have some hobbies like tennis, martial arts, board games, etc so it's not like I'm a slouch. Even so, it's my looks that are worrying me that I won't be able to find a girl I'm attracted to. For height, I am about 5'7''. Here are some pics:

http://imgur.com/a/4ETKG Me with somewhat long hair in December

http://imgur.com/a/6aKzk At the gym last month after buzzing it down to around a #3

http://imgur.com/a/phfyI Me currently

Please let me know what you think. Thanks!

Hey man, you look great! You can pull off a close cropped look great!!!!

[FlightTL]

I reread it. I was only trying to be brutally honest and give you an idea of what I was looking for in a relationship. Being unkind wasn't my intention.

And in that case I'm glad you severed ties with the toxic person in your life.

Don't they do arranged marriages in India. You'll find someone hot...don't worry....

[baldindianman]

Don't they do arranged marriages in India. You'll find someone hot...don't worry....

Are you saying I'll only be able to find someone attractive if I do arranged marriage? And actually I'm born and raised in the states. Parents are from India.

[FlightTL]

Are you saying I'll only be able to find someone attractive if I do arranged marriage? And actually I'm born and raised in the states. Parents are from India.

Oh dang...well just tell ur parents to find you a big breasted indian gal....good luck mate!!!! You can find someone beautiful if u search yourself too...just cut ur hair down to number 2...u look good man

[Superman1969]

Looks AWESOME!!!

[FlightTL]

I just buzzed my head a couple days ago (#1 clipper all around) and I just wanted some opinions because I'm worried that (attractive) girls won't like it. I am in medical school (future doctor) and have some hobbies like tennis, martial arts, board games, etc so it's not like I'm a slouch. Even so, it's my looks that are worrying me that I won't be able to find a girl I'm attracted to. For height, I am about 5'7''. Here are some pics:

http://imgur.com/a/4ETKG Me with somewhat long hair in December

http://imgur.com/a/6aKzk At the gym last month after buzzing it down to around a #3

http://imgur.com/a/phfyI Me currently

Please let me know what you think. Thanks!

Listen man, you got a good face your handsome ok, and that is 95% of the equation. Plus, i see you hit the gym. Just gain muscle, cut hair down to a #2, get contacts if you prefer that, wear a muscle shirt, I guarantee you will get so much vaginal action that your penis is going to tell you to slow down!!!

Good luck to you brother...You look really young by the way!!!

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