Am I starting to lose my hair? I want to stop the anxiety

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So I'm 21. Asian. I feel like my crown is bigger than it should be and it's starting to worry me so much that it's all I can think about. Right now all I want is to just stop thinking about it and move on with my life but I can't because I don't know for sure if I'm balding or not.

Family history: Only one person on both sides of my family is bald. My dad. Uncles, grandfathers had/have full head of hair. I have a brother who is 19 and his hair is very very thick everywhere so I'm pretty sure he's not balding.

My hairline hasn't receded I believe. What worries me mainly is my crown.

This has been eating away at me for ages and all I want is to just stop worrying or thinking about it, to be able to get out of bed, take a shower and go outside without having to worry about if people notice it or not.

Photos are of my hairline and crown. Have a photo where its wet and 2 wheres its dry.

http://s44.photobucket.com/user/Sone...?sort=3&page=1