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    Default Balding is f***ing mental torture.

    I know I shouldn't ****ing complain but this is so ****ing much to deal with. MPB transforms you into a different person in the eyes of others.

    We're given the choice of being humble about it but then youre perceived on the losing team by society.

    This is ****ing bullshit.

    I can't blame someone for not wanting to be with me if theyre not physically attracted to me right?

    If I wasn't balding I could probably be with the girl I want to be with but it looks like my life is just going to go in the direction I didn't want it to.

    I know I can choose to be humble but that's the hard way to live.

    It's just so much mental torture to stand to the side and watch the girl you love go on without you.

    It hurts so much that it makes me feel suicidal (but I wouldn't).

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    well, does she want to be with you despite your hair loss?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jamesst11 View Post
    well, does she want to be with you despite your hair loss?
    If I didn't have hairloss I'm sure she could consider me. I can't blame her if she didn't want to because of the hair loss. I won't be finding out until this bastard cure comes out.

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    I hear you brother... this sh*t is an absolute perpetual f*cking nightmare. A few years ago, I never even considered the possibility that HAIR could devastate my life. I had perfectly good, thick hair and I ruined everything by wanting more. One small HT would permanently f*ck my hair forever. Now I am on fin for 6.5 months and my hair is thinner than ever and my scalp burns and itches on occassion. It's like I keep f*cking myself over and over in a perpetual loop that I cannot stop. I have a new girlfriend now and I briefly explained my situation and she seemed really sweet about it, but really, who the f*ck knows??? I spend like 30 minutes a day combing and fluffing up my hair, working to conceal my transplants, which seem to become more apparent by the day. Then I cover it in f*cking hairspray and hope it doesn't rain, hope the wind isn't blowing too hard... If I disclose my situation to anyone all the responses are the same, "wear a hat" or "shave your head".... I just feel helpless. I won't even let my new gf touch my hair... anyway, sorry for the rant. I hope you know you're not alone. This problem tortures most of us on here.

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    I am 100% certain that if you had a full head of hair it wud be easier for you to link up with the kind of girl ur looking for. but..... I'm also 100% sure that with a shaved head you can still land a real hot chic. lotta chics like the shaved look.

    I don't like it. YOU don't like it but many hot chics like it so aint that wat really counts? law of averages bro.... the more hot chics to hit on the better ur chances get. its not rocket science.

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    that sucks man, it really is ****ed.

    One thing that bothers me is that this is probably the #1 hairloss website on the internet and it's pretty much dead.

    It makes me think that we were really unlucky to have to go through this bullshit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThisSucksDude View Post
    I know I shouldn't ****ing complain but this is so ****ing much to deal with. MPB transforms you into a different person in the eyes of others.

    We're given the choice of being humble about it but then youre perceived on the losing team by society.

    This is ****ing bullshit.

    I can't blame someone for not wanting to be with me if theyre not physically attracted to me right?

    If I wasn't balding I could probably be with the girl I want to be with but it looks like my life is just going to go in the direction I didn't want it to.

    I know I can choose to be humble but that's the hard way to live.

    It's just so much mental torture to stand to the side and watch the girl you love go on without you.

    It hurts so much that it makes me feel suicidal (but I wouldn't).

    scalp micropigmentation is the final solution for baldness ..

    Hair tattoos from Head Power hair clinic in toronto are 100% realistic , i have done it and the results are amazing .. go try it out yourself

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThisSucksDude View Post
    I know I shouldn't ****ing complain but this is so ****ing much to deal with. MPB transforms you into a different person in the eyes of others.

    We're given the choice of being humble about it but then youre perceived on the losing team by society.

    This is ****ing bullshit.

    I can't blame someone for not wanting to be with me if theyre not physically attracted to me right?

    If I wasn't balding I could probably be with the girl I want to be with but it looks like my life is just going to go in the direction I didn't want it to.

    I know I can choose to be humble but that's the hard way to live.

    It's just so much mental torture to stand to the side and watch the girl you love go on without you.

    It hurts so much that it makes me feel suicidal (but I wouldn't).
    I know it is very painful to lose your hair. Though many people suggest you to shave your head, I still think that it is always reasonable to try to treat this condition. Have you ever tried any of the available treatments? What is your experience?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Johny41 View Post
    I know it is very painful to lose your hair. Though many people suggest you to shave your head, I still think that it is always reasonable to try to treat this condition. Have you ever tried any of the available treatments? What is your experience?
    When I first came to this website my hair was thick and I could grow it out (NW 2.5), now it has thinned and I shave it everyday. I hate shaving my head.

    I wanna feel what it's like to have hair again.

    I won't be taking any treatments until there is one that will regrow hair fully.

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