This is a really good example of how confidence and personality get you girls.... In the Real World
Oh they do. I've had my share of one night stands. And the girls weren't sluts, just normal girls looking for some fun. And I'm not a 9-10.
Originally Posted by Vic
The fact that you don't believe in one night stands tells a lot about your sexual experience with women. But tell me more about how it works in the real world.
LOL at geting laid by the third date. I usually get laid on the first date and at worst the second. After that, you can be sure it will actually never happen.
I waited 4 dates with my current girlfriend but it was just because we didn't have a room. Once we got in our first hotel room together, it was on.
"Good girl" That girl you think is a good girl probably has slept with guys hours after meeting him.
If she's not very sexually attracted to you and feels she has something to gain from you, she will make you wait.
If it takes months, she just doesn't respect you and is playing with you.
Again, where did I say I had troubles with women? I don't. Why do people always make that assumption because I'm being realistic about women.
All videos on YouTube are staged. And also, phone numbers don't mean jack.
Originally Posted by Vic
This topic is full of some of the most idiotic and moronic comments I've ever seen.
I was a topless butler for over a year. I've worked with some amazing looking guys and I myself have modelled over the years for extra cash.
Let me tell you now the best butlers I worked with, the guys who had the most luck with the girls, were the guys who weren't in the best shape, weren't the best looking, but were the guys who knew how to make the girls laugh. The guys who knew how to let go, not take themselves seriously, and how to have a good time.
The girls would often start maybe making fun of them a bit, maybe they were a bit shorter than the better looking butlers, or maybe they didn't have as much hair, but the guys didn't take it to heart, they weren't inscure, they just teased the girls back, had some banter, and bang, the girls were loving it.
These guys got the job based on the fact they had personality. Girls on a night out are looking for the most fun possible, not some dull boring good looking guy with nothing entertaining about him. Yeah he might get the initial attention, but if he's boring then he's out.
Confidence plays a huge role in this. If you're insecure and butt hurt about stuff, don't come in here preaching how you need hair to be perfect and happy and to get laid.
Have something about yourself and Leave your ego at the door. It's easier said than done but I've seen it happen. The second you let go, the more you laugh at yourself and the more confidence you portray the better you'll do with the chicks.
False positives, just because they made girls laugh doesn't mean those girls have slept with them. Unless you can prove it, it's just your assumption.
Originally Posted by Not giving up
"He's ugly, bald and short, but I want to sleep with him because he has a great personality and makes me laugh." - thought no girl ever.
Come on, the delusion has its limits. You need to be at least above average to get laid on a regular basis.
And that means having a NW1/being tall/being good looking, or at least enough traits that are considered attractive.
False positives are the most common way disadvantaged guys have to reassure themselves. "That pudgy bald guy, the girls love him! Look at how they're smiling!"
Fred, legit dude, I've seen you post in other threads, you're painfully negative.
I'm not saying being good looking doesn't give you a major advantage, but you can totally laugh a girl into bed, if you haven't done it, you're not very funny friend.
Your experiences are one thing, but to dismiss other's as dreams simply because you haven't seen it or done it yourself is ignorant.
I appreciate that you've gone through some bad times, but meet me half way here, personality can play a huge role in getting laid, I don't know where you're from, but in England we have a phrase called 'gift of the gab' meaning someone who can literally talk or charm their way into anything, obviously the good looking guy with charm trumps the average looking guy with charm, but the average looking guy with charm will always trump the good looking guy with no personality.
If you aren't interesting or funny enough to get girl's attention without needing a NW1 then maybe obsess over that instead of obsessing over losing you hair bro.
I'm hilarious. The girls I bed usually laugh a lot with me. And I do believe it helped me with them.
But, I think my looks, notably my height and dreamy blues were necessary to get my foot in the door.
If I didn't have my looks, I wouldn't even get the chance to make them laugh the same way, and it probably wouldn't end with sex.
I would just be a clown to the girl, like most ugly funny guys are. I believe seduction is a myth.
I (and probably everyone) have yet to see proof that a 5"4' balding Indian guy with glasses can make a woman wet thanks to his awesome personality.
We've all heard of "that guy who is ugly but has women all over him because he's confident". Yet I've never seen that actually happen in the real world.
It's interesting about how its always the people who preach about "confidence" are the ones who have very little hair loss themselves. Being an NW3 still means that you have most of your hair still on your head. The difference between that and an NW6 (no hair on the top of your head) is like the difference between night and day. I want to see some one with an NW6 preach about confidence and then I'll buy it. No attractive woman will ever go crazy over some George Costanza lookalike, no matter how funny or confident he is. Although I will say that being muscular probably does help, and that is what I will be banking on if (and probably when) I am forced to shave my head.
And it's interesting how the people on here who preach how important confidence is (and how hair loss does not matter) are doing of plenty of things to ensure that they themselves do not go bald.
Well yeah obviously. I will always fight hairloss. I'm 24 and have my whole life ahead of me. I've always had thick hair and since I've been losing it has my confidence been knocked? At times yes. I don't debate this. I'm going through it like we all are.
Originally Posted by DepressedByHairLoss
My point is that reading through this site you'd think you lose your hair and life ends. By the end of reading this thread it appears I might as well not get married because my wife will leave me publicly over the Internet if I go bald. I might as well never leave the house after because the towns people will try to kill me with fire. Oh and never talk to any women ever again, because even if you're a nice, charismatic and funny person they'll just pitty you because of your hairless head?
No, frankly, just no.
You know who that guy is, the guy who people seem so convinced they'll become if they lose their hair? A victim. Someone who probably goes through life finding excuses not to talk to girls anyway.
I will fight hairloss until I either win or lose the battle, but If I lose, I won't give up on life. I'll work hard, I'll continue to hit the gym, I'll be a person of value with something interesting or funny to say.
Do I want to go bald? Hell no. But I'm not going to let it own me to the point where I don't live anymore if it happens.
A man is judged on what he produces in life, not how pretty his hair is. Sometimes I really do think we need to get a grip. Fight hair loss, but for God sake don't think your life ends with a buzz cut or a slik top.
You can do all that and think you haven't changed. But people and women will always make sure that you know your place.
Originally Posted by Not giving up
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