The last time I went to a bar/club
I left within 5 minutes.
That was horrible. I went to my friends house for pre-drinks and then we taxi'd downtown.
I never go clubbing or to pubs (because of social anxiety).
When I got inside, there were so many nice looking girls walking around, dancing, etc. It was nice to be in that environment for once.
I went to the washroom and there were a lot of guys, and they were dressed nicely. Right there I just asked myself, why the hell would any of these girls ever give me the time over these other guys that don't have a f***ed up hairline?
I felt so worthless right there. I had to leave.
Right now I shave my head everyday. I just really want the ****ing cure man. I just want to experience being young (i'm 24 now) for once in my life.
It's not the hair , it's your confidence
There's lots of young guys who shave , or buzz their head , that are happy and have GF 's
On the list of priorities of a REAL woman, your hair line is actually pretty minimal. I started seeing this girl that is a total babe recently and I have pretty horrible hair. I listen to her, do nice things for her, make her laugh, consider her feelings and aside from that, she knows I am constantly working on my business and my talents, etc... I know most of us on here will look at this and try to call complete BS on it, but all this "cheesy" shit is actually very true. You want a good woman that cares for way more than your hair? stop going to the club.
I hear ya bro been there many times. and the comments about girls liking young guys with shaved heads is a little misleading cause those guys have full heads of hair and SHAVING a full head of hair is not the same as shaving cause ur balding. imo u look better shaved then not wen ur balding but shaving only makes u look LESS bald not bald altogether.
I started losing my hair at about the same age actually and I can remember freaking out if I simply slept on my hair wrong (wen I had hair that is) and it looking all messed up. lol wow I wish I had that problem now...
I plan on getting a HT sometime this year. need about 6000 grafts so I'm pretty bald. I have been saving my head for about (15) years now. I will say that I have had little issue meeting women in general and many chics believe it or not really don't give a rats ass about a guy with a shaved head who is balding. BUT, there are plenty of women who surly do! and in general those are usually the better lookn chics no doubt but certainly not all of em.
I am 100% positive if I had a full head of hair I wud have dating far better looking women and been far happier in general. no doubt about it period! I'm a fairly good looking dude with a good build. I'm sure my build helps my cause and I'm sure it wud urs as well. I'm 6'0 215 lbs 13% body fat with abs.
chics lov abs! in fact, I've asked many and they say abs are far more important to them then hair lol. I of course don't feel that way and I'm sure u don't but don't under estimate how much more appealing you can be with a great build. I mean look around, who do u know really has a great build?
training hard is like getting married.... its quite easy to GET married but its really tough to STAY married. plenty of ppl (especially new years resolutions which are a joke) START training but most puss out and quit wen it gets hard or the results aren't as fast as they want. plenty GET to the gym but few STAY there after a few months.
I had a full head of hair till about (22) yrs old. I dated some pretty smokn hot chics till then and I guess my issue is I've set the bar pretty high over the years because I use to date some really hot chics but as I started to lose my hair I wasn't attracting the same amount of hot chics but in my mind thats wat I like and think I can land. thinking that and that actually happening are usually two different things lol.
so bottom line is save ur money so u can have a HT and start hitting the gym seriously. if ur a (6) on a scale of 1-10 based on ur hairloss (in YOUR mind as far as how chics rate u I mean) I can assure you that getting muscular and lean will bring u up to a solid 7.5. thats good enough to land a pretty hot chic even with a shaved head. and get some melanotan http://www.realself.com/Melanotan/reviews and get really dark. it will not only make u look better overall but it will make ur balding seem less with dark skin and dark hair (if u have dark hair).
believe it or not the the reason most guys don't land a hot chic is simply because their not trying. law of averages is tough to beat. losing ur confidence to rap to chics will be the real wall u will hit wen wanting to meet a hot chic. I get it believe me I do. I have felt the same pain ur felling and most others here have as well trust me.
I can remember talking with some dude on the train who had a really smokn HOT girlfriend. I'm talkn super model hot. and this dude was NOT a good lookn dude. and I mean NOT a good lookn dude by any stretch of anyones imagination lol. so she gets up to go to the bathroom so I'm like wow dude nice life is good huh and he lol and says yea can't really complain and I lol cause this chic was like a solid 9.5!!!!
so I say how did u land such a hot chic. he lol and says u mean how did a dude like me land such a hot chic? I lol and said well.... he lol and says yea I'm fully aware that I am NOT a good lookn dude. I was like wow here is a brutally honest dude. so I say educate me. he says he has never had a problem meeting really hot chics.
he said first of all he ONLY raps to really hot chics. doesn't even bother with the good lookn ones just the HOT ones. he said ud be so surprised how few dudes actually rap to a really hot chic thinking they have no chance. I was like hmmmm ok sounds reasonable. if ur gonna set the bar high mite as well set it really high and he says if rap to (10) smokn hot chics and u only land (1) u now have (1) smokn hot gf and how many do u need lol. I was like hmmmm ok. he says rap to (10) decent lookn girls and (3) respond back u now have (3) average gf's lol. I said fair enough..... but
so I asked wat was his rap when talking to these women. he said it wasn't about his rap and that it was about his attitude and confidence which really hot chics rarely see. they usually see a guy that is making it TOTALLY obvious that they are into them. they have seen it their whole life and its pretty much common for a smokn hot to chic to go out and see how guys undress them with their eyes.... he said wen he raps to women he simply does it in a way as tho he talkn to a chic who isn't in HIS league and gives her very little eye contact.
he swore that ur approach and game will take precedence over how you look. I wud call BS to his face if this freakn super model chic didn't come back from being gone for like 20 minutes and sit next to him and she was truly into him. I cud so tell it was real! I just smh thought about wat he said and i can say the attitude and confidence you convey really is paramount to anything else.
lets face it we have all seen them smokn hot chics with average lookn dudes that u shake ur head at. not all of them are rich either....
Originally Posted by ThisSucksDude
Girlfriends. Of course bald men can easily get girlfriends, so can short men or generally ugly men.
Originally Posted by DAVE52
He's talking about casual sex and one night stands here.
A woman from a club who just wants sex with a handsome man won't give to f*cks about your confidence and awesome personality.
She isn't having sex with your confidence.
Are there FALSE women? And nice job insulting all women going to the club.
Originally Posted by jamesst11
Just because you would have no chance there doesn't mean you should bash that scene.
It works quite well for a lot of men and women. And they're not all superficial airheads.
You're "seeing" this woman? Have you f*cked her? That's what matters here.
25 year old norwood 7 shaved horseshoe looks like a creeper to women in their 20's.
Not if you have confidence, big muscles and money bro!
Originally Posted by sagat
I also think that everything is in your head. The girls in the night club do not really care about your receding hairline. The only thing, such girl do care, is money.
You are very anxious about the hair loss and this will keep this up, it will be harder to find a girlfriend.
How bad is your hair? Do you take any treatments?
I'd defiantly say get in shape if you're not. Except yoga. never heard of a woman say, "that guy does yoga, he's hot".
Actually I'd join Crossfit. 60% are women. Afraid of injury? What sport besides yoga doesn't have injuries? Mountain biking is my choice but I do hit the gym.
Youtube alpham subscribe to his channel. He has a wealth of information on how to dress and present yourself. Not implying you don't know how.
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