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Only 3? While only one was concerned I was I'll I've had it brought up multiple times to me by people wanting a laugh, I stated then down and made sure to point out their excess weight or unattractive faces, you show them your a dog that bites and they go, even on the first post I said some people will get made fun of for it, but I got made fun of for things with hair, fat prolly have a HUGE thing on Facebook laughing at then yet a huge percentage of people are overweight. Hell I've even seen attractive people get made fun of, for being a 'beauty queen' etc. No matter what affliction you have, no matter who you are and no matter what you do someone will still laugh at you. But it's not right to blame all the self hate on baldness.
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Also I checked that twitter deal, and for being on there since '09 they only have about 50 tweets, which considering how many billions are on twitter overall is pretty low for what I was expecting, I'm sure there's more on fat guys or women, or too skinny people, etc. and it doesn't even have a single follower so it's not a trend. either way I'm not basing my self worth and what others think of me because some lady on twitter doesn't like it that I'll never meet. Oh and hey when I first started losing hair to went to a website where you can ask questions to the opposite sex, and even set an age range-and it's all anonymous so they aren't just being 'correct when nobody knows who they are. About 90 girls voted on if the could date a guy who shaved bald (girls 18-24) knowing the man couldn't grow hair, 60 some said they could, about 30 said no, so only 1/3 of women couldn't look past it, there's plenty of good looking girls in the two thirds category I'm sure so I'm not buying itComment
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Haha I just heard a young girl mention it to me coming back from work actually, I told her I got better things to do than grow hair, what's her excuse for not being on a treadmill (she was fat) it won't keep me up, there are attrwctive gorls who don't mind, few actually hate it, and those who don't like it of well.Comment
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I thought you never had any negative comments? You just destroyed your whole thread here.
People don't care about baldness? People don't comment? Yeah right. Thanks for proving me right.
And your response was so defensive, it shows that you care since you have to justify yourself.Comment
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Oh my...Fred, I talk to hundreds of people everyday with my job, see and meet tons of new people with my jumps and I can recall maybe 4 times I heard a derogatory statement, I brought it up because it made me laugh knowing I'll sleep fine knowing my beautiful girl is out there not caring what one fat mouthy girl says, while if you were to hear that you'd crall into a ball cry for two days, then start another thread about how much women hate bald guys. Seriously Fred unless Belgium is really that different than the rest of the world it's all in you're head. As for my response I always use lines like that, I wasn't emotional just calm saying it, (usually people bring up my paleness, in fact I've heard more bad about that than my baldness) my philosophy is don't throw shit if you can't take it. And maybe that's why I'm a respected 'bald man' (as if that makes you a different breed of human according to you) and you aren't, people can tell I'm not afraid on insult and will stick up for myself, whereas you were submissive and let comments and your own image defeat you. People do pick up on insecurity and that's a fact.
In the end it's pointless to argue with a guy like you. I tell my story of success with no hair at 20 and you yell 'delusional' I give details and you yell 'you're not bald' and I give photos and you yell 'you didn't have the bad experience' I give an example of how EVERY person on this earth is made fun of and how I look at it and you go 'oh look ONE person said something bad, that undoes the pretty girl arguing over you and the success and social standing, yup one person saying bad destroys all the others who don't care' and you know what follows almost all these Fred? "Thanks for proving I'm right" Fred you have some seriously deep mental/social problem where you have to be right about this. I'm not a shrink but maybe you think when other guys are successful bald it means they're better than you since you aren't. Maybe you're juvenile enough you can't get over no hair, maybe you just want to blame all life's problems on your scalp, and maybe you're such a little baby you want to believe you've had a harder life than anyone. But whatever the reason you have a desire to be right about hairloss when your not. And it's to the point you don't accept proof otherwise, in fact the Good Lord could send an Angel down and tell you baldness is really as close of an issue to society or young women as you say and you still wouldn't buy it. There's a quote that covers a lot of aspects of life that fits your looks on success as a bald guy:
"for those who believe no proof is necessary, for those who doubt no proof is enough"
No matter what life and others tell you your mind is so broken and manic for whatever reason you won't believe it. And so since you can't get over your own problems you get on a Internet forum and prey of people in a sensitive phase of new hairloss. You mock and belittle them and tell them the future for baldness is futile. And the fact you do that is what makes you one of the lowest people I've communicated with. No matter what pain you've been through does not justify what you've told others.
By the way a girl on that anonymous question site told me this 'I once dated a guy who shaved because he went prematurely bald at 19, the reason we broke up wasn't his hair, it was because he was a pyscho' and this girl didn't even click anonymous so I could see her profile pic and am she was pretty cute. It reminded me of the first time you posted on something I wrote. You're issues with women came from your mindset and your behavior about your hair when you had none.
In the end Fred you won't accept any proof otherwise. You don't respect yourself bald and because of your own wallowing pity you have to come on a site like this and prove your point...again and again...and again, what's the definition of insanity again? You can't accept anything, and you're beyond even a professionals help at this point, you need to do some growing.Comment
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Dear Beavecake,
Continue to grow your inner strength that God gave you and continue to enjoy having that HOT girlfriend. By the way, here is proof women LOVE bald men:
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Hey man, I salute you for practicing what you preach. You in fact do look like you are bald so therefore you can speak from a first-person perspective and that does wonders for your credibility. I think what irritates Fred, and what irritates me too for that matter, is when you get people with barely any hair loss lecturing us to "stop whining" or calling us "pussies". These fullheads really cannot fathom the negative effects that hair loss can have on some one because they haven't experienced it first hand for themselves. Not to mention, they are doing everything they can to ensure that they will not go bald themselves. But it looks like you practice what you preach, so I salute you for that.Comment
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It's funny, on another forum, someone said this about me:
It seems it's all a matter of perspective.So I can understand to an extent what Exodus is going thru as well as people like you Fred. However, like I have said numerous times, I have the most respect for you Fred because at such a young age you were able to conquer so many obstacles and become a truly great person. You may be bitter but I can see a heart of gold behind all that bitterness. And you candidness and frankness is a big plus. I never had the maturity level you had at your age. It took me decades to become the person I am today. I only hang around this forum so people don't have to make some of the same mistakes I made.
I can promise you I was very messed up from my teens and youth and it transferred into my later adult life in a negative way. I never did drugs or drank my sorrows away. Just slept it off most of the time. At least, you don't have to do that now as you did something about it. And I can promise you, I would have done the exact same thing as you and got a hair transplant if I would have been in your shoes. Fred, as I said before, you remind me of my younger self, of course you got perfect skin so I hate your for that. However, you are much more emotionally advanced and socially advanced than I ever was at that age. So that is why people need to understand you are really a good person who sometimes is not great with delivery because of all that bitterness. Once you let it go, like I have learned to do, you will get much better respect and reception. Fred, I would be proud if you were my kid. Your parents are very lucky to have such a son who has conquered so many obstacles at a young age.
Anyway, you say hair loss doesn't matter and that people don't care. And now you're saying you've been insulted 4 (!) times about your baldness?
To me, it seems that people do care. Since the results of my hair transplant became obvious, the only insults I got the last 9 months was: "Egg head!" from two stupid kids.
Other than that, absolutely nothing. Nothing. So there goes your argument about "if it's not that, it's going to be something else!"
Nope, I didn't get a single comment on any of my features in 9 months. And among my friends, my girlfriend's friend, my colleagues, I interacted with quite a lot of people.
Yet nothing. So maybe there is something wrong with you if people make rude remarks to you? Maybe it's because, god forbid, you're bald? Let that sink in.Comment
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Well you know maybe it's coming together now, you've never been insulted on anything and you seek others reassurance so damn much that hearing even a dumb insult shuts your childish brain down. You can't take any criticism on anything and the fact you posted what the other person said about you shows you have to flaunt. I don't care what they said about you, Hitler had some supporters too if you remember.
The 4 remarks I heard, including yesterday were over the course of 10-11 months, you know what the other 3 were? 'Whoa nice summer cut Big Cat!' From a full timer where I work (which he jokes with everyone) a guy who learned I skydive said I'm probably more aerodynamic without hair (and I actually laughed at that) and one very old boy asked if my barber messed up. So most or them were friendly joshing anyway. Oh and as for my reaction, I came up in a military family, like I said I'm quick on wit in any situation and maybe it's not I'm bald GASP maybe it's I have balls enough to stand up for myself and others!! I know that's a pretty foreign concept for you Fred. Either way many many many times people even older people tell me I look good like this, and so many people I've met since shaving. (Including girls) have told me they couldn't imagine me with hair, and wouldn't want to given how I carry it well to them. So I've heard 10 times as many compliments as I have insults and I go to house parties at a huge college town where young immature women run rampant so if they hated bald guys so much I'd hear more of it. Plus the reason you probably haven't got many insults about much is because since you're transplant you've been on this site all the time bragging to other people and saying 'yep your life's over I'm right'
I'm sure you'll get your batman mode on and nitpick some detail of what I wrote to try to prove your right. But I have to point out that you completely ignored of evidence given because you can't accept it. So if you can't just go start another forum about how bad your life treated you.
By the way I have many bald uncles who went very far in service in times if war, Rangers, Green Berets (special forces of the army), Navy PT boat gunners and some of them balded too. And no one thinks less of them for it, when they walk into a room they command everyone's attention when being interviewed. A couple have even appeared in books and memoirs from Vietnam. They're the reason I go skydiving mostly, I figured some of them could do it getting shot at. I could do it with just a landing field underneath. But they don't have a problem being bald, in fact military considers hair to be juvenile anyway and many shave like me with full heads. So being bald doesn't lower you at all when you're a good person, I can see where it might a person such as yourself who's only good quality was hair though.Comment
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