Dicided to shave my head finnaly after posting here Thanks guys!

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  • jesse23234
    Junior Member
    • Feb 2015
    • 6

    Dicided to shave my head finnaly after posting here Thanks guys!

    I want to thank everyone here for the encouragement to just embrace it. Because of your comments I took the clippers out four days ago and just buzzed it with no guard. In the moment I felt so great and so relieved to have just done it. I still feel good about it but I think I just need to get used to it. I look in the mirror and sometimes I don’t like it but other times I feel great. I’m going to the gym and eating the best I can. Still missing my ex who cheated on me for some reason… I am also leaving on March 26th to go backpacking in Costa Rica for a month (need to get out of this town). I have been reading mgtow, the red pill, and monk mode on reddit and self-improvement books trying to get some confidence. I think I’m going to get used to this in time right now I’m pretty white and skinny (lost 60 pounds but no muscle gain) but that will all change in time. Again I’m really thank full for everyone’s time and responses it’s really good to have support from people who are in the same boat..
    Picks of shaved melon.



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    I started losing my hair when I was 18. I am now 28, I wore hats every day to cover my thinning hair. I was paranoid suicidal, just an all-around depressed person. Ive been getting short hair cuts to try and cover my thinning hair. Im just ****ing sick of this I want a life, a good one!! Not this ****ing fear based shitty one

    can i pull off the shaved head??

    I started losing my hair when I was 18. I am now 28, I wore hats every day to cover my thinning hair. I was paranoid suicidal, just an all-around depressed person. I’ve been getting short hair cuts to try and cover my thinning hair. I’m just ****ing sick of this I want a life, a good one!! Not this ****ing fear based shitty one. I recently just got out of a relationship, found out my girlfriend was cheating on me. But when I was with her my thinning hair stopped bothering me. I went out without hats; I was a happy guy for the first time in a long time. But now I have next to no self-esteem. I have been trying to get better I’m going to the gym I bought some nice new clothes, even planned on getting braces to fix my teeth. But there is just the one thing. My ****ing hair its beating me. It’s my head shape or else I would have buzzed it off a long time ago. I have a huge head, massive! It’s why I can’t accept it. I have already gone through all the stages this is the last one I just need a push. So I have some pictures and I was just wondering what people think I will be a freak or an alien or can I pull it off and live my life?
    Thanks for even reading this and giving me your time.
    Jesse
    http://imgur.com/BRgDJPq http://imgur.com/RcEVO28
  • J_B_Davis
    Senior Member
    • Dec 2008
    • 409

    #2
    You beat hair loss. Well done! You look great, so go out there and enjoy your life.

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    • DeuceWillis
      Member
      • Feb 2014
      • 75

      #3
      Looks great man

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      • robincurtz
        Senior Member
        • Jan 2015
        • 225

        #4
        did u tried medications like minox and fin???

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        • maomao
          Member
          • Nov 2012
          • 30

          #5
          Originally posted by J_B_Davis
          You beat hair loss. Well done! You look great, so go out there and enjoy your life.
          Amen.

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          • jesse23234
            Junior Member
            • Feb 2015
            • 6

            #6
            No i haven’t tried anything. I just keep hearing about side-effects. And that it’s a battle that i can’t win. So i always thought of making a pre-emptive strike against it. How is it working for you?

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            • popped
              Junior Member
              • Mar 2015
              • 9

              #7
              You look really good! I can see you pulling off an intellectual look. Very proud of you! Don't take your appearance to seriously.

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              • Flippo
                Junior Member
                • Mar 2015
                • 21

                #8
                Take from someone who's done it all (literally) when it comes to his hair..you made a wise decision.

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