Odd hairloss at 23: Extremely depressed and suicidal. (PICS)

[fred970]

My sides looks just like yours, and they're perfectly fine, and you're perfectly fine. It's normal to have some see-through on the sides.

Do you realise this kind of topic makes some of us who've gone through real hair loss and major depression because of it very angry?

Talk to a dermatologist, and after he tells you that you're perfectly fine, talk to a psychologist.

[nursedude22]

My sides looks just like yours, and they're perfectly fine, and you're perfectly fine. It's normal to have some see-through on the sides.

Do you realise this kind of topic makes some of us who've gone through real hair loss and major depression because of it very angry?

Talk to a dermatologist, and after he tells you that you're perfectly fine, talk to a psychologist.

So you're saying this site discriminates on guys with less aggressive hairloss?

[Haircure]

No the people here are saying that you are overreacting so bad that's it's reached the level of troll status and/or you genuinely need psychological help. You say you are suicidal because you think you have hairloss even though were you are at now most dermatologist and or hair specialist would simply turn you away and tell you to see a psychiatrist. Even if you indeed have AGA (male-pattern baldness) and you show up here with a full thick head of hair and complain your life is over, how exactly do you expect others here to react given that they actually have visible hair loss?

Honestly you need help, if you react this bad to finding out you might be losing hair, how do you imagine you will react to other actually severe situations that occurs throughout life? You gonna kill yourself because a few hairs falling out? Even though statistically speaking bald/balding men are common.

If it bothers you that much take the others advise and get a finasteride prescription, and stick with the brand name one, as there have been numerous guys out there saying they had issues with generic.

[Notcoolanymore]

If the condition of your hair is what is making you suicidal, I would hate to see what happens when you actually have a real problem. There should be a seperate section for these types of hair loss cases.

[justhair]

I am a gay male, age 23 and hair loss made me feel "suicidal" as well until I recently had a transplant, waiting for it to grow.

I say you hair looks great right now,
So what you must do is keep it that way.

Try to get 15% minox so you never need a surgery

Best of luck to you.

[TimJermaine]

For the record, assuming you're straight, you can have all the hair in the world and still not get a single girl. Chicks dig confidence, looks come second.

But back to the original point, I've looked at every picture you posted and theres no real hair loss. MAYBE like 3 hairs miniaturized in the front? Take propecia and you probably won't have to worry about it for 10 years.

[35YrsAfter]

For the record, assuming you're straight, you can have all the hair in the world and still not get a single girl. Chicks dig confidence, looks come second.

But back to the original point, I've looked at every picture you posted and theres no real hair loss. MAYBE like 3 hairs miniaturized in the front? Take propecia and you probably won't have to worry about it for 10 years.

I have mentioned this before, we have a friend who looks kind of like Bill Gates and has a full head of hair. He is going on 60 and has had one girlfriend his entire life... He has a negative, pity poor me attitude. Any conversation with him moves toward a discussion of his personal problems. Women love that!... NOT! He used to make fun of my hair loss. I've been married to a wonderful lady for 25 years and nearly always had a girlfriend before I got married. Another friend of mine is a Norwood 6 and has no shortage of interested women whatsoever. We indeed need a cure for MPB but alongside that, a solution to men obsessing over their hair is needed and would be very welcome. Working at Dr. Cole's office, sometimes wives and girlfriends accompany their men for consultations or come in on surgery days. It seems that 99% of the time, women tell me hair restoration is their husband's or boyfriend's thing. In other words, women seem care a lot less about hair loss than men. Some women find bald men more attractive because in their experience they're more masculine. Google it. It is true that younger women seem to like the hair better, but life usually goes on, way beyond the twenties. Nothing wrong with a guy wanting to look younger and I do agree that men do look better with hair in the front in particular, but try not to get so depressed about it. There are things you can do about hair loss.


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[fred970]

Chicks dig confidence, looks come second.

Wrong.

[goldnt]

This cant be serious. I guess you cant really tell because how long your hair is. Maybe if you cut it short we could tell very light diffuse thinning, but from the pictures, it seems you only have like 4 thinning strands of hair on you hairline lol. You're also overreacting, you've got people here in way worse situations and aren't suicidal. And for christ sakes you cant be considering suicide over your situation its not like your 13.

[tommyboy12]

You can't seriously be that upset about your "hairloss". I'm a year older than you and been at it for too long and have much worse thinning. It depresses me at times, never to the suicidal point, but if you're freaking out like this right now with that head of hair, when you actually start to lose your hair, I can't imagine what you'll be like. There's a reason why everyone on here thinks you're trolling, because your hair is fine