Life isn't worth living if you're bald.

[blondetooth]

You are overthinking yourself Monkeybutt.
Take two equals, fat slobs etc. whatever. The 2nd guy WITH good styled hair will pull a hotter girl.

You are also overthinking "some guys look better shaved". OK, the guy with hair always has the option to shave/ buzz it down. The bald guy doesnt.

The girl will pick a guy with hair 10 / 10 times.


It is also sad that a bald guy must compensate somehow for being a high # norwood. He is expected to workout, be rich, be confident, be an Alpha, and have a bigger penis. - Meanwhile the guy with beautiful hair can relax, sit back, and get sucked off via road head.

[Munkynutz]

Hahaha okay sure. Aside from the fact that you can find studies that will tell you anything about anything fair enough. I obviously just sit at home jerking off so I have no idea what I'm talking about... Also never tried to pick up women with a shaved head so how would I know right??

Not sure I personally know any women who would rather a hideously out of shape person with awesome hair versus someone who was in good physical shape but without but again, if a study says so it MUST be true. It's a miracle bald people have girlfriends at all, right?? I mean how does it happen? They must be forced in to it or wives from Russia or something.

[Munkynutz]

I will agree that when dealing with a younger said of girls that this will be a group that wants hair a lot more than the older set cares about (and by older I mean past about 26 or so), and yes you are going to have some women who badly want hair. There are also womn who love it without. I've even dated one who wanted me to shave my head sooo hmmm.

I'll also generally agree I think most people look better with hair but ask yourself this - as a guy dating women is it more important they have a great head of hair, or do you care more about the body and if the hair is messed up, maybe poorly styled, or just in a ponytail and thin or whatever... Is that better than a person with a terrible body and flawless hair?

[Munkynutz]

The truth: almost everyone enjoys thinning hair or some degree of baldness throughout their lives and it gets progressively so as time passes. We will also go grey, lose vitality and strength, energy, and most people let themselves go.

The best counter to this = healthy diet and regular exercise, some sun, and avoid depression. Maybe avoid too many self abuses too.

Another truth: most people with or without hair absolutely suck at picking up members of the other sex. Everyone has insecurities about themselves and we are all most ruthlessly critical of our own bodies.

I have been blessed with a high hairline since I was in my teens. No bald spot, and it doesn't appear to be getting much worse but I have never loved my hair and have messed with it forever multiple times a day to keep it looking okay. And it rarely does from all angles anyway.

And of the 30 or so girlfriends I've managed to have only the ones I had when I was in my teens and early twenties said anything about my hair. Now they just don't seem to notice at all. Whether it's because I make them laugh, am self confident with or without hair, can entertain them, am self sufficient with job and place and have a decent sense of style I can't tell you.

I can't pick up every woman, in fact I'd say using dating websites I probably average 1/50 or worse, but dammit of those I am rarely dumped and if so it is totally not for my hair. Lack of time, commitment, caring sure. Hair?? Hells no.

Now if you feel you're screwed because you are losing hair and you let this damage your confidence you're right - you are. And I have many apathetic friends with full heads of hair who for various reasons have no self confidence either and guess what?? They're ewhally unattractive to women.

So hit the gym if you have to, partake in activities which make you interesting to be around, make yourself happy through whatever means you have at your disposal, constantly learn things, pick up a damn guitar - learn to fly an airplane or sky jump I don't know. Maybe sports. And you'll do juuuuuust fine.

Or you can sit around griping and watching flawless Hollywood hair on TV in a chair or on a couch and lament your life away. It really makes no difference to me:

[baldozer]

You are overthinking yourself Monkeybutt.
Take two equals, fat slobs etc. whatever. The 2nd guy WITH good styled hair will pull a hotter girl.

You are also overthinking "some guys look better shaved". OK, the guy with hair always has the option to shave/ buzz it down. The bald guy doesnt.

The girl will pick a guy with hair 10 / 10 times.


It is also sad that a bald guy must compensate somehow for being a high # norwood. He is expected to workout, be rich, be confident, be an Alpha, and have a bigger penis. - Meanwhile the guy with beautiful hair can relax, sit back, and get sucked off via road head.

I don't think having hair is that big of an advantage as you are making out to be. Daily, I see plenty of ugly guys with hair, while many bald men still look great. 90% of your looks is your face. If your face is good, you can relax.