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    Default Girlfriend dumped me this Thursday... For a guy with a full head of hair

    Okay, so I've been dating this really pretty blonde haired, blue eyed girl for a few months and we had been friends before for about a year. I hate smug assholes so I'm not trying to brag, but I'd like to say that I'm a fairly interesting guy. Also not unattractive other than my hair really. I'm working toward a pilots license and an EMT certification, I've got a scuba certification, and I'm a pretty decent guitar player. I go and see a lot of small time concerts and bands on the weekend in the city I live close to, and I do a lot of camping and kayaking trips in the summer. Yet, the bitch ditches me for a dude who is kind of fat, doesn't have a job or direction in life, and only cares about his car and his XBox. Yet, he has hair, and she told me she wished I could do something about my hair but I told her there was only so much I could do. I'm sure that wasn't the only factor but damn guys I treated her like an angel. Way better than I should have I guess. Whatever, I think she'll regret it. Sorry for the rant guys but why do so many people judge on looks alone? Even if it's just a couple of flaws?

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    Look for hypergamy and women on Google. You'll understand.

    Women have no self-awareness and will worship dudes who are utter losers, to us only, for them, they're perfect.

    "He plays the Xbox and tunes his can for now, but he'll get something going for him, you'll see!"

    I've seen it so many times man. Not to brag either, but I consider myself a really great guy, I've been with more or less 30 girls in my life.

    And they're all, I repeat all the same. They only like you for what you'll bring to the table, for the benefits they can get from you. Never for who you are.

    Every guy who truly knows (Western) women will hate them to some degree, there is no way around that.

    I've been ditched for a tall dark stranger with a full head of hair too. I've seen it with my own eyes.

    My only problem is (was? My hair transplant is coming in nicely) my hair. And unfortunately, I see women won't forget this particular flaw.

    Apparently, you can be fat, short, have no hygiene, no direction in life, play video games all the time, and women will still want to be with you.

    But don't you dare being bald!

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    Quote Originally Posted by fred970 View Post
    Look for hypergamy and women on Google. You'll understand.

    Women have no self-awareness and will worship dudes who are utter losers, to us only, for them, they're perfect.

    "He plays the Xbox and tunes his can for now, but he'll get something going for him, you'll see!"

    I've seen it so many times man. Not to brag either, but I consider myself a really great guy, I've been with more or less 30 girls in my life.

    And they're all, I repeat all the same. They only like you for what you'll bring to the table, for the benefits they can get from you. Never for who you are.

    Every guy who truly knows (Western) women will hate them to some degree, there is no way around that.

    I've been ditched for a tall dark stranger with a full head of hair too. I've seen it with my own eyes.

    My only problem is (was? My hair transplant is coming in nicely) my hair. And unfortunately, I see women won't forget this particular flaw.

    Apparently, you can be fat, short, have no hygiene, no direction in life, play video games all the time, and women will still want to be with you.

    But don't you dare being bald!
    No, short is way worse than being bald. Bald at least appears masculine and powerful, but a short guy looks too weak. Not sure about being fat, but that doesn't seem to be that much of a dealbreaker, because one could always lose weight anyhow.

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    Thanks guys for replying. I'm not tall by any means, I'm about average, 5 11' but that guy is about the same height as me anyway. He's also got long douche bag hair that makes this guy look like a kid. I have a tapered, blond, jude law-like hair style and a beard. You're dead on about women Fred, and the reason this one really got to me is that I thought she was different. She thought I was a badass and wanted to do what I did and have fun. Toward the end of our 6 month relationship and you could hardly get her out of her house or get her to look up from her phone. Give me a couple of weeks and I'll probably find someone else. Just the fact that hair was an issue really messes with me. I have pretty high standards personality wise and looks wise, which sounds hypocritical but if an average looking chick really impresses me somehow, I'll go for her. I have standards but I'm not shallow.

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    I hate girls liked that, I bet she wore make up? Should have wiped her face clean with Kleenex just to remind her she ain't nothing special.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jazz1 View Post
    I hate girls liked that, I bet she wore make up? Should have wiped her face clean with Kleenex just to remind her she ain't nothing special.
    Ya, and probably she bleached her hair blonde and wore blue contact lenses too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kudu View Post
    Thanks guys for replying. I'm not tall by any means, I'm about average, 5 11' but that guy is about the same height as me anyway. He's also got long douche bag hair that makes this guy look like a kid. I have a tapered, blond, jude law-like hair style and a beard. You're dead on about women Fred, and the reason this one really got to me is that I thought she was different. She thought I was a badass and wanted to do what I did and have fun. Toward the end of our 6 month relationship and you could hardly get her out of her house or get her to look up from her phone. Give me a couple of weeks and I'll probably find someone else. Just the fact that hair was an issue really messes with me. I have pretty high standards personality wise and looks wise, which sounds hypocritical but if an average looking chick really impresses me somehow, I'll go for her. I have standards but I'm not shallow.

    She sounds like a loser. And I'm hoping everyone on this thread is under 25, cause you all sound like teenagers. Someone intelligent is not going to care if you're going bald. Maybe 20 year old girls care (some of them), but once you get to be in your late twenties girls with any sense (hot and not hot) won't give a ****. The girl who dumped you will end up living in a trailer with her loser husband who will probably beat her. You sound like a productive and great guy, juts forget about your hair and live your life and get shit done, and someone who is worth your time will materialize. It never fails, you just have to retain your self esteem and do good things. Judging by the misogyny and completely ridiculous attitudes on here, I'm surprised any of you have ever been with a woman, and if you have I feel sorry for them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sdsurfin View Post
    Someone intelligent is not going to care if you're going bald.
    Jesus, what a stupid thing to say. So every girl that cares about a guy balding is automatically not intelligent ? LOL.

    Some of you guys on this forum...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kudu View Post
    Okay, so I've been dating this really pretty blonde haired, blue eyed girl for a few months and we had been friends before for about a year. I hate smug assholes so I'm not trying to brag, but I'd like to say that I'm a fairly interesting guy. Also not unattractive other than my hair really. I'm working toward a pilots license and an EMT certification, I've got a scuba certification, and I'm a pretty decent guitar player. I go and see a lot of small time concerts and bands on the weekend in the city I live close to, and I do a lot of camping and kayaking trips in the summer. Yet, the bitch ditches me for a dude who is kind of fat, doesn't have a job or direction in life, and only cares about his car and his XBox. Yet, he has hair, and she told me she wished I could do something about my hair but I told her there was only so much I could do. I'm sure that wasn't the only factor but damn guys I treated her like an angel. Way better than I should have I guess. Whatever, I think she'll regret it. Sorry for the rant guys but why do so many people judge on looks alone? Even if it's just a couple of flaws?
    It'll take her 15 years to realize how much of a f.vck up she is. Don't chase her... obviously not worth it.

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    Thanks guys, you are spot on most of the things about her lol. She's a natural blond and she doesn't have contacts, she doesn't really have nice tits or that much of an ass, she used to be really self conscious about it, still is to some degree. I told her that it doesn't really matter to me and that she was still really attractive, I'm looking for more than just a piece of ass, I have a good physique and confident around people so getting laid really isn't a problem right now. I'm looking for someone who will go and have a good time with me and not be obsessed with her damn phone all the time. I'm bummed out about it, and the hair comment kinda hurt, but I'm going to try and focus on work and school now and try and forget about women for a while. It's incredibly hard to find a mature girl in high school. The thing is, my hair hasn't really gotten any worse than when we started dating I've been a NW 3 for two years now, if I can maintain that I'll be fine.

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