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Also "caring" is relative. Sure, I will probably "care" when my next girlfriend or wife gets old and starts to get wrinkles and her breasts sag. Aging sucks to see in ourselves as well as in others. But I'm not going to leave her for it. Balding is even less of an issue for most women, because it literally happens to almost every man at some point, and is not really a sign of aging or even particularly unattractive to most women. You have a much better chance of turning your mate off by getting fat or having bad teeth or hygiene or getting old in a million other ways. Anyway if you're as young as you sound I wouldn't worry about it much. In five years time there will most probably be much better treatments, replicel is just one example of advancements that are still being worked on (everyone looks at something like adorns and thinks its a disaster, but the fact is its just a hiccup in a chain of advancements and knowledge). And in ten you'll still be young (many of my friends are more handsome in their 40s, especially to women, than they were as twenty somethings) and there's a good chance they'll have something really game-changing. I don't think they are too far off with hair cloning, and for me it'll be kinda too late, but stem cell remedies are relatively on our doorstep in many areas of medicine. And if it doesn't pan out until we are old, then **** it, just be bald and don't think about it too much, millions of men have done great things and lived happy lives bald before you. just one of many shitty things in life that you must endure in order to be happy, and unless you're very lucky, probably not nearly the worst.
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And all I need to do is read your username to know you're a gay fag who surfs in San Diego. For a guy who is nearly 100% positive that a cure isn't coming in his lifetime, you sure spend ALOT of time on this forum. I don't really care to read your paragraphs cause you repeat the same shit every post so I'm sure I already read what you typed. Good luck to you sir.Comment
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OP, you might have a point. I've been rejected because of my looks more times than number of atoms in this universe...
I am not handsome, and with hair loss, I look very old, and no woman wants anything to do with me....Comment
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Thanks guys, you are spot on most of the things about her lol. She's a natural blond and she doesn't have contacts, she doesn't really have nice tits or that much of an ass, she used to be really self conscious about it, still is to some degree. I told her that it doesn't really matter to me and that she was still really attractive, I'm looking for more than just a piece of ass, I have a good physique and confident around people so getting laid really isn't a problem right now. I'm looking for someone who will go and have a good time with me and not be obsessed with her damn phone all the time. I'm bummed out about it, and the hair comment kinda hurt, but I'm going to try and focus on work and school now and try and forget about women for a while. It's incredibly hard to find a mature girl in high school. The thing is, my hair hasn't really gotten any worse than when we started dating I've been a NW 3 for two years now, if I can maintain that I'll be fine.Comment
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Loss? I don't view losing something/someone shallow and superficial as a loss. I had to wait a long time for my wife (married for 25 years). A great woman is well worth the wait. Look it up... Many women find bald men attractive. Success is the sweetest for of revenge. Pilot's license?... I know someone whose life is a little work and mostly play. He flies a private jet all over the world. Lots of time on his hands in exotic places. Don't settle for a woman damaged on the inside.
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There's nothing attractive about a bald man, sorry. If you were a good looking girl, would you go out of your way to date a bald man when there's plenty of guys around with full heads of hair ? Probably not. Let's not kid ourselves here. The woman would be making a serious exception for that one bald man, whether she admits it or not. It's like going to the dealership to buy a car, you find two of the same ones but one is full of dents and the other is in mint condition, which one would you choose ?Comment
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Hair is about 10% of the looks, the rest is face. I see many guys with hair who are ugly, and I see many bald guys who look good. For example, do you think Zidane or Fredrik Ljungbreg are bad looking. On the other hand, look at Maradona. He has a full head of dark thick hair, but was still once voted the ugliest footballer. Zidane, on the other hand was once rated the sexiest footballer. Although, he still has some hair in front, but I think he would look as good with no hair at all.Comment
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We both are in the same grade (seniors) in high school so we both have the same government teacher. The guy is 26, NW 7 with a shaved head, has a short beard, and about 6 2'. Ironically, this girl finds him extremely attractive almost to the point of hitting on him at one point (before we dated). He's a really cool guy with a witty personality and we get along well, so I can understand how a chick would find him attractive. I don't think it was all about hair, but it's definitely related. I feel that I'm pretty mature for my age, between my hobbies, education, and job. I act a little more professional than your typical 17 year old jock or hipster loser. Most of my friends are early 20s, I don't know why, it's just the people I get along with. To most people, I look about 20-22 years old. I don't know if it's the fact that I look older so I act older or the fact that hair loss has humbled me and helped me grow up. Either way, if she wants a boy instead of a man that's fine by me, but you gotta grow up some time.Comment
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