Facing family and friends

[Karlton]

Hey everyone,
I was wondering if you guys could share your experiences with going hatless around people you don't see often, and what people's reactions have been.
I recently went to my wife's family reunion. It was basically a 3 day vacation at a lake house in eastern Georgia. All of the people there are her extended family that I only see 2-3 times a year at most. Out of 40-50 people I am literally the only one with hair issues. I have a really big head to make matters worse.
I couldn't bring myself to take off my hat for 3 days. I recently gave myself a buzz cut and am in the process of growing it out again. Even with it grown out, I'm not sure how I'm ever going to find the balls to go boating/ swimming etc. I just don't feel comfortable without a hat on anymore unless every hair is perfect and sprayed in place.
I know I can wear a hat to get through work and everyday life, but eventually I know I will have to reveal my growing forehead for all to see.
I could use some tips on how to break through this anxiety.