For those of you debating what women want...

[baldozer]

Yeah so if you're balding in your 20's, the best year of or life you're doomed if you want a girl your age.

Then when you enter your 30's with your shiny bald head, you'll be able to land a used-up woman in her 30's too.

Some of the rationalizations here are so depressing to read.

I don't know what you guys really mean by feminine, but I don't think feminine big eyes and lips are considered attractive in men. Lips maybe, but not that sort of eyes. Vertically small and horizontally long deep set eyes with prominent brow ridge always look better on men. Moreover having a thick neck is also important. A thin feminine neck never looks good on men.

[Aphrodite]

Yeah so if you're balding in your 20's, the best year of or life you're doomed if you want a girl your age.

Then when you enter your 30's with your shiny bald head, you'll be able to land a used-up woman in her 30's too.

Some of the rationalizations here are so depressing to read.

I agree, this is depressing to read. Women find men attractive for other attributes aside from their hair. Of course, no women that I know, says I can't wait to go out and meet a bald man and make him my husband.... But I have seen attractive balding men. Do some men look better bald than others, YES! However,men have many other qualities contributing to their level of attractiveness; such as a handsome face, nice body, charming personality, great job. Your hair cannot be the only determining factor of attractiveness. If that were the case, then all men with a full head of hair would be considered attractive to women, and we know this is not true.

[Mike K]

Women never said their lesbians. They said they like attractive men.

That's actually not what the article says it says 76% of women prefer "feminine" men. I'm sure 100% of women would rather be with an attractive guy just like 100% of men would rather be with an attractive woman. But all dudes that I know would rather be with a feminine, attractive woman than some butch dyke lady. This article says 76% of women prefer "feminine" men, that sounds pretty lezbo to me. Wouldn't you think it was just a little faggy if some dude was really into super butch girls? Feminine does not equal attractive. There are definitely masculine men who are attractive.

[35YrsAfter]

No women that I know, says I can't wait to go out and meet a bald man and make him my husband.... But I have seen attractive balding men. Do some men look better bald than others, YES! However,men have many other qualities contributing to their level of attractiveness; such as a handsome face, nice body, charming personality, great job. Your hair cannot be the only determining factor of attractiveness. If that were the case, then all men with a full head of hair would be considered attractive to women, and we know this is not true.

I had a good looking woman tell me she prefers bald men and finds them very attractive. In particular she finds a shaved head attractive. Women see things differently than men. I have been married for 25 years and I'm just beginning to understand some of the differences.

Women and the bald head.

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[fred970]

Shaved head of course, that's what they think about when they say they find bald men sexy. But this is different from a NW4+ who shaves because he has to.

[Notcoolanymore]

Shaved head of course, that's what they think about when they say they find bald men sexy. But this is different from a NW4+ who shaves because he has to.

Right on.

[Aphrodite]

This isn't a very good study... It doesn't list what qualities were used to describe feminine vs. masculine men. It also mentions nothing about hair loss. Are men with a full head of hair more feminine than balding men? If so, how?

[Aphrodite]

Just because women prefer a man who has good hygiene or doesn't behave like a barbarian, does not make her a lesbian. But again, this study doesn't even say what qualities make men fall into the feminine vs. masculine categories.

Another study you may be interested in is one that titled "Are bald men more virile than their well thatched contemporaries". According to this study conducted by Burton et al of 48 men ages 35–64 years, surrogate markers of “masculinity” such as hair
density on the trunk and limbs, serum testosterone levels, sebum secretion rate, sweat secretion rate, skin thickness, muscle thickness and bone thickness had no correlation to baldness. According to the population studied, bald men did not prove any more virile than men with a full head of hair. So I ask you, how does being bald make you more masculine? How is the article about women preferring feminine men relevant to hair loss?

[Mike K]

Yea its not a very well written article...

[35YrsAfter]

Yea its not a very well written article...

Women look at the whole package. I commonly hear of women being totally turned off by men that have everything going for them, including the negatives like arrogance, conceit, selfishness, and insensitivity. The media seems to want men to take the sensitivity thing to ridiculous levels, just to keep that one in perspective. To sum it up women generally hate arrogant self-centered men.

It's important to women how men carry themselves. Self confidence and a positive attitude are paramount. Women hate pitiful-me whiners.

There is power in the image men project. Famous actors run into this a lot. People think the villain on TV or film is probably a bad guy in real life, or Patrick Stewart and William Shatner know how to fly the space shuttle. It has often been reported that Curly of the Three Stooges developed a poor self image as a result of his Stooge persona as a heavyset cueball-crowned clown. I believe I once read that women had a hard time taking him seriously.

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