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Every day is a little worse.
You know what's the hardest part for me? It's that knowing at the back of my head every time I go to sleep "tomorrow I will have less hair". It's that thinking each and every day I'm slightly less attractive than I was the day before. It's like living life with an expiry date, any wasted moment feels bad because I just wasted one of the precious few moments I have with a head of hair where I can hide the loss. Every day I style my hair and think "shit, this is getting harder, I don't know how much longer I can keep this up."
I honestly think I'm going to be happier once it's gone. Sure I won't look great, but at least I won't have those thoughts constantly wearing down at me. There will be no where to go but up at that point, I won't be getting worse I'll be getting better. Better shape, better clothes, cleaner skin, not a constant struggle against something I can in no way win against.
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stop obsessing about your hairs bro, there are people who have much worse conditions and still live a normal life
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Originally Posted by verver
stop obsessing about your hairs bro, there are people who have much worse conditions and still live a normal life
If other people's suffering at all deterred from our own it would be on the sense that we're perhaps momentarily empathetic towards their situation.
We in no way live, or experience what others who are suffering are, and as a result their pain is almost of little relevance to an individual and their day to day.
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Originally Posted by verver
stop obsessing about your hairs bro, there are people who have much worse conditions and still live a normal life
Are you living a normal life, assuming you have hairloss?
If you are ok with your hairloss why are u here?
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Originally Posted by sausage
Are you living a normal life, assuming you have hairloss?
If you are ok with your hairloss why are u here?
hair loss bother me like anyone else (and trust me shaved head DOESN'T look good on me AT ALL!) but i'm not obsessing about it to the point where i become depressed, want to kill myself etc.... i take my finasteride everyday and that's it, i know we can't do nothing about it atm
i'm here to keep myself informed about new treatement and post sometimes questions about hairloss (my account is 1 year old and i only have less than 30 messages)
i'm so fed up about these threads they all look the same
"hello i'm Mr. Wasgoingtobesuccessful John i'm young i'm rich i'm handsome i go to elite school i'm have 7867 girlfriends, i was going to be the president of the galaxy but now because of hair loss my life is ruined , everyday i want to kill myself"
srs wtf ?
i know i will completely lose my hairs sooner or later but you know what i'm grateful that there is atleast a treatement that can retard this process
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Originally Posted by verver
i'm so fed up about these threads they all look the same
"hello i'm Mr. Wasgoingtobesuccessful John i'm young i'm rich i'm handsome i go to elite school i'm have 7867 girlfriends, i was going to be the president of the galaxy but now because of hair loss my life is ruined , everyday i want to kill myself"
Losing hair can screw with a guy, but if that is all he has to hold his life together, he is already screwed.
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It is all about the fall. About losing something you once had....in this case something that can dramatically change how you get treated in life. Starving kids in Bangladesh can not change this fact, knowing they exist should not make you feel better about the decline in your own life (infact if you feel "better" because kids are starving in Bangladesh, that is a little weird)
Baldness ALONE can change you from goodlooking to plain or ugly. That is definitely something to be depressed about.
OP do you use meds?
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