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  • didi
    Senior Member
    • Nov 2011
    • 1360

    #16
    Originally posted by 35YrsAfter
    The Jason Stratham look has been brought up frequently. He looks great and I can guarantee you that most women would find him attractive. This look is usually within the reach of men with a Dr. Phil level of hair loss. To pull this off with a hair transplant, the hair restoration physician. must be an artist. The result must look 100% natural with a great looking donor area.

    If it were me, I would have a small chest, beard and scalp hair test session using the smallest punch possible. I would have ACell and PRP administered during and after the surgery. I would resist the temptation to just dive in. I would wait and see how everything grows and heals before going into a larger session. Really short hair is very comfortable. You want to avoid donor scarring so you can do a 1 guard.

    This is the third time I mentioned this in the forum, but, the most popular guy with women I have ever met is a Norwood 6. His head has a little point on top as opposed to the ideal smooth round look. Women care much less about the things men agonize over. Much of attraction between men and women relates to opposites. Most women prefer the masculine look. If you need to hit the gym, all the better for your general health.


    He probably looks like Jason s already










    Jason is unique case in so many ways, the only true nw6 that doenst look miserable? In fact women say he is soo hot..and he is a very short guy


    must be his facial structure, its skinny with no fat, chiselled face and jawline..
    he has favourable skull shape...the worst thing is to be bald with round/chubby face


    maybe facial lipo would be more beneficial then HT to make you look like JS, these days jason is nw 6 with not much hair left....

    its his face tht makes him who he is..not his hair



    think about it

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    • Assemblage23
      Senior Member
      • Aug 2009
      • 197

      #17
      How did it happen did you try the meds?

      Statham is not a realistic role model for most MPB sufferrers. He has that perfect DOM facial structure that makes balding a lot less unattractive than it is for the average male.

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      • 35YrsAfter
        Doctor Representative
        • Aug 2012
        • 1418

        #18
        Originally posted by Assemblage23
        How did it happen did you try the meds?

        Statham is not a realistic role model for most MPB sufferrers. He has that perfect DOM facial structure that makes balding a lot less unattractive than it is for the average male.
        I don't know about that... You would be amazed at how diet and intense workouts can transform a young man. Bodybuilding transforms the entire person and muscles have "memory". I'm 61, and when I was in my 20's I worked out very hard for years. At 61, I could do more pushups and bench press more than most teenagers. Many of the world-class body builders started out as overly thin or overweight.

        Take Lou Ferrigno for instance:
        His father was very critical of and negative towards him when he was growing up due to his hearing disability. Though Lou respected his father, he was very hurt when his father expressed his belief that Lou would never achieve success.

        Lou bench-pressed 560 lbs in his prime (age 25). Now, at the age of 50, he benches 400 lbs.

        Ferrigno was the youngest bodybuilder ever to hold the "Mr. Universe" title at age 20.

        Your statement about "attractive" is a typical man's point of view. Women want self-confident men with a positive personality who take care of themselves and have leadership qualities. I've been happily married for 24 years and recently had an attractive lady tell me she finds bald men "hot". I know unattractive bald men who are married and have normal looking wives. I'm talking short, fat and bald. I have a normal looking friend with a full head of hair in his 50s who has only had one girlfriend his entire life. He is a walking pity party with a voice that drones negativity.

        35YrsAfter also posts as CITNews and works at Dr. Cole's office
        Cole Hair Transplant
        1045 Powers Place
        Alpharetta, Georgia 30009
        Phone 678-566-1011
        Last edited by 35YrsAfter; 02-22-2015, 10:09 AM.

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        • BigThinker
          Senior Member
          • Oct 2012
          • 1507

          #19
          Originally posted by Vic12
          That f***ing sucks man.

          I'm 18 and a NW2, I hope I'm not headed down the same path.

          Sometimes I think about what I would do if I end up like you.

          My plan would be to get a real solid fake tan, hit the gym harder, bulk up, get a cool beard style, dress better, go out more, and meet more people. Most people with hair don't strive to succeed in every other aspect of their life, I think it's only people like you who suffer such loss that are driven to succeed.

          Also I know my advice is similar to another posters, and he couldn't be more right, I felt I had to tell it to you too.
          Lol. You sound like me.

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          • sausage
            Senior Member
            • Jan 2012
            • 1063

            #20
            Jason is slick bald now.....he is a movie star, millionaire, muscle man, kung fu specialist, hard man.

            So you can't really compare him to general bald guys. If he was builder in London would he have the same appeal?

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            • didi
              Senior Member
              • Nov 2011
              • 1360

              #21
              Or if he was a taxi driver?

              Apparently he is 1.78cm, that's on a shorter side...I'd like to go with him to some bar where nobody knows who he is and see if he can pull hot chicks.

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              • 35YrsAfter
                Doctor Representative
                • Aug 2012
                • 1418

                #22
                Originally posted by sausage
                Jason is slick bald now.....he is a movie star, millionaire, muscle man, kung fu specialist, hard man.

                So you can't really compare him to general bald guys. If he was builder in London would he have the same appeal?
                You mean body builder? What is a general bald guy? I personally know a short bald guy with a kind of pointy head that has more women than he knows what to do with. He isn't rich either. He has a great personality and knows how to talk to women. He always has the best looking girlfriends. I'm talking swimsuit contest winners with pretty faces. Total babes.

                35YrsAfter also posts as CITNews and works at Dr. Cole's office
                Cole Hair Transplant
                Atlanta, Georgia9
                Phone 678-566-1011
                Please feel free to call or email me with any questions.
                Last edited by 35YrsAfter; 02-22-2015, 04:34 PM.

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                • Buster
                  Senior Member
                  • Jul 2012
                  • 210

                  #23
                  Originally posted by didi
                  Or if he was a taxi driver?

                  Apparently he is 1.78cm, that's on a shorter side...I'd like to go with him to some bar where nobody knows who he is and see if he can pull hot chicks.
                  I remember seeing him in "Snatch" with Brad Pitt. He was relatively insignificant because he wore a suit (if my memory serves me) during most of the movie. It wasn't until he started doing movies like "The Transporter", where he takes his shirt off in virtually every scene, that he became a sex symbol.

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                  • sausage
                    Senior Member
                    • Jan 2012
                    • 1063

                    #24
                    Originally posted by 35YrsAfter
                    You mean body builder? What is a general bald guy? I personally know a short bald guy with a kind of pointy head that has more women than he knows what to do with. He isn't rich either. He has a great personality and knows how to talk to women. He always has the best looking girlfriends. I'm talking swimsuit contest winners with pretty faces. Total babes.
                    No, I mean Builder, what do you call them in the US? Construction workers.

                    General bald guy = bald guys in general, all bald guys, with normal jobs, not movie stars.

                    Jason Statham is probably one of very few bald men that actually are recognised as good looking or sex symbols to women. 1 frigging guy.

                    Bald is ballsh*t.

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                    • Auraria
                      Doctor Representative
                      • Jun 2013
                      • 19

                      #25
                      Coming from a lady's perspective, I find that what makes a guy attractive is a good sense of humor, healthy self confidence, and a normal/fit physique.

                      I doubt that many women at all look at men with a scowl and comment, "Oh, he has a NW2 approaching 3...etc.." ..and if you notice a female doing that, they ARE NOT worth your time, honestly.

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                      • sausage
                        Senior Member
                        • Jan 2012
                        • 1063

                        #26
                        Originally posted by Auraria
                        Coming from a lady's perspective, I find that what makes a guy attractive is a good sense of humor, healthy self confidence, and a normal/fit physique.

                        I doubt that many women at all look at men with a scowl and comment, "Oh, he has a NW2 approaching 3...etc.." ..and if you notice a female doing that, they ARE NOT worth your time, honestly.

                        I have no hair, no sense of humor, no self confidence......I have a reasonable physique.......

                        I'm screwed.

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                        • UK_
                          Senior Member
                          • Feb 2011
                          • 2691

                          #27
                          Originally posted by sausage
                          I have no hair, no sense of humor, no self confidence......I have a reasonable physique.......

                          I'm screwed.
                          Ah well, it could be worse.

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                          • Notcoolanymore
                            Senior Member
                            • Jun 2013
                            • 2246

                            #28
                            Being bald definitely does not make things easier. I hate this balding crap. There are some women here who say that other things are more important to them and I believe them. With that being said there are definitely many women out there that wont even give you the time of day if you are bald. Doesn't matter if you are confident or funny.

                            Going bald doesn't mean we need we need to let the rest of our self go to sh!# though. I wont list the things here as we have heard them all before, but there are other things that we can do to keep ourselves at least looking half way decent.

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                            • Auraria
                              Doctor Representative
                              • Jun 2013
                              • 19

                              #29
                              Originally posted by sausage
                              I have no hair, no sense of humor, no self confidence......I have a reasonable physique.......

                              I'm screwed.
                              I doubt that, Sausage. Though I haven't struggled with hair loss, I have struggled with a lot of skin problems most of my life. I know how it is. It feels horrible to think that people are just focusing on a 'flaw' and not seeing the real you. That's how I've felt. I would look in the mirror and only see flaws on my face than who I really was/am. But. That is all a lie, I realized. Humans have so much more complexity and depth to them than a simple, 'flaw'. Every man and woman on here struggling with hair loss has their weaknesses and strengths..and, though it's good to try and improve that flaw, it's so much more important to build up your strengths and discover that what you are is not defined by what you look like. You have to find yourself separate from a, 'flaw' and not let it totally control your life (like I almost let my imperfections do) I bet you are very handsome, and you don't even know it....and, as I have said, if anyone says otherwise..then their at a loss for not seeing you as you Really are.


                              Auraria works at Dr. Cole's office

                              Cole Hair Transplant

                              1070 Powers Place

                              Alpharetta, Georgia 30009

                              Phone 678-566-1011
                              Last edited by Auraria; 02-24-2015, 02:03 PM.

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