? for any women out there-What does it mean when I girl says this?

[mpb47]

Bang her a few times and move on. Don't get oneitis, especially with a chick you're not compatible with.

Well that window closed a good while ago. Now it's just a message from her every few months or so. So yea I had to move on, though I did noticed recently she wised up and removed her borderline racist remarks.

Here is a ? for those of you on these dating sites:

What is the right speed before you ask for their number or rather move things up a bit? I get mixed feelings on this. This second girl I have been talking with seems to want to take things really SLOW. I hear from her about once a week or so. About a week and a half ago, she said she was about to take a small vacation and would be around more often. I said great, lets go voice and have yet to hear back.


On the other hand, about 2 weeks ago , I had some woman contact me and just said hey hows it going. We talk for maybe an hour or a little longer and I ended it with - hope to chat again soon. Well never another word since.

So to me it seems like girl number 2 is wanting to go really really slow, if anything at all. While this other girl wanted something more, right then and now. Are girls all over the map like this?