This obsession with muscle building

[OtherSyde]

Life is not a game, and therefore there is no such thing as cheating. It's only cheating if you're in some sort of competition with some sort of defined set of rules for you to break; such rules do not exist on the grander scale of life - at the beach, in the gym, in the club, etc. There is no cheating out in the jungle, only winning and losing. Just a fact.

Also, I don't think any of thse guys are "too big." They're more like "medium-sized."

As for physique, the universally-accepted one in society seems to tend to be the type involving defined muscles and the whole V-shaped upper body thing - but that is, of course, subject to individual preference. Sort of like ditsy, scrawny blondes with big boobs are the generally-accepted stereotype of women that men are supposed to lust after, but smart dark-haired girls with green eyes and other variations rarely have trouble finding men, and many men (like me) prefer those other types.