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  • yeahyeahyeah
    Senior Member
    • Nov 2011
    • 1818

    Maybe this is all pointless

    Cosmetic surgery, tackling hairloss.

    if you really think about it - our bodies are only with us for a limited period of time, 80-100 years. Even then, for 40 years or so, we "look good".

    I know this a very mechanical way of looking at it...

    But I think its safe to say our bodies are like the exterior of a car, nothing more, nothing less. And all of these cosmetic improvements are like painting a new colour on the car, which has been chipped away due to hairloss.

    What's the point of it all?
  • TheLaughingCow
    Member
    • Nov 2012
    • 74

    #2
    That we and our children may live the happiest, most fulfilling lives possible.
    Life isn't about a NW1 hairline.
    It's about being happy.

    Happiness for me is being the best I can.

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    • Aames
      Inactive
      • Nov 2012
      • 626

      #3
      There is no point to life as a whole. The odds of you even being alive are greater than the winning the lottery. Might as well try to be happy; we don't know what happens next, if anything.

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      • 25 going on 65
        Senior Member
        • Sep 2010
        • 1476

        #4
        The short time we have to be alive is exactly why I want to spend it with hair instead of without. It is bullsh*t but people treat you differently based on how you look, in my experience.

        Edit: That said....if you can move beyond depending on superficial things for happiness, that is good for you. LaughingCow has a healthy perspective on that. Some of us are just not well equipped to do it
        Scorpion used to talk about the importance of perspective, of realizing you are just a tiny temporary speck in an endless universe, and that no one will care you existed 200 years from now. But he also admitted he was unable to embrace this thought pattern, that he was stuck in his self-absorbed POV. He even called into the show once, telling people to try to look at the big picture to find happiness, but then said something like "but for me....I just cannot do it."
        I really identified with some of what he said, even though he could be a real troll at times. A tragic case.

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        • BigThinker
          Senior Member
          • Oct 2012
          • 1507

          #5
          What LaughingCow said. It's just about enjoying this short life, which is a bit easier to do with hair.

          Or, you can be religious and think there's an afterlife if you want. But if there was, we'd just be headed to hell for being superficial and "mutilating" our bodies with drugs and hair transplants.

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          • Proper
            Senior Member
            • Mar 2013
            • 147

            #6
            Its what you make of it and I want my hair damnit! I cant wear cool hipster stuff with a bald head!!!

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            • Davey Jones
              Senior Member
              • Apr 2012
              • 356

              #7
              Originally posted by Proper
              Its what you make of it and I want my hair damnit! I cant wear cool hipster stuff with a bald head!!!
              You can wear whatever you want. Students at the schools I work at call me a hipster all the time, and I'm as bald as the blazes. Actually, they've switched over to "a mean hipster" 'cause I've given like 10 referrals in the last two weeks. If you're feeling down, try giving kids referrals. It's a huge pick me up.

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              • Dav7
                Senior Member
                • Feb 2013
                • 308

                #8
                Originally posted by Proper
                Its what you make of it and I want my hair damnit! I cant wear cool hipster stuff with a bald head!!!
                If that's the case, there may after all be benefits attached to having MPB.

                Being, dickhead's, cool, Cool (Gwen Stefani song), Too Cool, live, fun, funny, concert, Live (James Taylor album), weird, world, silly, crazy, YouTube Live, nerd, random, bored, nerds, lol, logical, logical conclusion, conclusion, sweet, swift, Concert, yankovic, tired, taylor swift, being silly

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                • Proper
                  Senior Member
                  • Mar 2013
                  • 147

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Davey Jones
                  You can wear whatever you want. Students at the schools I work at call me a hipster all the time, and I'm as bald as the blazes. Actually, they've switched over to "a mean hipster" 'cause I've given like 10 referrals in the last two weeks. If you're feeling down, try giving kids referrals. It's a huge pick me up.
                  I like the way some of them dress. The rich ones lookv ery solid in well fitted clothes while most looks very unorganized and scraggly. I tried to before but the only time I can bring myself to try being one is on Halloween.

                  Originally posted by Dav7
                  If that's the case, there may after all be benefits attached to having MPB.

                  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xzocvh60xBU
                  I think 80% of hipsters would die if they caught early MPB as most of them can be considered a kid, transitioning into a man child. You would think they're all about their "don't care" attitudes. Most people who were just following the trend will look back on themselves 10, 20 years down the line and wonder "WHY THE ****?!" Not sayin' everybody will but kudos to those who find the value in being a hipster and stickin' with it for life.

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                  • mattj
                    Doctor Representative
                    • Oct 2009
                    • 1422

                    #10
                    Originally posted by 25 going on 65
                    The short time we have to be alive is exactly why I want to spend it with hair instead of without. It is bullsh*t but people treat you differently based on how you look, in my experience.
                    My thinking exactly. We get this relatively short period of life to live and we might as well take steps to ensure that this time is spent feeling as happy as possible. If cosmetic procedures can increase that happiness then so be it.
                    I am a patient and representative of Dr Rahal

                    My FUE With Dr Rahal - Awesome Hairline Result

                    I can be contacted for advice: matt@rahalhairline.com

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                    • mattj
                      Doctor Representative
                      • Oct 2009
                      • 1422

                      #11
                      Originally posted by BigThinker
                      What LaughingCow said. It's just about enjoying this short life, which is a bit easier to do with hair.

                      Or, you can be religious and think there's an afterlife if you want. But if there was, we'd just be headed to hell for being superficial and "mutilating" our bodies with drugs and hair transplants.
                      If heaven and hell exist, I don't think we're going to burn for eternity just for caring about how we look. God, if He exists (and I'm open minded), created us, He created the balding gene and He also set us loose with the sensitivity to care about hair loss as well as gifting us with the creativity to engineer solutions to the problem.
                      I am a patient and representative of Dr Rahal

                      My FUE With Dr Rahal - Awesome Hairline Result

                      I can be contacted for advice: matt@rahalhairline.com

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                      • zaff
                        Junior Member
                        • Feb 2013
                        • 5

                        #12
                        There is no shame in trying to make your life as worthwhile, exciting, and just plain fun as it can be. I won't deny it: I am a bit vain, and if I have the chance to save one of my best physical features, then I'm going to take it.

                        It's not just vanity, either. I'm an aspiring actor, and I noticed some very alarming frontal hair loss just as I turned 19. Since then--I'm now 21--I've been on rogaine and nizoral, and just added finasteride to the mix. I'm well aware of the risks, and boy oh boy am I aware of the expense. But if going bald is going to compromise my ability to do something I love, then I'm going to fight it. I'm not Patrick Stewart, I couldn't be Vin Diesel, I wouldn't want to be Bruce Willis, and I don't want to get stuck playing comic relief and thugs by the time I'm 30.

                        Oh, and for the record: The rogaine worked pretty well--my hairline has bairly moved--and three weeks into fin, I'm happy to report no sides at all. Maybe a slight shed, but my hair is so fair that unless I'm wearing a dark shirt it doesn't show up.

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                        • gmonasco
                          Inactive
                          • Apr 2010
                          • 883

                          #13
                          Originally posted by BigThinker
                          Or, you can be religious and think there's an afterlife if you want. But if there was, we'd just be headed to hell for being superficial and "mutilating" our bodies with drugs and hair transplants.
                          If that's the standard we're to be judged by, then everyone who ever wore braces or got dental implants is headed to Hell as well ...

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                          • BigThinker
                            Senior Member
                            • Oct 2012
                            • 1507

                            #14
                            Originally posted by gmonasco
                            If that's the standard we're to be judged by, then everyone who ever wore braces or got dental implants is headed to Hell as well ...
                            Hey man, I didn't write the Bible, nor do I follow it.

                            I'm all for making yourself look as good as you can. The Bible just considered self-mutilation a sin. Just sayin'.

                            Leviticus 19:28

                            You shall not make any cuts on your body for the dead or tattoo yourselves: I am the Lord.



                            This one's funny:

                            Deuteronomy 14:1
                            “You are the sons of the Lord your God. You shall not cut yourselves or make any baldness on your foreheads for the dead.

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                            • yeahyeahyeah
                              Senior Member
                              • Nov 2011
                              • 1818

                              #15
                              Originally posted by gmonasco
                              If that's the standard we're to be judged by, then everyone who ever wore braces or got dental implants is headed to Hell as well ...
                              Brace work is just realigning teeth, using gravity, as opposed to reshaping bone.

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