There is no hope

**Exodus** · 02-10-2013, 11:00 AM

My advice is to perhaps get off these forums for a start. Coming on here for support can be one thing, but in the real world, we're not here!

Seek medical help for yourself, not for hair, but for your mental health. Get out with people you like and just relax. Get some exercise in there too and try to focus on other things rather then your hair. Yeah it's easier said then done, but look at it, it's eating you day in and out.

Dude, Im sure no-one gives a f*** that you are balding. Friends might make jokes, but they will comment once and move on. That is life.

**baldy1990** · 02-10-2013, 11:25 AM

i'm starting drugs for mental health yes not for balding.But i cant see how a person who is balding dont gets depression,it'ss just horrible to see your youth and appearance change and along with this your self-esteem,i'll have to go short for life

and i'll be ugly,all these hairy men i've seen as idols would be a lost dream for me. i havent made a choice what i'll do about this,try to find a treatment or leave it.Life is beautiful with hair....

**Exodus** · 02-10-2013, 11:30 AM

Then my friend your perception of reality is distorted. Life does go on, with or without hair.

**baldy1990** · 02-10-2013, 11:42 AM

the reality is that you must go on with life even if you are a shity baldy.But also the reality is that balding makes you ugly,the reality is that if you like your appearance you have more confidence.The feeling of feeling good and confident with your appearance is never gonna come again,if everyone was bald that would make me feel better,but the most are not a norwood 2 heading in baldness at my age

**Aames** · 02-10-2013, 12:08 PM

You are suicidal over balding, but you aren't willing to risk a small possibility of sexual side effects with fin or dut? I think your priorities are backwards or something is wrong with your thought patterns.

**baldy1990** · 02-10-2013, 12:41 PM

Originally posted by Aames

You are suicidal over balding, but you aren't willing to risk a small possibility of sexual side effects with fin or dut? I think your priorities are backwards or something is wrong with your thought patterns.

no i already suffer from depression,fin will kill my sperm my hormones and my health too.I cant risk it cause for me fin is a sure death,there are too many victims,you'll have a problem in the future,i'm almost sure for that

**BigThinker** · 02-10-2013, 12:50 PM

Originally posted by baldy1990

So,i'm really sick,i'm not acting normal.I'm destroying myself and the others,i cant handle with hairloss,no one can understand my reaction,no one!How can i accept it,i cant live with this.i cant watch myself every day for the rest of my life balding and being uglier,how can i accept it.I feel there is no way to forget it, but i have no choice,i must shut up and live with balding cause otherwise i'll end up in a hospital or suicide.Sorry if i'm annoying but i seriously need to write something this is the only place that i can talk freely,i cry all day,i'm destroying my mom and my dad i cant study for my exams and i have only 1 lesson for my degree,how pathetic 1 lesson and i'm over but i cant study cause i'm cursed with balding.Yes i'm overreacting but i cant do anything about that,living a life with that fear,now i'll go in medicines but this time the fight is harder cause i cant change balding,i cant change it.I wonder if i'll ever be able to be happy cause any psychological problem i had,balding made it worst,i had a hard time before balding but i was starting to deal with my problems now after the balding nightmare begun,i feel there is no hope

Hey, homes, don't do anything drastic. I'm certain your parents would prefer putting up with their son being a little manic and moody than.. well let's not go there - it's not an option.

We're all here to help you cope; I need to rant and release every once in a while too.

Know that there is hope, and it isn't necessarily in the form of effective hair loss treatment. There's so much out there to enjoy in life, with or without hair. There's women that don't mind, and may be fond of, bald men (regardless of what the self-deprecating bums on this forum say). Your physique, your hobbies, your personality, your academics, your career are all there with or without hair.

I still get bummed out about my hair on occasion - I won't lie - that's why I'm still here, I suppose. But I've decided low dose fin, exercise, nutrition, and a lucrative career will override my hair status anyways.

Hope you're catching my drift here. I wasted a few months of my life being manic and obsessive with my hair. I know what it's like on both sides.

Make good decisions, muchacho.

**baldozer** · 02-10-2013, 12:52 PM

Originally posted by baldy1990

So,i'm really sick,i'm not acting normal.I'm destroying myself and the others,i cant handle with hairloss,no one can understand my reaction,no one!How can i accept it,i cant live with this.i cant watch myself every day for the rest of my life balding and being uglier,how can i accept it.I feel there is no way to forget it, but i have no choice,i must shut up and live with balding cause otherwise i'll end up in a hospital or suicide.Sorry if i'm annoying but i seriously need to write something this is the only place that i can talk freely,i cry all day,i'm destroying my mom and my dad i cant study for my exams and i have only 1 lesson for my degree,how pathetic 1 lesson and i'm over but i cant study cause i'm cursed with balding.Yes i'm overreacting but i cant do anything about that,living a life with that fear,now i'll go in medicines but this time the fight is harder cause i cant change balding,i cant change it.I wonder if i'll ever be able to be happy cause any psychological problem i had,balding made it worst,i had a hard time before balding but i was starting to deal with my problems now after the balding nightmare begun,i feel there is no hope

Finish your lesson and then worry about baldness later on, LOL! And bald is not necessarily ugly. Work on losing your body fat, a thin face looks good even bald IMO.

**baldy1990** · 02-10-2013, 01:04 PM

Originally posted by BigThinker

Hey, homes, don't do anything drastic. I'm certain your parents would prefer putting up with their son being a little manic and moody than.. well let's not go there - it's not an option.

We're all here to help you cope; I need to rant and release every once in a while too.

Know that there is hope, and it isn't necessarily in the form of effective hair loss treatment. There's so much out there to enjoy in life, with or without hair. There's women that don't mind, and may be fond of, bald men (regardless of what the self-deprecating bums on this forum say). Your physique, your hobbies, your personality, your academics, your career are all there with or without hair.

I still get bummed out about my hair on occasion - I won't lie - that's why I'm still here, I suppose. But I've decided low dose fin, exercise, nutrition, and a lucrative career will override my hair status anyways.

Hope you're catching my drift here. I wasted a few months of my life being manic and obsessive with my hair. I know what it's like on both sides.

Make good decisions, muchacho.

thank you for your kind words,for me since september is getting worse,i'll start anti-depressants soon,i think its the most torturous thing i ever faced,i'm not the most normal person anyway.Hairloss is a very difficult thing to deal especially for guys who are already face psychological problems and i was always obsessive of how my hair looked i was thinking i'm not that type of guy,i couldnt believe that i'll go bald,i thought it's not my style lol,no one can imagine himself bald when he is young.

**BigThinker** · 02-10-2013, 01:20 PM

Originally posted by baldy1990

thank you for your kind words,for me since september is getting worse,i'll start anti-depressants soon,i think its the most torturous thing i ever faced,i'm not the most normal person anyway.Hairloss is a very difficult thing to deal especially for guys who are already face psychological problems and i was always obsessive of how my hair looked i was thinking i'm not that type of guy,i couldnt believe that i'll go bald,i thought it's not my style lol,no one can imagine himself bald when he is young.

Heard that. It's especially difficult when you have a NW1, dark, thick haired handsome dude for a maternal grandfather - all the while you've been fed the "you get hair from maternal grandfather" shit. Used to have girls run their hands through my thick hair and I knew they were partially swooned by it (if they didn't explicitly say it). I had invested confidence in my hair, then had to watch my hair be taken away. Just needed to allot that confidence elsewhere.

I can be hyper-analytic and neurotic, I know what it's like to be a bit different mentally.

Since you have 1990 in your name, I'm assuming you're just a few years younger than me (25). This is an especially hard age to go bald - not to say that all ages can't be difficult. Always remember that someone has it worse. Try to be thankful to be blessed with life. It's something I've learned to believe and based my actions on.

**baldy1990** · 02-10-2013, 01:27 PM

Originally posted by BigThinker

Heard that. It's especially difficult when you have a NW1, dark, thick haired handsome dude for a maternal grandfather - all the while you've been fed the "you get hair from maternal grandfather" shit. Used to have girls run their hands through my thick hair and I knew they were partially swooned by it (if they didn't explicitly say it). I had invested confidence in my hair, then had to watch my hair be taken away. Just needed to allot that confidence elsewhere.

I can be hyper-analytic and neurotic, I know what it's like to be a bit different mentally.

Since you have 1990 in your name, I'm assuming you're just a few years younger than me (25). This is an especially hard age to go bald - not to say that all ages can't be difficult. Always remember that someone has it worse. Try to be thankful to be blessed with life. It's something I've learned to believe and based my actions on.

my maternal grandfather was ok,i am so unlucky that i might inherited my uncles baldness or at the best my paternal grand-father,THE ****,i hope i'll not end up much bald,do you take any treatments?

**BigThinker** · 02-10-2013, 01:38 PM

Originally posted by baldy1990

my maternal grandfather was ok,i am so unlucky that i might inherited my uncles baldness or at the best my paternal grand-father,THE ****,i hope i'll not end up much bald,do you take any treatments?

2% keto twice a week (probably discontinue when it runs out) and 1% zinc pyrithione shampoo twice a week, and supplements (biotin, fish oil, multi).

I ordered Cipla 5 mg Finpecia that should be here in a week. I'm a little nervous, but confident in my health (physical and mental) to take it responsibly. The horror stories bother me a bit, but the actual statistics make me believe I'm ready to roll the dice. I understand that hair loss forums are going to be exceptionally saturated with negative experiences.

**baldy1990** · 02-10-2013, 01:43 PM

Originally posted by BigThinker

2% keto twice a week (probably discontinue when it runs out), and supplements (biotin, fish oil, multi).

I ordered Cipla 5 mg Finpecia that should be here in a week. I'm a little nervous, but confident in my health (physical and mental) to take it responsibly. The horror stories bother me a bit, but the actual statistics make me believe I'm read to roll the dice.

i've seen that biotin may accelarates mpb,type it on google but probably the user who write it say crap,

how is your hairline?

**Dan26** · 02-10-2013, 02:13 PM

As a young balding man who isn't wiling to risk his sexual health (even if the risk is extremely small) by systematically reducing DHT, alternative solutions (meaning outside of the 'approved' meds) are the only hope for saving your hair. Having something to address DHT/Androgens is important, but do not be fooled, that is not the only factor contributing to hair loss, there are other ways to address/attack the multiple causes...

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