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  • billysw9
    Junior Member
    • Nov 2012
    • 11

    Help need serious advise

    hello, im only 17 and have had a receeding hairline ever since i can remember but usually have my hair cut to a short back and sides with a fringe to the side, however over the past year my hairloss has devastated me, my hair has thinned out so bad and my hairline is literally a triangle, i was wonderin what my options are ive read about propecia and the side effects scare the life out of me is there a big chance i'll get them? also as my hair is so thin ive read about concellers that make the hair appear thicker but again i dont know much on this so any replies would be welcome, thank you
  • Kayman
    Senior Member
    • Dec 2012
    • 260

    #2
    Originally posted by billysw9
    hello, im only 17 and have had a receeding hairline ever since i can remember but usually have my hair cut to a short back and sides with a fringe to the side, however over the past year my hairloss has devastated me, my hair has thinned out so bad and my hairline is literally a triangle, i was wonderin what my options are ive read about propecia and the side effects scare the life out of me is there a big chance i'll get them? also as my hair is so thin ive read about concellers that make the hair appear thicker but again i dont know much on this so any replies would be welcome, thank you
    Hello, welcome to the forum. To treat hair loss the following are most effective, propecia ( it works well but it inhibits DHT in your body which is a hormone responsible for all kinds of functions in your body so supressing it as you know can cause problems in some people, you need to weigh up the pro's and cons and decide whats best for you) then there is minoxidil, or rogaine as its often branded, which is a topical solution (applied twice daily) that can regrow and thicken hair at the crown and sometimes (not often) the hairline but it takes around 6 months to a year to see results with it. Then there is Nizoral shampoo that you use alongside propecia or minoxidil but not on its own as it's not an answer to hairloss in its own right but allows the other two to work a little more effectively. Combining all three gives the best results.
    Don't be fooled into buying natural remedies or herbal tablets, or any of these "breakthrough in hair loss treatment" lotions, that's all nonsense and a waste of your time and money. the three things that work are propecia, minoxidil (rogaine) and Nizoral when combined with propecia or minoxidil or both. Concealers are basically you painting or dusting your head to make the hair look thicker however rain, swimming, sweating will become a problem and in certain light they don't look natural. As more hair disappears over time the less effective and more obvious concealers will be.
    Or lastly, my preferred method of combating hairloss is the electric clippers with a number one guard on it.

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    • billysw9
      Junior Member
      • Nov 2012
      • 11

      #3
      i wouldnt mind shaving my head but honestly my headshape is very weird i get comments about it even with hair even though im not ugly with a shaved head i feel i would be, i have a small face and then a very large forehead it just wouldnt look right, plus at 17 i just dont think it would suit

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      • Kayman
        Senior Member
        • Dec 2012
        • 260

        #4
        Originally posted by billysw9
        i wouldnt mind shaving my head but honestly my headshape is very weird i get comments about it even with hair even though im not ugly with a shaved head i feel i would be, i have a small face and then a very large forehead it just wouldnt look right, plus at 17 i just dont think it would suit
        I hear this a lot, people saying "but I have a weird head shape" when in fact they don't. everyone's head's are shaped differently some have spherical heads (like karl pilkington) and some people have contoured heads, it's not weird it's normal. Plus if you shaved your head your forehead would look smaller not bigger.
        A plus would be people would get used to seeing you with a shaved head from an early age and as your hair loss progresses throughout your twenties people are less likely to notice or even care because by this point they are already used to your shaved head. And you'd get to avoid all the mess and hassle that is hair retention treatments like I've listed above. Give it a go you might as well.

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        • drybone
          Senior Member
          • Dec 2012
          • 867

          #5
          Originally posted by billysw9
          i wouldnt mind shaving my head but honestly my headshape is very weird i get comments about it even with hair even though im not ugly with a shaved head i feel i would be, i have a small face and then a very large forehead it just wouldnt look right, plus at 17 i just dont think it would suit
          Hi.

          17 is very young to have male pattern baldness. We know how frustrating our hairline can become , so lets see what we can do.

          Can you put up a few pictures of your hair and hairline so we can see what kind of hairloss we are talking about. Then some of our experienced members can give you some advice on how to proceed.

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          • BigThinker
            Senior Member
            • Oct 2012
            • 1507

            #6
            Originally posted by billysw9
            i wouldnt mind shaving my head but honestly my headshape is very weird i get comments about it even with hair even though im not ugly with a shaved head i feel i would be, i have a small face and then a very large forehead it just wouldnt look right, plus at 17 i just dont think it would suit
            When I was 16, I buzzed my hair for the first time in my life. Like it happened yesterday, I remember this pudgy little douche of a kid laughing and commenting on the shape of my head while I was sitting next to a girl I had a huge crush on. To this day, it still is the only thing that's kept me from clipping all my hair off. I continually wonder: if that hadn't happened, would I have already clipped my head and had no beef with it? Hard to say.

            There's no real advise in what I'm saying - I just know that feel, bro (in relation to head shape). Do your best to stay strong, and find healthy things like academics and exercise/sport to get your mind off your hair if it should continue to deteriorate. I've wasted ~5 months letting my hair quality play a role in my self-esteem and well-being. It isn't worth it.

            Kind regards, young man.

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            • ravegrover
              Senior Member
              • Jan 2011
              • 262

              #7
              I dont recommend concealars. No matter how hard you try, this stuff doesnt look natural and everyone will make fun of you. See a doctor and possibly, start Fin.

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              • clandestine
                Senior Member
                • Aug 2011
                • 2002

                #8
                You're balding.

                Get on fin, and risk sexual side effects, or don't.

                Also, minox and nizoral, growth stim and anti androgen shampoo, but are less effective without a DHT blocker of some kind.

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                • billysw9
                  Junior Member
                  • Nov 2012
                  • 11

                  #9
                  thanks for all the responses, any idea of where i can get propecia online? i live in london, also a recommended concealer?

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                  • Kayman
                    Senior Member
                    • Dec 2012
                    • 260

                    #10
                    Originally posted by billysw9
                    thanks for all the responses, any idea of where i can get propecia online? i live in london, also a recommended concealer?
                    Go and see your doctor about the propecia so you can get a prescription for it, its important for him or her to know you are taking it in case of any side effects and if you are prescribed another medicine in the future for another condition he / she needs to know if the propecia is going to effect that medication. Also if you have any blood tests done in the future they will need to know you're on propecia etc.
                    You can get it online but you need to let your doctor know you are taking it, taking it unsupervised would be irresponsible.

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                    • billysw9
                      Junior Member
                      • Nov 2012
                      • 11

                      #11
                      is it free or will it cost? if so how much, thanks again

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                      • Kayman
                        Senior Member
                        • Dec 2012
                        • 260

                        #12
                        Originally posted by billysw9
                        is it free or will it cost? if so how much, thanks again
                        You cant get it on the NHS so it costs. Someone here posted they got a years worth of generic propecia for about £7 but they got it through a private dermatologist which cost about £100 for the consultation.
                        Boots sell it for £90 for 3 months worth but you'll need to produce a prescription from your doctor when you get it, you'll only need to produce the prescription to them once and they'll put you on their "hair retention program". Or you can buy it from an online pharmacy which is cheaper still, I'm sure someone will post a website you can order from I'm not entirely sure of one myself as I went to Boots.
                        But the most important thing is to inform your GP you are taking it. I'd also say do your research and learn how propecia works, its hormone suppression which is quite a big thing for your body to adjust to, so research thoroughly and decide if it's something you want to try.

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                        • drybone
                          Senior Member
                          • Dec 2012
                          • 867

                          #13
                          I agree with the good advice given on here so far.

                          At 17 you are still a minor and I would feel much better if you got a medical opinion from your doctor before you make your decision.

                          Are you able to put up some pics of your hairline? You can right click the photo and block your face out for privacy if you wish.

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                          • billysw9
                            Junior Member
                            • Nov 2012
                            • 11

                            #14
                            i will put photos up a bit later

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