Hair Loss has destroyed my Career, social life, and happiness.

[chrisis]

I'm sorry to read your post. If you have tried all of the available options and surgery is not possible for you, then you may have to take it on the chin and develop other aspects of your physical being and personality. Having good physique for example can be extremely attractive. A guy boarded my train last night with such a stacked upper body; particularly impressive shoulders, that he stood out so much. His head was shaved.

The words of the Serenity Prayer come to mind:

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.